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these girls say they are going to come kick my ass both of them dont know how to fight im not really worried about it but do you have any tips on fighting?

Honestly most girls are all talk. And most of the fights that ive been in and seen are stupid, hair pulling and scratching and just stupid stuff. You honestly just have to deck them, straight in the jaw. They most likely wont be expecting it, and most likely they wont bother you again.

When you make a fist keep you thumb on the side and keep your knuckles tight. usually when you make a fist your fists are sideways with your thumb facing your face. well when you go to hit her keep your hand just like that until your about to hit her and then put your fist straight to where your wrist is up. I hope this makes sense.

And if your worried about being strong enough, dont even worry. Thats when addrenalline kicks in and i promise when you hit it will hurt.

Hope i helped =]
Good Luck!

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where else besides victoria's secret do people usually buy cute bras?

Rue 21
Target
Dillards
Hot Topic
Charollette Ruse

These are just a few...

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how come when sometimes people who send texts over a "page" the second page doesn't show up and the text is cut off? i don't receive the second text in succession..

Sometimes your service doesnt allow you to receive the other pages. And sometimes the person who is sending them cant send more than one page so it never shows up.

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does eating chocolate make people feel good? personally, it does not do much for me. i dont know if i even get happy doing anything. maybe i have an endorphin dysfunction??

I honestly dont think it makes you feel good, but eating is one of the things people do when you get sad or mad, so people eat chocolate and ice cream. I think it is just an excuse to eat something fattening. But i guess it could make some people happy.

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I'm 17 going into my senior year of high school. I was wondering what I should do to get a girlfriend fast and easy. Be specific. I need something other than " try talking to her".

Be sweet, be outgoing, make her laugh, be there for her, but dont be there too much or you will fall into the "friend zone" Meet someone new, that way they dont know you and you can pull all the strings to get her to fall for you.


If you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me!

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16f

i really like this guy and we have a lot in common. he's really into living life to the fullest and such, and he likes the poem "lessons of a moth" by don marquis.

i'm writing his birthday card, and i really want to find a really cute quote about living life to the fullest so that everytime he reads it, he thinks of me with a positive attitude (not as a crush or sexually or anything). i searched through the internet and found a few. it doesn't matter who it's written by, but preferably by don marquis.

i found this one, “No one ever finds life worth living; one has to make it worth living," but i'm not sure if it's too... depressing for a sixteen-year-old? i also found this one by buddha: "A jug fills drop by drop," which is a little less depressing and takes more analysis.

can someone help me find a really positive, happy, cute, simple quote about living life to the fullest or carpe diem or anything like that? i'd rather you give me your few favorites and explain them as opposed to just listing a million quotes. i prefer really simple ones with a very strong message -- nothing TOO long or complicated.

thank you so much! :)

Ok so i have a few cause i love quotes...

*Do what makes you happy,Be with who makes you smile, laugh as much as you breathe, and love as long as you live.

*Laugh when you can, apologise when you should, let go of what you cant change, kiss slowly, play hard, forgive quickly, take chances, give everything and have no regrets, life is too short to be anything but happy!

*Dont let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game.

*Live your life at its fullest, laugh at all the things that dont matter, love with all you have and more!

*I believe that everything happens for a reason, people change so that you can let them go, things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they are right, you belive lies so you learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.

These are just a few if you want more go to my inbox and ask me.

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how/where do you get plan b?

can you just go to the pharmacy at a local drugstore and ask for it as "plan b" or use the words "emergency contraceptive"?

it's not the same thing as RU468, is it? what is RU468?

Go to your local plan parenthood or even to your gynecologist. Just ask for the plan b pill they will know what you are talkin about.

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so, do i want to kiss my guy first? i mean, we have been friends for quite a while, and we went out a lot to movies, and to the water park together and stuff, and i like him, but we never really kissed. (hugs don't count for much lol)
and btw, i've never kissed a guy, so i dunno where to start off even.
THX! -Charlotte, 15

It seems like your in a tough spot. You might want to find out if your guy friend likes you before you decide to kiss him. Because if he just see's you as a friend then it could mess up the relationship between you two, and im betting you dont want that. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask how he feels. If he likes you then one day when your hangin out just look at him in the eyes like you care about him and it will just kinda come to you.

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Hi, my birthday is august 6 and im turning 16. my aunts got me a present and are giving me clues everyday untill my birthday. i cant figure it out yet. can you? heres my clues so far.
1. bigger than a breadbox
2. Contains many parts
3. its my favorite color (which i think my aunts think is purple)
4.I will enjoy sharing it with others
5.Most likely last my lifetime
6.must wear specific safety gear to enjoy it.
7.will appear small before opening
8.it is advertised on tv and radio, not by billy mays
9. my aunts both like it and got one for them each
10.there are alot of accesories you can buy
11. time will fly when you use it.
12. you will be amazed by all it can do
13. You cant eat or drink around it
14. you can only use it once, so enjoy it while you have it.
15. there is some paper work involved
16. quite a bit of reading is involved.
17. even though you cant eat while using it, some food is involved
18.some painting is involved.
19. once you've used it, you will most likely want another one.

those are the clues. please, if you know what this is, tell me! thanks! =D

Hmmm well to tell you the truth i dont have an answer to your question but when you do get your present would you mind going to my inbox and tellin me what you got????

Sorry not much help ha

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ok. so i don't want to say that i'm boy crazy, but it's just that i always find wonderful things in every guy. and there are so many fish in the sea. but i kind of want a boyfriend. so what are some ways i can decide what kind of guy would be good?
-the weird, nice, funny artistic one
-the sweet romantic, but boring one
-the boy in the band,funny,nice,cute


Well i dont think you will be able to find the perfect guy but go for someone who is cute and knows how to treat a girl and is funny =] so if i were you go more towards the boy in the band =]

Good luck and hope i helped =]

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Recently I've noticed that I seem to be carrying excessive things in my handbag or missing some vital things, so I'm just wondering; what do you, girls, keep in your handbag that you take with you wherever? The things that you always have in your hand bag?

Thanks :)

My phone,
Wallet,
Body Spray,
lipgloss,
ipod,
and my little makeup bag incase you have to do a touch up =]
oh and dont forget hairspray


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I have this one friend, he comes off as a player, I guess you can say. He hits on pretty much any girl that comes his way.
But him and me have been good friends for a while. And I think I like him. Yeah. Not a good choice.
But I'm not sure if he likes me back.
He calls me pretty much everyday.
He wants to hang out whenever we can.
He calls me 'sexy'
But when he says 'I love you' I think he just means it, as if we're just friends.
"I'm just kidding, I love you" would be something he would say.
Any advice on what I should do next? Or where I stand?
Thanks =DD

Talk to him and ask him where he stands and how he feels.

If he calls you every day and calls you sexy that has to mean he has some sort of feelings for you. Cause if a guy has a best friend that he doesnt like more than that he would most liekly never call you sexy.

Just make sure that if you guys have something that you talk and make sure that you guys stay friends if it doesnt work out.

Hope i helped =]

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So on August 28th its my sixteenth birthday... I have no idea what to do!
I don't want to do anything too expensive... I want quite a few people there, but not too many. I have a pool and a hot tub.... but I'm not sure if people would actually use them. IDEAS PLEASE!!!!
And good ones... :D

Invite whoever you want and tell them to bring their swim suits, they will use them i promise i have a pool. Have music and food and thats about all you need. I know it doesnt sound like a lot but its cause we like to eat and listen to music ha the swimming is just a bonus.

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Okay I know this HAS to be really stupid but I really don't understand it.

I was listening to the 3OH!3 song "Don't Trust Me" last night and realized I was confused about a part. haha I love 3OH!3 though and Don't Trust Me is totally my favorite song.

It says:
"Tell your boyfriend if he says he's got beef,
That I'm a vegetarian and I ain't f*cking scared of him."

What's that mean?
THNX! :D

its just supposed to be funny. its saying if your boyfriend thinks he is tough tell him im not scared of him.

Its just a play on words because if her boyfriend has "beef" well vegitarians dont eat meat which includes beef so he isnt scared of him.

Hope this makes sense and hope i helped =]

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(fifteen; female)
this is a really long story but please take the time to read it because i've never been more desperate for help in my entire life..

i had a boyfriend who i am totally and completely not only in love with, addicted to. let's call him A. i also had a really close friend who i've known since around fourth grade, let's call her B. a few months ago, i found out from a newly made friend (who i had known probably about a week) who was friends with my exboyfriend. one day, he told me that he couldn't lie to me, and he told me that A and B had been sleeping together. when i confronted them, they both denied it. A's only defence was "if i slept with B, don't you think i'd brag a little more, she's hot as shit. i wish i did, but i didn't. if i did, everyone would know about it."
a little about me and A: i've been in love with him for about a year. at one point last summer, things really heated up and we fell in love (or so he says he loves me.. but he probably really doesn't). he's put me through hell and back, but i've never loved anyone like i love him and i never will.if you were to ask him how many times he's cheated on me, he'd reply with "too many times to count," and yes that is the exact answer he gave me. i know i sound like such an idiot actually having feelings for someone that treats me like he does, but my love for him can't even be put into words.
when i found this out, i was a trainwreck. and i still to this day can't breathe. A and B are dating now. in fact, after all of this happened, he came to my house and appolagized to me (tears and everything), but he was dating her when he gave me the whole "still in love with you" act.
A and B's relationship consists of sex, with a few drunken breakups thrown in, but they of course throw it in my face whenever possible of how happy and in love they are.
i recently got in a fight with my best and closest friend, let's call her C. today, i was at a mall in my town where i saw a bunch of my friends.. and who do i see but C and A hanging out together. for C to even aknowledge A makes me want to throw up, especially since C knows what i've been through and she knows that i would NEVER do that to her.
not only did i lose the love of my life and a really good friend, but i lost my best friend too.
the A and B thing happened months ago, and i'm still hanging by a thread. what the hell can i do to make this hurt less bad? i want to breathe again..
and how do i just get over all the shit these people are putting me through? i really don't see how i could deserve this. how am i going to get over it all? PLEASE HELP ME. i'm honestly dying inside because i have literally nothing to live for. i need help i don't know what to do, i don't want to be miserable anymore

I honestly know exactly what your going through. I know this is easier said than done but you have to stop thinking about it. Think about what you deserve not what you feel. Your obviously a better person than he is, especially if you care about him still after everything he has put you through. Look back at all the bad times and forget the good.You need better friends and a new boyfriend. Stop stressin over whats in the past its in the past for a reason. Just start over. Dont talk or think about any of them, and get new friends. Another guy will come a long and so will other best friends. I promise. I know that this will be hard but once this is over and you have new friends you will look back and see that he wasnt worth it and neither was you friends. It puts you through too much heartache and stress and its not worth it. Your young you still have a lot of time.

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Good luck! and Cheer up! =]

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there is a talent show me and my friends gave no i idea what to do!! give me advice.

Its really fun to make up a dance. Just get creative and have each of you make up some cute moves, pick a song, and just have fun with it. And try to have your outfits look similar.

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ok so theres this guy who moved to my school at the begining of last year. ever since then we have been great friends (even though he is a year younger than me). anyways, so after a while i started getting feelings for him but i stopped having those feelings along time ago. And now he keeps asking me out and everything. He even tried to write a song for me, which was really bad but really sweet too. and now that he started having feelings for me it has like ruined our friendship. I mean now when ever i try to just hang out with him he thinks its a date. any advice???
♥LEXI♥

Talk to him and tell him that you want to be friends and nothing more and if he isnt ok with that then you guys cant talk anymore. I know this might be hard for you to say, but i promise if he cares about you enough then he will take you seriously and stop bein like he is and he will be your friend.

Hope i helped =]

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im 13 and i want a job and it seems like babysittin is the best job i got so thats wat i wana do babysit or mayb some other stuff maybe typeing or something...

Babysitting is a good job, maybe make some flyers and put them around your neighborhood or in mail boxes. You could do yard work or even walk peoples dogs.

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i am afraid to say to my mom and dad that i am bio-sexual

Well sit your parents down and talk to them. At first it may be hard for them to accept but in the end they are going to have to. Its your life, not theirs and its your choice not theirs and you can do what you want and they cant change it.

When you tell them dont just be like "Hey im bi" but tell them that you have thought about this for a long time and you have realized that you like both sexes. and take the convo from there.

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13/m
so as i said in the title what are some creative and fun things to do on dates with my girlfriend, and sometimes a few other people that come with us?
btw i only get about 15 dollars a week(aus)
also what are the like... dos and donts of dating? like what i should and shouldn't do
thanks

Go to the movies, go ice skating, go bowling, watch movies at your/her house,go swimming, have a picnic, go out for ice cream.

There are a lot of simple little things you can do that are pretty cheap and fun =]

Do's
1.Compliment her on something
2.Open her door.
3.If your out to dinner pull out her chair.
4.be sweet =]

Donts
1.Dont run out of money
2.Dont txt anyone while your with her
3.dont act like you dont care what she is talking about


Hope i helped =] if you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me personally.

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