I am and have been sexually attracted to my bestfreind.We grew up together and have lived together acouple times. He moved out of town so I didn't have to face it. NOw he's back and I wont him more and more everyday. He doesn't know that I like him like that. I have a boyfriend and he has a couple girls, but i am feeling him. What am I to do? His mom and my mom been bestfriends since grade school and it will shock the whole family. Should I tell him? And will it lead to what I wont?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Niiqquhzdream answered Sunday October 17 2004, 8:44 pm: Life is about taking risk. Most people ARE afraid to become couple because of the friendship they have already developed. You could keep your crush a secret but what happens when you see him with someone else? He's going to wonder if you look mad at him while he's with his girlfriend. The worst he could say is no...which would make your friendship a little weird but then think of what would happen if he says he feels the same way? Since you have a boyfriend, it's going to be a lot harder breaking to both of them about the crush. Think about if the consequences are worth the action.-Tiffany [ Niiqquhzdream's advice column | Ask Niiqquhzdream A Question ]
babiigurl076 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 6:34 pm: TELL HIM! Yea your parents might be shocked but it's great since you two have known each other forever! Hopefully he likes you the same way! Hope eveyrthing works out for you two! [ babiigurl076's advice column | Ask babiigurl076 A Question ]
desib00 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 3:03 pm: don't got hru lifw wondering "what if" gurl. this guy might be perfect for you! give it atleast a chance and tell him. who knows? maybe he'll feel like that too. but if you're owrried about things beocming different btwn you two, then ask yourself if you're wiling to rick your friendship over this. but if u feel so strong for him, i'd personally tell him. who knows? maybe you're families would be happy for you two. good luck and i hope i helped! [ desib00's advice column | Ask desib00 A Question ]
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