Well Lets see here.. Theres not much to me.. I'm 21 yrs old. I got married in march of 2008... My husband is in the army... He is currently serving his second tour in Iraq.. He's due home in a couple of weeks! I love to help people in anyway that I can.. I hope to go to nursing school here very soon... I guess thats all to me
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have any of you been in a inter-racial relationship where ur parents and family didnt approve? if so what happened? and do u have any advice for me?
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I have never been in a inter-racial relationship.. So i dont know how you feel.. but do your parents disapprove because hes of a different background.. or does he have a rep of doing bad things... but your parents are just looking out for you.... There could be trouble with mixed backgrounds.. I've had some friends who've had some trouble.
Hope I helped...
~*Jackie~*
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im 13 in the 8th grade and ive never had a b/f. the guy that i like keeps on saying that he dosent like me.
is there something wrong with me? (link)
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No there is nothing wrong with you.. Everyone thinks that.. but there isnt... If he doesnt like you.. The only option you have is to try and move on and find another guy.. and it wont be to hard because your young.. and able to find other guys..
Hope I helped
~*Jackie~*
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im in 8th grade and ive never had a boyfriend or been kissed. im really pretty (every1 sez so atleast) and idk whats wrong with me! im always smiling and happy and im really funny and goofy..whats wrong with this picture? (link)
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you are young... I have a sister that is going into 9th grade.. and she just got her 1st boyfriend at the beginning of the summer... Dont rush things.. The perfect guy will come along eventually. and I'm suer your a very pretty girl... Guys just dont know what they are missing out on girls.. Guys like the slutty girls (well atleast here in New York they do)
I hope I helped atleast a little...
If ya ever need anything.. Drop one in my inbox..
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?
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You are too young to be thinking about having a baby.. Wait until your out of school and you are stable enough to have a family.. you are to young to want a baby right now.. you have your whole life ahead of you... Having a child is a very big responsibility.. and you are young... and when you have a baby you have no time for friends.... going out.. or anything.. so live your life as a teenager.. and think about having a baby when you have the money.. The home..... and the things she will need... money.. Love....
I hope I helped..
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I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad? (link)
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I think that you should just come out and tell them.. Be honest with them.. They need to know that when you have a big problem like this you know you can talk to them. Yes.. your parents will always support you.. My mom is really helping me with my daughter. But at first she was a little upset with me.. but.. I was her baby.. and I was having a baby myself.. and I had to grow up real fast. And thats how your parents are going to react.. Maybe they will just accept it... and not get angry.. But I think you just need to get together with them.. and come right out and tell them... this is a big deal... I hope I helped..
If ya need anything.. drop me one in my inbox..
Good Luck..
Keep me updated!!
~*Jackie~*
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my 17 yr old sister is 8 weeks pregnant adn i kno shes not ready to be a mother and i dont kno how to help her get prepared! wut should i do?
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No one is ready to become a mom.. But I'm 17 and my daughter is 1.. But all you can do is tell her you will always be there for her.. Make sure shes comfortable and has what she needs... Dont do too much for her because then she will feel like she cant do anything for herself... I hope I helped
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Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you! (link)
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When I was pregnant for my daughter... I loved this part.. Picking out the names...
Girls- Alexia, Raeliegh, Harliegh, Abigail, Taylor, Tyra, Kennedy, Kamry,Nichole
Boys- Kaden, Caleb, Nicolas, Brayden,Camden
Sorry I didnt have boy names. I had a little girl so I had more girl names picked out..
Good Luck..Hope everything goes well!
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How do u stop thinkin about a guy u really like and u know u have to stop ?!! help please! (link)
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Thats a hard thing to do... Believe me.. I am still hung up on my ex boyfriend whom I havent been with for almost a year.. but if you have strong feelings for this guy they will probably not go away until you find someone who you like even better.. Even then... You cant just get rid of strong feelings you have for someone.. They always stick with you.. Just try to move on.. and meet other guys who you know can make you just as happy or whatever.. I hope I helped..
If ya ever need anything.. drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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well I'm 14 and I just had a baby and I don't know what I should do like should I keep braist feeding or sumthing I'm so confused I'm only going in 9th grade and it's really hard for me to take care of my baby when my parents aren't around I love my little girl so much her names Zoé but the father doesn't love her or want anything to do with her what should I do I need help?? (link)
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Hey Sweetie..I know what your going through.. I'm 17 and have a 1 yr old daughter named Raeliegh.If you are breast feeding you want to keep breast feeding her... How old is Zoe? I never breast feed.. But your doctor will tell you when you can start giving her milk.... But dont do so until then.. Talk to your mom.. She's done this before and she can help you. and for the dad.. My baby's father doesnt want anything to do with my baby either. But.. Look at is this way.. he's missing out on a great child.. but what you do need to do... Is take this guy to court for child support. You didnt make this baby on your own.. and he needs to atleast pay for the things Zoe needs even if he doesnt want to see her. But in the long run he will be disappointed because he didnt see his little girl grow up...
I hope I helped.. If you need anything at all.. you can email me.. Or drop one in my inbox.. I'm on AIM all the time... you can even get ahold of me there... I hope I helped a little..
Good Luck with the little one.
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Has anyone out there ever used Herbal Essences dye kit? And if so did you like it and it was easy?
Also is going from like a alburn color to 44 Radiant Ruby a good choice? (link)
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I have never used Herbal essences dye kit before but a couple of my friends have and they said they didnt like it... that the dye washes out really quickly and the color fades really fast... and.. I'm not too sure about the color.. I had a hard time going from Blonde to a brownish color... So I cant answer that one for you.. I hope I helped
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What iif yur best friend likes the sayme kid as yu do!?! whta do yu do0? im so0 confused riight now! i made out with this kid last night nd so0- did she!!!!...uhh ii dont no but she went to his house 2day nd who nos wuht! i new him for such a long time 2!! - he wanted to get wiht me so0 mii other friend who was there hooked us up! but i was getin tired nd didnt feel to good so0 mii bess friend went nd made out with him right after me! :( ... i dont no wut to doO! uhhh sum1 plz help me i rate good!!!! thanx
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Sweetie... I know this is a tough thing to go through. I've been through it. But to be honest with you. You don't want a guy who will make out with your best friend. If he can do that then he can do anything with any other girl. a guy like that is known to be a cheater and you dont want that. But I think you need to sit down with the guy and tell him how you exactly feel about the whole thing and see what he says and tell him exactly how you feel about him. and who knows maybe something will happen from there.. But you also need to sit down with your friend and tell her how you feel. Because if you dont shes going to think its ok to do.. and will keep on doing it.. Friends like that arent friends you want.. Sorry to say.. but.. I hope I helped.. Atleast a little... If ya need anything else.. or just to talk.. drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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i really like this guy, chris, and i have for the whole summer, but the thing is, my dad doesnt like him, he says things about him that really make me mad, i know that my dad just cares and doesnt want me to get hurt or anything, but there really isnt anything wrong with chris, like the things that my dad says are completely ridiculous! just this morning i asked my dad if I could have my phone back because chris might call me from out of town, but as soon as I mentioned his name, my dad said no, its really beginning to annoy me that my dad can't trust my good judgement, I'm a smart girl and I know what I'm doing, someone please help me here! i rate (btw 14f)
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I was having the same problem.. Except with my mom. Even if its hard to believe. There has to be a reason for your dad not to like Chris. But Then again there may not. But in most times there isnt one they are just trying to protect you. but maybe you need to sit down with your dad and talk to him and get the real reason why he doesnt trust you with Chris.Because you are only 14 and you pretty much dont have any other option then to sit down and talk with your dad... I hope I helped :(
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Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?! (link)
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Well.... I've had the same problem.. My best friend is starting to like one of my ex boyfriends whom I still truely love.. But could never get back with. But you need to talk to your friend and tell her how you feel.. To me... a friend should never date another friends boyfriends. But thats just my opinion. If you guys end up fighting over it. Just let it go through. She will sooner or later realize how much she actually needs you in her life.. I hope I helped...
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When me and my boyfriend first got together he asked me how long i wanted to be a virgin and i said until i was atleast 16.. well we have been together so long and i am ready to go that far with him but we made a promise to wait until i was 16.. long story.. I confronted him and he said i wanna see if we can keep our promise.. i really want to loose my virginity to him.. what should I do? (link)
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Well Sweetie... I think i would wait until i was 16... He may feel more comfortable that way... But... Dont be in a hurry to lose your virginity... You may regret it later! Hope I helped!
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i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating. (link)
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You need to go see a doctor.... There may be something very wrong with you!
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what are some good ideas for gifts for my boyfriend (of 5 months) birthday? (link)
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When I had gotten my boyfriend something for his birthday. I had just gotten him a shirt.. but what works is when your at the mall or something... and he sees something he likes.. Id go back and get it.
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Ok well I have this boyfriend and he doesnt go to my school or anything. I meet him through my friend from soccer camp. We started talking online and then a while later we started going out. Later he broke up with me saying that he disn't think things were going to work out because we still hadn't seen each other. Now a year later, we still haven't seen each other but we are going out again. I am thinking that now I don't want to go out with him until I see him and stuff. How should I tell him this without hurting him too much? (I have never broken up with anybody before) please help soon!!! Thanx and I'll rate you! (link)
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sweetie... I may be a little 2 late on this. but. You should be straight with him. Let him know what you really like him.. But you want to meet and do stuff together to make sure you 2 are together because you like each other. this way maybe he wont be as hurt. Most guys are not very sensative when it comes to this. and wont be too hurt about getting broken up with... I hope I helped...
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ok im 13 and so is my boyfriend, weve been going out for over 2 months now... hes had sex with other girls b4 but ive nevr had sex b4... he wants to have sex with me really bad but he always says he understands if i dont... i kinda do tho... but then i dont... im really confuzed cuz i really lov him its just i dont wanna get pregnant and i people will find out if i have sex with him and i dont want people calling me names like a slut and stuf, at this same time im in a huge fight with some girls, but i really wanna have sex with my boyfriend but then i dont! i NEED HELP!! (link)
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Sweetie.. You are 13 yrs old.. You have your whole life ahead of you.. you dont want to have sex at this young of an age. but. I cant decide for you. But if you decide you do want to with this guy.. Make sure he uses protection. and as for the girls. you guys are young. and girls will say anything to you to make you feel bad.. But deep down.. you know that this is the first guy youve ever been with. So you know what your not a slut... and a whore.. I hope I helped.... If any comes up.. Drop one in my inbox
~*Jackie~*
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My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!! (link)
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I think that you should tell your girlfriend what is going on.. but.. if your girlfriend really loves you.. she wont let your friend come between you to.. but you def need to mention it to her.. and she if she has feelings for him. I hope I helped.
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Ok i have a lil problem.Well I am 17 years old going to be 18 very shortly and i am almost 8 months pregnant which i am happy about.The problem is my mom.Shes happy and excitied about this baby but i feel like shes trying to tell me how to live my life and raise this baby and it is really starting to get to me and i told her this and she says that shes not trying to do that but i can see that she pretty much is doing that just dont realize it.And another thing is she keeps on argueing with me about my b/f(the father of my baby) which i have been with for almost 2 years now.Shes always on my back about him not having a job yet and trying to tell me what i should do when i dont want to do those things, which he is looking for one and going through this one thing to get a good job.And shes just always bitching at me and on my back for everything all the time and i dont need the stress right now and im getting sick of hearing about it and argueing with her.And we have talked about it before and she says shes just scared.But she needs to learn to stay somewhat out of my business which i always tell her because its my life and i am going to be 18 with a baby and i need to become responsible.And all of this is just making me really stressed out and dont know what to do at this point anymore.What do you think i should do??!! :*-( (link)
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Hey Sweetie.. I dont think your mom means to try and tell you how to live your life. But you are going to be a young mom. and you need all the help you can get believe me. I'm 17 and have a 1 yr old daughter. and I felt the same way you did about your mom. She always tried telling me what to do.. and how to do it... and she never liked my babys dad.. but.. you need to tell your boyfriend that he needs to get a job. you guys need to give this baby the best.. and that means someone has to get a job to get the things that she needs. But don't try and shut your mom out.. Because in the long run.. you just might need her.. I hope I helped.. If ya need anything.. Drop one in the inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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