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What do you do if you like somone but you dont want to? And you really think he likes you cause he alwas flirts with you, but your not sure.I'm 13 and a female
It`s hard to pretend you care about someone..but it`s 10 times harder to pretend you don`t.
I have started my period and, everytime one of my friends start we all tell each other....BUT, im sordive embarressed to tell them should I tell them or not?
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kRISSY
Not unless you want to. There's nothing to be embarassed about, but if you don't feel comfortable telling your friends about it, then don't. It's really none of their business so it shouldn't matter;-)
everyone tells me im a slut...even tho im not at all just because i wear slutty clothes...how can i make them stop
Wear less revealing clothes. You could either do that or stand up for yourself- some people think that just because someone dresses more revealing than others that it automatically makes them a slut, but it doesn't.
what is adhd?? please help me bc my ex bf has it and every1s like YOU WENT OUT WITH A ADHD BOY?!!!
Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder..nothing wrong with dating someone with ADHD..it's just hard for them to keep still or pay attention for a long period of time.
ok well i usually dont write on these things but theres this guy in my class and im not sure how to tell what he thinks of me. he looks at me sometimes in class and he smiles at me when i look at him. and sometimes when i turn around hes looking at me and then we both kind of look away. hes really cute and id love to know if he likes me back. yall please tell me some signs so i can figure out what hes thinking. i know im not ugly .. actually lots of guys think im hot (not trying to make my self sound cool or something) but i just want to know what you think about why he always is looking at me and smiling.
It seems like he's checking you out..ask him if he likes anyone! If you can't do it, have a friend ask him if he likes you. But you say you're hot..so maybe that's why he's lookin at you. Drop him hints if you're interested in him. Goodluck
well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say hi to steve but we like dont know eachother.. so do u know what i could do or say? thankss
Yea, you should talk to him about it b/c if he always stares at you that's a good sign that he might like you back! You could ask him if he likes anyone..just flirt with him and drophints that you are interested! Goodluck!
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Ok I am 14/f and my boyfriend and I have been going out for like 3 weeks now and he's great but lately we have been gettin into little fights. Like the other I was on AIM and my b/f and I werent really talkin that much... so I was talkin to my best friend tony... well my b/f got all mad and he says I dont ever talk to him and we made up but i really think that he is still mad... what should I do... I will rate high and I will take n e answers???
Thanks!
Hey!Well first off, "Every relationship has it's flaws." I learned that from a VERY wise man..*you know who you are;-)* But you two will fight yea, it happens. Be thankful you two made up. Maybe he just had a moment of jealousy? Nothing too bad, talk to him about it& find out if he's still upset about it. Goodluck!
Hi. I have been having this problem with my blatter. I haven't been able to tell weather i have to pee or not. I have recently done some drugs that I beleive could mess up my kidney's but I have also had sex. I am wondering if sex can make you not know if you can pee, and also give you a felling of for example. A day when you havent pee'd for a while and you need to go really bad. That feeling...but when u sit down..nothing comes out. Could that be from sex? Or no. Plz do not delete this. After this question I'll never ask it again! Plz and thank you.
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You could possibly have a Urinary Tract infection from having sex. Try taking Cranberry Pills& drink alot of water if you take them. Or just drink alot of Cranberry juice. Hope I helped!
Okay, here's the thing. I have a friend who used to really really like this guy. She was like obsessed! :o It annoyed me sometimes...well, onto the point. I like him now, and my friend likes somebody else. It's been quite a while since she liked him. Well, now I like him. But I'm afraid my friend might still like him, plus I'm not sure he likes me back, even though I think so. Please answer, and please be realistic. Don't be all like "Forget your friend, ask him out!!11"
Thanks in advance...
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Well if she likes someone else right now, then go for him. But talk to her& find out if she still likes him. If she doesn't then you got lucky, if she does, well..then you'll have to decide if you would choose friendships over relationships. Also, ask her how she would feel if you two hooked up. Talk to the guy you like..find out if he likes you the way you do him..that's the best I can give ya! Goodluck!
ok, ive been likin this guy for a long time. but then the othe rday we were sittin in class and i looked at him and he was sittin there pickin his nose!! it was so wrong! then, when he thought i wasnt lookin, he ATE IT!! it was so wrong. i really like him, but i dont think ill ever get over the mental images of that day!! plus, i dont think i could ever kiss him knowing that boogers have passed through his lips.
HAHA! That's kinda disturbing if you ask me..but if you really like him, you'll get past that. But if you honestly can't get those visuals outta your head then you might as well give up..Goodluck..hmm
I NEED to learn how to swallow pills... i just cant do it, i have a huge gag reflex but i'm in so much pain and the only med. i can get is swallowable. Anyone know any tricks??
Fill your mouth with water or w/e it is you drink. Then tilt your head back& open your mouth and put the pill in your mouth. Then swallow them both at the same time...that's what I do. Hope I helped!
Dear Short Shit #2,
I regret to inform you that your advice to my last post is insufficient to my needs. Thanks for attempting to answer my questions with the suggestions that I received. I have, however, found that you are wrong. I do
Dear Short Shit #1,
MAN OH MAN!! You are obviously a dummy..everyone who's anyone KNOWS that I, Amber love you, *Short Shit #1*...wayyy more than she will EVER love me! That right there is a proven fact! SO GET OVER IT!
MUCH LOVE,
Amber;)
Okay so here's my problem. I've liked this boy for a very very long time now. We went out for a lil about 3 years ago but he didn't want a gf then. I really want him but now but I'm nervous around him now since we haven't talked in a while. He told me two years that we'd go back out when we're in High School and now it's like our smore year. What do I do?
btw you give good advice. what state r u from???
Thanks hun! You can talk to him and ask him if he still feels the same way towards you. He really shouldn't have promised you that you two would hook up in two years if he can't predict the future. But hopefully he still has the same feelings for you as you do for him. It's not guarunteed that you two will hook up being the fact that he said that two years ago. But hopefully everything works out GEAT for you! Guys sometimes say things they don't mean later on, so don't get your hopes up too high, or you'll end up gettin hurt. Goodluck!
Btw..I'm in Florida;)
i want abs badly i want a major six pack wut is a quick way to get some i dont care wut it takes i just want to see some change wut excercises can be done for abs???
Crunches& situps..But don't start off doing 100 a day otherwise you might pull some muscles! Maybe start with like 50 a day& do like 2 sets a day. When it starts feeling like it's not doing anything, increase the amount of them you do. Goodluck!
I got my first kiss wednesday and I want to be able to tell my mom and I want to be able to talk to her about things like that and I don't know what to do. Like what can i do so that my moms and mines relationship is stronger? and so i can tell her and talk to her about things like this.
Aww! Just sit her down& bring it up..that's how i did it a few weeks ago,& it worked wonderful for me;) You're mom will be soo happy that you can come to her with things like that& that will automatically bring you two together MUCH closer! Hope I helped!
I am and have been sexually attracted to my bestfreind.We grew up together and have lived together acouple times. He moved out of town so I didn't have to face it. NOw he's back and I wont him more and more everyday. He doesn't know that I like him like that. I have a boyfriend and he has a couple girls, but i am feeling him. What am I to do? His mom and my mom been bestfriends since grade school and it will shock the whole family. Should I tell him? And will it lead to what I wont?
TELL HIM! Yea your parents might be shocked but it's great since you two have known each other forever! Hopefully he likes you the same way! Hope eveyrthing works out for you two!
so theres this country song and i wanna know who sings it and what its called. its about a guy and girl killing themselves...something like a drunken lullaby or somethin. please help i rate 5's all around!
Brad Paisley& Alison Krauss-- Whiskey Lullaby..good song;)
what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them?
To be honest..I didn't think there WAS diffence..sorry:/
I like my best friends boyfriend and I think he likes he too, because he is always flirting with me, but I know she really likes him, what do I do?? I am so lost!!!
You need to decide..best friend..or best friend's boyfriend. If you don't wanna hurt your best friend then just forget about her b/f..if you don't care b/c you really like him..then go for it. Just think about the crap that'd be putting your best friend through..HER best friend dating her boyfriend:/..If I were you, I'd get over the guy b/c my best friends always come first. Hope I helped!
k i like this kid.. and im really afraid to talk to him. we've made eye contact and everything.. and im really not good with talking to boys or anything... anyone have any adivce?? i give 5's!!
If you're really scared to talk to him, have a friend do it, or write him a note. It's always better to do in person but if you really can't..there's always the friends! Just drop him hints that you like him& hopefully he gets the idea! Goodluck!