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i am afraid to say to my mom and dad that i am bio-sexual
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Well sit your parents down and talk to them. At first it may be hard for them to accept but in the end they are going to have to. Its your life, not theirs and its your choice not theirs and you can do what you want and they cant change it.
When you tell them dont just be like "Hey im bi" but tell them that you have thought about this for a long time and you have realized that you like both sexes. and take the convo from there.
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Sometimes telling your parents something like that is a little hard. Tell them you have something you really need to talk about and sit down with them. Like Jack said below me you can gradually work your way into it. They should be understanding..If they aren't maybe it will take them some time to accept it if not then that is there problem not yours you are who you are and you should be proud of it. Only tell them when you feel ready, Dont' be pressured into it. If you feel more comfortable tell someone you trust deeply like a close friend and have them come with you when you talk to your parents.
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First off, it's BI-SEXUAL not bio-sexual.
It's always hard to come out of the closet whether you're gay, believe you're a trans-sexual or bi. Not all parents are accepting & some will actually shun someone or disown them because of something as small as sexuality.
Are your parents usually understanding? I think if they are, it'll make them telling them a little bit easier. If they're usually pig-headed about things, it'll make a bit harder.
I just also want to stress that you are completely sure about this. Most young kids today (not that I'm saying you're young, I'm not actually sure how old you are) will put the bi label on themselves but then change it when they realize they're actually not. Just make sure that you really are bi before you say anything about it because if it someday happens to change, there will be questions, so be 100% on this!
I think you should just tell them. Sit them down & tell them. It may take a bit for them to get used to, or it may not. Some parents will say "Oh, I already knew..." or something of the sort, but some are also shocked & don't know how to handle it. I would give them time after telling them, but I would just say it. There's no other way to do it.
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It's bisexual. Just ease into it and tell them gradually.
Maybe, just kind of throw hints at them.
They should be understanding, but some parents are not.
And, you really don't HAVE to tell your parents if you aren't ready. Don't feel pressured to if you aren't sure about it.
--Jack
(17/m)
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