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Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

last month i went to my boyfriend's house to watch a movie for the very first time,. so when his sisters and brothers went to bed ,. we were on the couch laying together alone. we though his parents went to bed so we started making out* haha we were really into and we didnt even notice his mom come up behind us and turn on a light!! i was so embrassed. i mean i just met her and i already have a bad impression. he asked where hes sons hands were,. haha - i bet that was embrassing for him.. =/ but yea,. and everytime i ask him " where should we get together" hes always like,. um.. how bout u go to (joe's) or one of his friends house that he myte be going that weekend. s0o,. idk becuz i think his mom or dad would ever let me go to his house again,. she was upset n mad after i left as he told me.. what should i do? i mean i dont want to get a bad impression in front of his friends mom! or anywhere else,. i mean i always have to invite him to my house and we have nothing to do here,.=/

please help x0x i'll rate!

Maybe you should make out in private. In your house, try to be really well mannered (lol) and stuff. But on the end of a date when he walks you to the door, the goodnight kiss will be twice as good since you wait all day. If you really wanna make out, keep the lights on
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Okay I'm going to get to the point my friend said I've changed and I asked how and he said you don't care about anything anymore and I had no idea what he meant by this so I asked what he was talking about, because this is who I am. And he said well if this is who you are then I don't want to talk to you, and I said fine bye and hung up the phone.

I just I'm so mad, because me and him used to be really good friends. Should I be mad...or just let it be...I'm so lost.

Maybe he's changing, it is not uncommon for best friends to grow apart, although, there are ways to make things like this work, because you don't have to be exactly like each other to be friends, that would be so boring!!!
Lizzy

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Does anyone have any unique and delicious fillings for cream puffs? I just learned how to make them, so something simple would be nice.

a good recipe is put in about a cup of crisco, 1/2 cup of sugar and strawberry sause and you have a strawberry frosting thing (it is soo good)
Lizzy

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i have a cousin who keeps bossing me around. she kicks me down the stairs and embrass me in front of friends.I really need some advice on what to do.

You need to tell her to stop. Be tough, just tell her that you are sick and tired of someone telling you what to do and kicking you down the stairs, especially when that person isn't any better than you. If she still continues, get your friends to help, i'm sure if they saw what she did, they'll do anything to her
Lizzy

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*im real far away from home right now, and i had a boyfriend before i came to this state, then we got in a fight and he dumped me, i REALLY love him still, but he keeps hurrting me over and over again? should i let this time be the last?

Maybe you should take a break. See how other guys treat you. If he loves you back, he will treat you how you want to be treated, that's how relationships work. Plan a day for you guys to get back together after a few months and see if you are truly in love. Who knows, maybe you'll find another guy!!!
Lylas
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Hey, everyone!
My guy's away until late August...like, August 20somethingth, and I wanna do something special for him (or to him, depending...) when he comes back. Anyone have any ideas? I'm up for almost anything. He can't come to my house, though. Long story, don't ask. I have to go to his.
So...just hit me with a few ideas, y'all! Lol.
Thanks!
-Siren =)

You don't necessarily need money. If you wanna do something sexy, get two roses and flutter the pedals over his bed, and get on something really provacative then, take it from there. If you don't want to do something like that, make him dinner (his favorite) and just have a romantic night, (maybe put a round table outside for dinner) and just be romantic
Lizzy

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okay there is this kid i love so much . i knoe i am in love with him i talk to him everyday, i flirt with him but .. its my best friend`s exboyfriend .. i dont knoe what to do cuz i love my best friend shes like my sister .. and i dont want to tell her so i dont knoe what to do

That is really difficult. I got into the same problem with one of my friends, and i made the worst mistake ever, i told everyone about it, sat next to him at lunch and then he asked me out. I said no, because the girl was my friend. My advice to you is to befriend him, but don't flirt too much because then your friends will know, talk to her alone and tell her you have had feelings for him and was wondering if she was ok with that. I hope i helped a little
Lizzy

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theres is this kid that asked me out 6 times and i say no everytime .and its really annoying and he does it everyday nd when i say no hes asks my best friend wtf is tha matter he cant be alone for a few months .. but what if he asked me agen what do i say to him ?

Just tell him straight out, if you wanna go out with him, you'll ask him. Or you could tell him to leave you alone, maybe embarress him in front of all his friends, that would be cold, but it would work
Lizzy

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whenever i find a column that i like i usually paste the site under a section in my column that says look at these columns

i want to kno if u mind if i put ur column there?

if not then i will remove it!!

it doesn't matter to me, thnx for liking the collumn
Lizzy

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So right now I don't have any friends at all.I used to but all of them moved or we just grew a part.I am getting homeschooled but I want to go to high school to be able to make some friends.Well the problem is transpartation.How can I make new friends?

I think you can still go to prom and stuff without going to public school. Also you could go to church or something, that also works, you could try getting a job, which i what i do and i make a lot of friends there. So just try and i hope it all works out. You could also try over the internet, though you might want to watch out, as a matter of fact, there are a lot of really nice advicenators.
Lizzy

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Hey i was jus hoping some one could help me. well u se ive been hanging out with this guy alot and weve made out and done some other things. but were not goin out more like *together*.ok so here the problem. my x boyfriend jus broke up with his girlfriend and hes just been some one i could always talk to. and he other nite we were hanging out and did some shit. so woul that make me a cheater? and should i tell the guy im together with. it was jus a one time thing but i dont regret it.ne advice is good! thankx!

It wouldn't make you a cheater, more like a player. I think you should tell him sooner rather then later because then the tension won't build and it's more likely that he'll be less upset if you tell him now. Make sure you tell him that the other guy meant nothing to you and you really care about him
Lizzy

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ok well im very upset at my father for sumthing that he does. so my boyfriend is a really big guy and i dont mind at all and my dad likes him and all but my dad always calls him shrek when my bf is not around. i always get mad at my dad for sayin that bc i like my bf alot and he cant help if hes a big guy. i mean my dad isnt that skinny either so i dont think he should be sayin nething. but its like everywhere we go my dad finds sumthing shrek and says "hey we should get this for shrek" and it really hurts me. how can i make my dad stop before he slips up and says sumthing in front of my bf?

Tell him that your boyfriends is important to you and that when he says that, it wouldn't only hurt your feelings too. If your bf is important to you and you are important to your dad, i'm sure he'll understand. Good luck
Lizzy

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I really, I mean really like this guy.He is my age and he is 1 of my bro's friend's brother.He goes to school with me.The last few weeks of school me and him were becoming really close.Im scared that next year he won't remember me remember me anymore.What can I do?

Reintroduce yourself. Don't seem like you were thinking about him the entire time, but just say hey, your one of my bros friends right? And just redo the whole thing, and if he remembers you, great!
Lizzy

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ok...my best friend is mad at me because i tried talking her into going back to my church because she has done some bad stuff lately. I apologized and told her i like her for who she is but she wont talk to me...now what do i do?

Just tell her you wanted to see if she was still interested in going to church and that you didn't mean anything bad by it. Tell her she might have mistook what you said. I really hope that she doesn't stay mad at you.
Lizzy

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...i play soccer a lot and im kinda busy...i realli wanna be able to do like back walkovers and stuff...without coaches...can u give me like TONS of tips that would help me learn how?? thanx

you could do back bends and stuff. make sure you are able to do a backbend from standing position, (if you can't then just stretch until you can) then make sure you can do at least 15 push ups for arm strength. It might also help if you do handsprings and stuff.
Lizzy

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i have been tryin my best to give you guys good advice and i hope im doing a good job..but no one seems to be answering me back...does this mean im no help??...could someone help me and tell me how im doin??
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i think your advice is fine. Maybe at the end you could put please rate or something and you will get feedback. Hope this helped a little.
Lizzy

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Omg.. i really like this boy in my school we hang out all the time movies at eachothers houses but i odnt know if he likes me but....im afaird if i tell him how i feel he will be like all weird around me and stuff!!! Should I tell him how i feel or just keep it as freinds?!?!?
Please help ME!!!

Well, if you don't tell him then you will be the one acting weird around him so he'll act weird around you, and then there will be a bunch of weirdness going on, so i think it would be best if you tell him straigh up. Good Luck
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Hi Lizzy,
This is Sportegirl2004@aol.com. I heared you love to sing. So I was wonduring if you know how to write songs?
BROOKIE

yes, i love to write songs, if you need help on it, just tell me wat kinda song you need, k
Lylas
Lizzy

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i'd like to start my own babysitting business. how can i get started??

You could start by getting a lot of friends to help you so you can watch more than just a few kids, then you can put posters up in your neighborhood. Once you get started, save 1/5 of your money to put an ad in the newspaper, which will do wonderous promoting. Hope i helped a little
Lizzy

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well i like this one guy and i think he like me! we talk all the time like on the internet and phone. i asked him one day on the internet if he likes me and didnt answer and signed off! does that mean he and is probebly to shy to answer or he doesnt like me???

He probably felt unconfortable talking about it over the internet. Try to talk to him in person and ask if he likes you. Better yet, tell him you like him, or just ask him out. Hope this helped
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