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Occupation: Microbiologist
Age: 24
Member Since: May 3, 2006
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Last Update: September 8, 2006
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Upon reading so many other questions and having some of my own I decided to ask the guys out there specifically, (ladies you may answer as well) whether or not you can love more than one person at once. I guess you can substitute like for love as well but I am interested to see what you guys have to say about this. Obviously you can be interested in more than one person, but can you really have equal feelings for two people at the same time? So basically for you guys out there who have girlfriends and ladies who have boyfriends as well, can you love that person and still have equally strong feelings for another person who is not your current partner or is it merely a random attraction? What do you all have to say about this I am curious to find out. :) Cheers! (link)
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Real, genuine, true love is for one person only. Even upon the end of a relationship, that kind of love takes a long time to fade. No, you can't truely be in love with more then one person at a time, that is just infatuation.
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can you get pregnant if you have sex on your period when you dont use a condom? what are some of the consequenses? Also how long does a sperm stay alive when it is out of the penis? (link)
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Yes you can certainly get pregnant, Both other answers are wrong about sperm though, it can live for 5-7 DAYS. This is why you should always use a condom every time and if you are serious about preventing pregnancy then get on the pill as well.
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I got my tongue pierced about a week ago. And i noticed my tongue is VERY dry[im drinking water] and also i have like film on my tongue. I am brushing my tongue but nothings working. Will this go away? Is it normal? Anything i can do to make it go away?
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It could be bacterial, have you been gargling with listerine? You should try it a few times a day. If it doesn't improved in 2 days then talk to a doctor.
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i use to like this guy for a real long time he would always play with my hart and say that he didn't know what he was thinking and now he kinda likes me but i don't wanna like him and i am kinda over him but everyone (all of his friends) say i still like him and that he is my everything and stuff like that so i kinda said that i don't like him and that i could get him anytime i wanted to one of his friends so me and this friend made a bet that i could get him back before we went back to school. and if i did it i got $100 and if i don't than i don't have to do nothing i already started flirting with him again and its kinda going well but i feel bad i mean my sister says i should do it for all the things he did to me but i would feel bad i wanna tell him but i don't know should i keep going with the plan or should i stop? (link)
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You should stop, that's bad Karma sweetie.
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Okay, heres the deal! My period is three days late, (which i could care less about) BUT, i am leaving for vacation on the 25th, then i'm coming back the 28th. Since its only three days, i dont care about that, but next month, i'm leaving on the 17th, and coming back a week later. Now, my quistion is, since i dont want to have my period next month, during the time i'm on vacation, is there any way to lessen the time that i have my period. Like foods that i could eat, or excersise's i could do? Any help would really be appreciated!!!! (link)
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All those previous answers are BS. No, there isn't anything you can do to purposefully delay a period. Some specific birth control pills allow you to skip them though, ask your GYN.
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Ook, I want to go to a tanning booth so bad! I know they arn't safe, and everyone tells me I'll get skin cancer, but so many people tan outside in the 100 degree weather and thats just as bad! Nothing in this world is 100% safe, and thats the chance you have to take. Should I go tanning? And how dark does it make you? And since this is my first time how long should I go in, and do I have to take off all my clothes off? (link)
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Sure, go tanning. Also why not start smoking, eating lots of trans fats and quit exercising?
Look, it's up to you if you want to do things that clearly harm your body, but there are haelthier alternatives like spray tans and self tanners. Why not try those first?
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I'm a twenty year old female who finally gave herself to a guy. I have always been worried about having sex and getting pregant the first time. My mother always told me that you have to have an orgasim to get pregant. Is that true? (link)
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No, not true at all.
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I've been on birth control now for about a year. My boyfriend and I just recently had unprotected sex, without pulling out. I'm pretty good with taking my pill every night around the same time but there were two times during this cycle that I had ended up taking it the next day, including that night we had sex. I'm on the placebo pills right now and still no period. Could I be pregnant? (link)
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Sure, you could be.
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I saw You, Me & Dupree today and it was rated PG-13. At one point in the movies, Dupree said the F word. Since when is that word allowed to be in PG-13 movies? (link)
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Movies can contain no more then one F bomb and still recieve a pg13 rating. That is the language limit, I'm not 100% what the violence/nudity limit is.
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Ive heard of eye exercises that help your eye get better? IS it true and does anyone know any//know links? Thank You! (link)
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It is impossible to improve your eyesight through excercises, it will only improve the muscle that move your eyes.
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to start a career in acting would it be best to get an agent?.. if so.. how much are they and where can i get a good one? are there any other ways to get started? thank you! (link)
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Talent agents are found in any major city, but of course the best advice would be to go to LA or NYC. Agents get you jobs, do NOT EVER pay them or anyone before they get you a job. That is a scam. A genuine agent will take a percentage of your earnings from the jobs they find for you.
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Ok so my friend's coming over and we want to make out, but I have this fever blister {cold sore} but you can't even see it anymore because it's going away. Could he get one or get sick? I was going to tell him before we made out that I had one and if he still wanted to because you can't even tell it's there. I was just wondering thought. Thanks!!! (link)
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Yes, he will most certainly get exposed to the virus- and that means he may or many not get a cold sore from that. The Herpes Virus (simplex1) is what causes cold sores and you can never get rid of it once you get it in your system, AND you can spread it to your genitals. It would b every wrong of you to just "not tell" him.
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my boyfreind showed everyone his private area and im really hurt.
should i break up with him?
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yes.
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is it true that drinking ALOT of milk could make your boobs get bigger? im 14 mine are really small and i know i still have lots of time for them to grow but im very thin with a high metabolism. so if i drank alot more milk would it add some size to them? (link)
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Absolutely positively 100% false.
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is it true that if you have anal sex then you are still a virgin? (link)
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Ha! Yeah, try to pass the one off. No offense, but no one is going to buy that from you.
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well i got my period the first day of camp and i stil have it because its still he first week of camp. I put pads in, in the morning and since we swim first period i take it out in the bathroom and go swimming because your period temporarilly stops in water. I don't put a pad in after because i usually go to free swim at the end of the day so it would not make any sense. But my bathing suit bottoms get all bloody. Is there any way to make it easier at camp with putting the pads in.
PLEASE HELP! I rate al 5's!
thx
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Your period most certainly does not stop in water, and you are risking embarrasment for yourself, not to mention how unsanitary it is to bleed in the water where everyone else is swimming. Wear a tampon, that is your only option if you want to swim.
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I'm 18 he's 21. We are thinking about getting married after 1 year together. He has a lot of sexual fantasies of being with other girls but says he can try to forget about having sex with more people and settle down. Is he REALLY ready for marrige? (link)
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No, obviously.
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hi i'm 15 and i have a boyfriend my period is two days late but weve been having alot of sex a week but everytime he cums he takes it out and then i check the condumn and it isnt broken is my period cycle changing? i'm really worried but im sure im not preganant because we always had protection and never broke and we never did anything that could cause it so please write back ASAP!!!!!!
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You can still get pregnant even when you wear a condom, it isn't 100%. Get on the Pill.
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does anybody know if weight watchers is actually a good program to lose weigtht. cuz i need to lose weight and im getting signed up for it. i dont want to waste my money so please help. thanks (link)
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Weight Watchers is pretty much the only program that really does work, as long as you stick to it.
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I defentally need some advise!Ok well theres this guy...i really love him and always have, ever since i knew Kimmy. She is 16 and just recentally moved from Mongolia, so obviously her and her family are oriental. The only problem is the guy im madly in love with is her dad, Sanneybobo. I mean its not like hes married or anything. Well he was. It was just a fling, i know he really digs me! Hes 57 and i am 16. Do you think its too much of an age diffrence or will the love we both share for each other shine trough? Please tell me what you think! (link)
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This can not possibly be a serious question.
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