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so called best friend
well my best friend and i have been friends for 3 years ok. we have been getting in fights once a week and its driving me crazy lets just say i have been seeing my councler alot for and one day i didnt talk to a single person. well we recently just got in a fight because i was walking with a friend that she doesnt like him at all. i tryed to talk to her but we just got in this big fight and she says she cant trust me because im friends with someone she doesnt like and right now i have alot of problems and when i try to explain to her wat my problem is she just compares it to her life. i dont know how to tell her how i feel with out her getting all mad and crap like that. so can u give me some ideas on how to talk to her. ooo and shes an only child. she can be self concided to if u couldnt tell already.
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Wow ok this is a tough question. I just ended my friendship with a best friend of about 4 years and i am now going to a therapist because I am severly depressed. If you think the circumstances are that extreme then I'd say to loose her because it seems like shes not being a good friend to you and being really selfish. If you want to remain friends, maybe just sit her down and have a talk with her, just you and her though. Tell her how you feel and be honest. Maybe you want to put some space between you for a little bit. Just be friends instead of best friends. Hope this helped!
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I used to have a friend just like that. Make her realize what she is doing. Just go right up to her and be like what is up with you? Tell her that you can hang out with who you want to and if she's a true friend she shouldn't care.-hope I helped-
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its sounds to me like she isnt a true friendand you don't need her.i wouln'd have her as a friend if i were you.
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she doesnt really sound like a good best friend...maybe u guys have spent so much time together in the past, ur driving each other crazy. u could avoid hanging around with herfor a while and then see her again and she how things go. if there are still problems, maybe you should find a new best friend, even if its hard. people grow apart, its normal. i hope i helped!
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Look, if she's really your friend, she wouldn't care who your other friends are. Just because she doesn't like someone, doesn't mean you can't be his friend. From the looks of it, it sounds like she's bullying you, and giving you a hard time over something stupid. A real friend wouldn't be giving you such a hard time, and if she was really your friend - she'd want to try and make things better. You shouldn't have to fight with her every week, and you shouldn't have to worry about making her mad. If you go around for the rest of your life appeasing people, you'll only feel worse and worse. Stand up for yourself, tell her you can be friend with whoever you want and if she doesn't like it, that's her problem. And you should tell her straight out - if you want to be my friend, then stop giving me a hard time and let's try to work this out. If she can't handle that, then maybe you guys just shouldn't be as good of friends anymore. Don't let her get to you. I hope it all goes well.
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thats how me and my friend used to be we fought every week for a whole year and than we just stopped talking to eachother and its been a month since we havent.
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