Question Posted Wednesday February 21 2007, 9:51 pm
Okay so Im 15/f and I Am scared to do things withmy boyfriend. When I was younger my grandfather molestested me. I was six years old though. How would that effect me today? I mean he didn't stick his fingers or penis in me just just touched me and rubed. But could that even effect me? I mean I wanna dos stuff soooo BAd but I cannot. Will, I be a virgin forever? Alos, my boyfriend is shy and I am also. How can I give him a sign to make a move or make a move myself.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? meghan2492 answered Wednesday February 21 2007, 11:59 pm: yeah well i think that you should at least talk to your parents about this if they dont already know
but tell him that you love him and that you want to step it up a knotch then he will you know . . . and then you wil . . . and then you will MAKE BABIES . AHAHAHA jk .but i mean if you have the time / money / courage to get counceling go for it
but dont let something that happend 10 years ago still affecct you today .
you must be a sweet girl . dont waste your life flashbacking !!
christina answered Wednesday February 21 2007, 10:33 pm: You need counseling. Your grandfather molested you, and it's going to control you forever if you let it. Get some counseling, and talk to your boyfriend about going further. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
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