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Woo! Alrighty then who is read for some advice! Well let me tell you a little about me, myself, and I. I like to make jokes but I make sure noone is offended. I have been a Moderator three times though sadly I have been removed three times because I have been away too much. Anyway I love giving advice and I would say my advice is the best, as always. Heh, anyway write to me, do what ever you want. Though if you want to mess with me, fight with me I'm armored and dangerouse with combacks just for the warning. If you respect me I respect you and so on...so if you want to see how my advice is just look through my pro and enjoy.

Ryan...-out.
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ok people at my school make fun of me and call me fat cuz im a size 3 n not a 1 like them. this makes me upset cuz i dont think im fat n people liek make me cry cuz their so mean to me. what shud i do?
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dont cry and ignore them


How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
Thanks-- (link)
ummm , at least 8,


here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
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ummm, a dark blue lol


I go out wit this guy but i like another guy too i dont know what to do ??? (link)
who do u like more? thats more the question


on a minimum, how much are u supossed to drink daily? (link)
ummmmmm ithink 8 oz, hope i helped


Sometimes my computer goes really fast and sometimes its soo slow. Well I was trying to go on advicenators and it wasint even loading then I tried another site and it worked fine. I then tried to go back onto advicenators, and it was going slow. Is it because my internet is sick of being on advicenators so much(lol) or what? I'm confused! I'm on right now because it just started getting fast again..so yeah anyone know whats going on? Its making me sooo mad :D!

xo_sherry_ox (link)
Thats exactly like mine, it lke just want to take a brake and be lazy right?lol. Well it seems to me that you either have a viris problem, or low memory card. You can try to put in firewalls which works rele good. or just go to 1 of those computer places and ask for another memory card


I've been with this guy for 3 years and were really close and I am ready to have sex. So is he. My parents know what we are planning on doing and they don't really care. We are going to use a condom and everything, I just wanted to know if it hurts or what it feels like. Also do u think I'm too young? 13/f. (link)
WOW, i think you are to young to have sex when your only 13. and i wouldnt know how it would feel like


ok well i dated this guy for uhhmm 6months and liek he dumped meh like 2 weeks ago and like we r styl friends and he started dating this girl and liek now he is bein a major ass((sorry bout muh language))..but ne ho0..and like he is afraid to hang with me and the rest of our freinds bcuz he thynks imma make a move on him i tried to tell him i wont ut he dont listen and liek we wil talk ton the fone for hours i thynk i stil liek him but idk who to tell if he stil lieks meh but i do remember just like uhhmm saturday he was piking me his lil sistur((muh bff)) up from a foOtball game and liek he just kept loOkin @ meh and stuff...but idk why..i wannah get over him but how?..
-Jessie-
o and i am a girl and ill b 15 soOn! (link)
if YOU FINd an answer to that you let me know but what i think is if you still like him wait till they brake up and then youll be right in the picture wit him. If you want to get ova him you just have to wait until you find a hot guy.

From ryan
Happy b-day


My husband and I are in our mid-40's with no children and have just completed building a second home (our dream home) on a lake near the mountains. It is a one bedroom house that took almost 4 years of our lives to build and every penny we could scrape together.

My husband has friends from out of the area that want to "freeload" on us...and he thinks it is great! The more the merrier and the bigger the party!

His friends are all married and all have many children. They want to come up in groups and stay with us. This past weekend several families camped at a campground a few miles away, but "stayed" at our place the entire weekend...the only thing they did at the campground was sleep (and thank goodness for that).

When they entere the house to use the bathroom, or whatever, they would go through drawers and look behind closet doors.

I do not want these people in our house, much less there when we are not there.

Please give me advise on how to get my husband to understand my position.

These folks are nice I suppose, but they all drink a lot (even in front of children) and influence my husband to do the same, to miss church and to ignore business calls when they are around. We are professionals, they all have 8 to 5 jobs with little to no responsibilities and not a lot of income.

My husband wants to give them a key and the code to the burgular alarm system.

We are headed straight for a divorce, I am afraid without help...and he refuses to see a counselor, although I did spend several months last year in counseling alone.

Thank you for any advise you can share with me.



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i am a 13 year old kid, i dont think you would be wanting to hear from me but i think you should confront your husband and tell him what you told me.
Hope you stay together and not divorse.


Is it wrong to like a guy, and love another? Does that make me a hoe?...lol I give advice, but every1 calls me a hoe b-c of that!! But after u r done reading this then check out my site...sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY

-*Thanks a bunch!*-

-bEcKy- (link)
if you love to guys you are not a hoe. if you kiss to guys when still dating 1 you are a hoe. I will most definitly check out your site. Hope you well - ryan


hey i have this problem.. there is this guy in my grade who used to like me but i always thought he was kind of a dork so i didn't talk to him that much and when i did i would just kind of joke around with him. anyway i figured out that i have really liked him all this time and what made me figure it out was that i found out that he is moving to Hong Kong in January! If i tell him that i like him now then im worried that he might not still like me and he might tell everyone that i like him. i was thinking that maybe i would tell him on his last day but then we'd never have a relationship...please help me because i need to know what to do!
~Jen (link)
I know exactly what to do. Tell him now but tell him to keep it a secret if you want to. This way you can get his email adress and telephone # So you can always reach him- Ryan


14/f. I'm really starting to like this one guy, Brett. I don't really know him that well. He's a year older than me. We were in band together for a year in junior high and now were in band again together. He makes funny faces at me and playfully sticks his tongue out at me in band. Is this flirting or is he just being himself. He almost never actually talks to me and he's probably said about 10 words to me in the 3 years that I've known him. Is this flirting or is it just him being himself? He's never showed any particular interest in me but he kind of does this stuff with a couple different girls my age. (link)
I think he is being himself. You should know this by now "boys are boys"


Sorry it's long, but I need some help

Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.

There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him

How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!! (link)
This is what i think you should do. I think you should go up to him and say that you really dont like him but maybe later on you would( so his feelins dont get hurt).- ryan


For anyone who actually reads this, thanks.Well, I had a boyfriend, we'll call him "Tod". We went out for about 3 months. Well, all these people were coming up to me and saying, "OMG!Are you going to be okay?!" Honestly, I had no idea what on earth they were talking about. So, I asked "Tod" and he told me that he kissed another girl on the lips! Me? Upset? Yeah, but I could deal with it.I told I didn't care. He told me that he couldn't stand to hurt me again, so he said it was over.Well, about 2 months later, he asked me out again, and I said yes. And just recently, we broke up. Everyone was telling me that he told them it was "another girl". This time, I had it with him. I was through with getting hurt because of his freakin mistakes when I didn't do anything to hurt him! So, I'm never going out with him again. But..I think that there might be "another guy" for me. We'll call him "Justin".He's one of my friends ex-boyfriends.They have been going out on and off like me and "Tod".And my other friends are telling me to not go out with him because she might get pissed at me.Well, first of all, I know she will, but I think I really like "Justin" and just the other day, I told him that I really like him. He told me that he really likes me too. But we're not going out. Yesterday, he was talking to my sister, and she asked him if he and I were going out. He said "yeah" and my sister said "since when?!?!". Then he said "since now". But I asked him if we were really going out, and he said he doesn't know! What's that supposed to mean?!Sorry it's soooo long! -Alex (link)
I think it meens that he dosnt know if you are ready so he dosnt want to say anything stupid.
I really hope this relaton ship works out- from Ryan




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