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here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
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You should try a red or pink!
-Hope I helped!! :P
-Emster
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there is this guy that i like and he likes me but he is foreign and can speak some english but has trouble some times and i wanna help him do u think he would think i am rude for tryin 2 help him? and i was wonderin if u know of neways u can tell that a guy is about 2 ask u out ( dumb i know lol but i am curious) cuz that guy keeps sayin he is thinkin about me and stuff he is so sweet and i wanna go out wit him but i am 2 shy 2 say nething about it ? HELP i will rate you!!! (link)
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I don't think it's rude to help this guy. I mean as long as you know he needs it and you do it politely. Well, it sounds like to me that he does like you, so he will probably ask you out soon, just flirt with him alot and everything and let him know that you like him!!
==Hope I helped out!! :P
-Emmy
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Ok. There's this one thing. I like this guy Brian from my class {my age only 6 months and 2 days older than me} (I got over Felipe). And (ummm how can I put this in a nice way?) he treats me like shit sometimes. He's really smart because his parents are teachers (but that doesn't matter) and sometimes he can be snotty. Sometimes we joke around and sometimes we get pissed @ eachother. Like in class the other day we (the whole class) were talking about Martha Stewat ad house arrest when I remembered that I read something about Martha getting beat up in jail and I tell the class (and I sit right behind Brian) and then Brian turns to me and says "Where did you hear that? A girl magazine?" And I'm like "No Brian. More like US Weekly!" And then he's like "Whatever"... See what I mean?... He treats me bad. How can I get him to see me more of a gf than of "the girl he argues a lot with'? !~*Steph*~! I rAte GoOd! (link)
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Well I think that if Brian argues with you all the time then you should just be like, "OK Brian you're right."--Then you won't have nething to argue about!! :P
Hope I helped~
Emily
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okay i have this problem. i dated this boy and then he was 2 timing me then he dumped the other girl and i forgave him and i still went out with him then he asked her out again while we were going out and he told me! he was like im going back out with ********* :) i was like :0 so i wouldnt talk to him when he would try to talk to me. well hes still going out with the girl but i seem to still like him! i mean i know what he did to me was wrong but i still like him :( how can i get him to like me more than her??? please help! i rate! (link)
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Well I don't think you should even waste time on this asshole. He played you once, he played you twice- and there's a really good chance that he'd do it again, so forget him!-Hope I helped-
~Em
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well my best friend and i have been friends for 3 years ok. we have been getting in fights once a week and its driving me crazy lets just say i have been seeing my councler alot for and one day i didnt talk to a single person. well we recently just got in a fight because i was walking with a friend that she doesnt like him at all. i tryed to talk to her but we just got in this big fight and she says she cant trust me because im friends with someone she doesnt like and right now i have alot of problems and when i try to explain to her wat my problem is she just compares it to her life. i dont know how to tell her how i feel with out her getting all mad and crap like that. so can u give me some ideas on how to talk to her. ooo and shes an only child. she can be self concided to if u couldnt tell already. (link)
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I used to have a friend just like that. Make her realize what she is doing. Just go right up to her and be like what is up with you? Tell her that you can hang out with who you want to and if she's a true friend she shouldn't care.-hope I helped-
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I have always had one best friend (let's say her name is tori). Recently, at parties Tori has been ditching me for someone she calls her "new best friend". She tells me that I am still her best friend. I hate her friend though! I can never hang out with Tori and her friend, cause every other sentence is a new private joke, so i get totally lost and feel really stupid when they're laughing and I have no clue what they're talking about. Plus, the worst thing is that I've always hated her new friend, and I told her that even before they were best friends. Now I am sure she told her what I said about her, cause she's always giving me dirty faces. Usually I am not this paranoid, it's just I had the first really good friendship with sumone and that s.o.b. is ruining it all! Thanx in advance! Lexis xoxo (link)
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Sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell your best friend that you really don't appreciate being left out and you don't like being ditched. If she doesn't listen to you and keeps on just forget about her and find a new best friend.
==Emster==
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saturday after the game i went to my friends house and her house was forked at like 10:30pm right so me and her had to stay up and watch out for the kids who did it and so her cuz came with us in her room and we were under the cover on the floor and i was by her cuz and we were holdin hands and all a sudden my hand was on his penis and all this crazy stuff wa happenin and she dont even kno about it but see thats the 2nd times ive cheated on my boyfriend with the same guy and i just dont kno what to do...what do i do? who do i tell if i do tell someone?? ..i still kinda like the guy i cheated with hes my EX.. (link)
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Well you should decide which guy you like better. And if you like your boyfriend then stay with him and tell the other guy to back off and try not to spend time with him. If you like the dude you cheated with better then break up with your boyfriend for him. But you need to tell your boyfriend what you did, because it wouldn't be fair if you didn't.
-Emmy
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There is this boy at my school that i really like and he kinda shows that he may like me back but thats not all the time...and my friends also think that he is not very attractive and they continuously say that i have horriable taste...1 of my friends thatg say this boyfriend has a really big nose and is not all that fine himself...but i want tol ask him dol he like me but if he says no then ill look dumb...but what if he says yes...please help me...what shouold i do (link)
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Don't worry about what other people think. If you like him that's your decision. Just talk to him about it or maybe you could somehow let him know that you like him and see how he reacts.-Hope everything works out-
*Emily
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Ok, there's this guy that likes me and I don't know if I like him or not so I haven't given him an answer yet.But now my friends seem like they are annoyed with me only because I still haven't given him an answer..they hardly call me anymore and they seem mad whenever I am around them!I am so confused, I have no idea what to do! (link)
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Well, just keep your friends out of it because it really isn't any of their business. Give this guy your answer when you're ready!
-Hope I was able to help!-
~Emily
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Well i was in school and my two friends told me that this kid,told them that he likes me! and i was wicked excited cuz hes cute,hott,funny,smart etc. and i like him. But now he says its not the rite time to have a girlfriend because he just got over this girl that he liked for 3weeks cuz she was the biggest bitch ever! how do i show him that it is the rite time? or should i just wait for him to get over everything hes been through? i really like him and i don't know wut to do..omg please help...sorry its so long but pleaseee give me some advice (link)
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Well I would wait for him to get over her. Just be really sweet and show him that you're not a bitch like her. If he likes you then he'll probably ask you out soon!
~Hope I helped~~
-Em
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a lot of my friends are acting differently towards me, and theyre starting not really talking to me....its kinda weird because in 8th grade, one of my friends, lets just call him Bob. bob and i used to be really good friends, and now this year, in 9th, he's acting differently towards me and he used to IM me a lot, and now he doesnt and he doesnt say hi in the hallways anymore!
also, my other friends are just acting different..i dont know how to explain that..but they are, and i dont know what to say or do! i dont want to be rude and be like ew ur not talking to me why not?? and stuff like that..so.....please help? thanks so much! (link)
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Well you should sit them down and talk to them. Maybe its high skool. People change or maybe you've done something wrong without realizing it. I don't know, but you should talk to them! -Hope I helped out!
Emily
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well, theres this guy i like and hes only in 1 of my classes. anyways, weve been giving each other looks but hes 3 years older than i am(he failed once) ive only talked to him in notes cuz hes "shy" to talk and i asked 4 his number. i just talked to him on the phone 4 the first time yesterday, but i made up and excuse cuz there was nothing to talk about. what do guys like to talk about? any ideas of excuses why im calling? (link)
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Say your calling just to chat with him ;) And ya'll can talk about class[or skool in general], TV shows, movies, music, everyday life, your hobbies...
~Hope I helped!
-Emily
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I saw this guy that I dated 4 years ago when I was in 8th grade, now I'm a senior in highschol.....we've been talking since and after all that time we saw each other again the other day, he didn't want 2 start the relationship again because of the distance between us....when I saw him yesterday we hung out than kissed but he pulled back and said it would be 2hard 2 handle a long distance relationship....well about 15 min before I went upstairs 2 my apartment he grabbed me and we kissed on and off a lot....and he said he'd promise 2 see me again very soon....I'm so confused and I just wish I knew what he wanted......What do I do?? (link)
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Talk to him about it. If he keeps saying that he isn't going to have a relationship with you and he keeps making moves, then he's probably using you.~Hope I helped!
-Em
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hi my name is monique and im 15 years old okay there is this boy at my school named Orlando and i really like him alot!!!! and i dont know if he likes me but people think he does heres why because he says hi to me different than the way he says it to other girls he always smiles at me and in my english class sometimes he stares and on friday he gave me a hug after 2nd period english and after school ha gave me a really long hug it was like 5 seconds long and i think that is pretty long for just a bye see ya on monday hug!!!! well my friend angie likes him too i asked her how much and she said a little bit alot and i like him alot but i think she liked him before me but i like him more if he does like me and askes me out what should i do say no because of my friend or say yea? please help!!!!!!
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Talk it over with your friend. Ask her if she's OK with it. If she isn't then you should respect her wishes! If she is then go for it! Hope I helped! :)
-Emily
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okay so i was going out with this guy and he was a year older then me and we live in the same neighborhood but go to diff schools and we were sooo perfect for each other...but then he cheated on me soo i broke up with him even tho i liked himmm sooooo much and he still liked me a lot to ..((he didnt wanna break up i did ))soo then after we broke up he tryed to ask me out again but i said no cause it would be way to weird so we stoped talking and now about 2 months later he likes me again and today he said he wnats to tlak to me about sumthing and i havent talked to him in like 1 or 2 months soo im guessing he likes me again soo what should i do bacuse i still really like him but all my friends will get mad at me that i took him back i dont know what to do ..help ..thanks6 (link)
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Well I think that you shouldn't go back out with him because he cheated him. But that's your choice. And if you want to then do it you shouldn't not go back out with him just because your friends tell you not to!~Hope I helped!
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Hey. I have a question, well more like I need some advice. Okay. There's this guy Brandon who I met about 2 months ago. Before we met, we talked on the phone and he always said he loved me and would do anything for me. Once we met, I didn't talk to him for about a month. About 2 weeks ago, he IMed me online and said he liked me and all this other crap. Then he got mad because I wouldn't cyber with him. A couple nights ago, he told my friend that he was really sorry and that he wanted to go out with me.
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I think that if you like this dude then you should definitely go for him! So if he asks you and you do like him say yes!
-Emsta
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I really need to find out whats wrong with me. Im almost 17 and ive never had a bf or my first kiss. Not to sound conceited, but TONS of people talk about how "gorgeous" and "nice" I am. Some people WONT even beleive me when i tell them ive never had a bf. I always see these nasty, uglier, RUDE girls get ALL these guys. But ive never even had one. I guess maybe its cuz im shy around people i dont know, but if you talk to me im NOT. Ive became more outgoing and flirted with guys.. but i cant seem to find anyone im actually interested in. I just wanna know what it feels like to have a bf. (I dont just want one to have one.) I feel almost like im missing out on my teen years. Sometimes i even get depressed thinking im doing something wrong. Any advice? (link)
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Girl, you need to get out there and meet some guys! :) Keep being sweet and always be yourself no matter what! And keep on flirting or make a move on someone or something. Ask a guy if he'd want to hang out with you sometimes. Or inivte them over to chyll at your place. Hope I helped!
-MiSsEmMYbOo-
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ok well theres this new girl in our school and me and my best friend have known her sence we were in third grade and now we're in 7th and like shes a really big flirt and shes really annoying and like everyone talks about her and pretends to like her..and she flirts with everyone! like my boyfriend plays football..and everyday he has practice right after school cept on Fridays and like she'll walk home with him and shes been over his house and stuff and I'm afraid she is like gonna try to do something with him..like I've talked to her about it and stuff and I trust my boyfriend..(-she has a boyfriend to and I dont think he would like her over my boyfriends house-)am I just paronode or should I worry about it..please help! (link)
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Well I would talk to my boyfriend about it. Tell him you don't like that she walks home with him and goes over to his house all the time. To me it seems like this girl may have a crush on your boyfriend. So talk to her too. And if all else fails I would totally tell her boyfriend what's going on! Hope I helped!
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hey well im kinda having a problem..well one of my BEST FRIENDS is having a huge problem..shes starting to take pills to make her depression go away and shes starting on mj, booze, etc..and she would NEVER do this stuff..she told me that her dad abuses her and her dad doesnt let her eat until she finishs cleaning the house..and she has 7 brothers and sisters in the house so ITS NEVER CLEAN!!! everyday she comes crying to me..and shes the strongest person i have ever met in my life becuz her past was really bad..she was raped and mollested by her own mother..and her mom is living in arizona and she lives with her dad and his gf here in california. and he says that hes gonna send her back to arizona with her mom..and she says that shes gonna commit suicide becuz she has no point in living..and it sucks. PLEASE..PLEASE help me i really dont kno whut to do and please do not say "talk to her about it" or "tell an adult" becuz it wont work!!!! (ive tried sooo many times..) ugghh if u have any ides plese help me and ill be sure to rate ya.
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I think that you or your friend should call DSS immediately! Suicide is not a solution. She should talk to a counselor or something about that. But for everything else--she definitely needs to call someone!
-Em
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Okay here is the situation. A girl that I work with (age 36) has 3 kids (ages 18, 16 and 11) anyway about four years ago she left her husband after meeting this 18 year old guy. He had just moved to town with his Mom and they were staying at the hotel that we work at. Well, he was a pretty big flirt and he and his Mom stayed there for like 6 weeks while their house got ready to move in. After they moved in he would come and visit a lot. So, she leaves her husband and they start hanging out a lot and then he tells her that he really likes her and they start dating. So, he just tells his Mom that he feels sorry for her and that they are just friends and he is helping her through this divorce. His Mom doesn't think anything more about it because of the age difference cuz she isn't that much older than my friend. But her parents find out because her and the kids are living with them and he is over all the time and she tells them so they flip out and tell him he isn't welcome there anymore. So, she gets all depressed and her Mom has her put in a hospital and he goes and talks to his Mom and she says that she can stay in their spare room until she can find a place. So my friend takes her kids back to their Dad and moves in with them. The guy's Mom finds out that they are seeing each other and she is not happy at all about it. So, they move out and she still doesn't go and get her kids. So the guys Mom realizes that if she wants a relationship with her son she needs to accept his choices and she tells him that she is sorry and envites them all to her house for Christmas (including my friend's kids). I mean you can tell that she is just being nice for her son but still she is very nice about it. She bought my friend and her kids presents and everything and made them feel welcome. Here is the porblem though. The guys Mom got transferred from her job and they took the kids back to live with them a few months after she left the state for her new job. They told her that they would go with her and that was why she took the job and then the day that the moving truck got there to pack up her things they told her that they weren't going because of my friend's kids. She knew she couldn't stop them and although disappointed she went ahead and moved. So right after she moved my friend quit her job and the guy started supporting her and her three kids. Her oldest got pregnant and he had to support her kid as well. It got to be too much for him and they didn't have money for food or rent or nothing and the kids Dad refused to help out. So, he called his Mom and in the course of about a year and a half borrowed about 25,000 dollars from her. Finally she told them that she couldn't support two households and that my friend either needed to get a job or they needed to move where she was so that they could live there until they could get on their feet. So they moved there. Left two of the kids there and moved in with her. So now she calls me the other day and says that they are moving back. I figured that his Mom finally got enough and told her to get a job. Well, in a way it happened like that but she was really nice about it and told her that he was too young for so much responsibility and that families the size of theirs needed two incomes. She got him a really good paying job and he was sending money to support her other two kids while they were living with his Mom and paying nothing. So they decided that they would move back because they thought that she wanted them out. So my friend calls me up and she is all mad at her mother-in-law for getting in their business and I was all, "I don't blame her. I mean you have borrowed a lot of mney from her and she paid sfor you guys to move out there and paid for everything in the year you have been there and he has been working to support your kids and you don't even get a job." So now she is all mad at me because I don't see her side of it. Am I missing something here? I mean she is a lot older than him and he is still pretty young and he is taking on a lot of responsibility and doing the best he can. His Mom has been pretty great about everything and it is like she doesn't care how hard she works as long as she doesn't have to. Was I wrong telling her how I feel or should I have just left it alone? I feel bad for his Mom personally here she is trying to help her kid and my friend is trying to turn him against her. What do you think? She is coming home next week and I don't know what to say. I have to pick them up fromt he airport and I don't want to fight for two hours in the car on the way. Thanks in advance. (link)
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I think you were exactly right. She shouldn't be mad at his mom at all after all she has done. I think that he should leave this lady because he has a whole life ahead of him and he doesn't need this. She is 36 and probably very capable of getting a job and supporting her own children.
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