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Hello, I am seventeen years old.And I am currently a Senior at my high school.
I like giving advice.
One day, I want to make a living out of it.
There's really nothing in the world that I like more than:
Music [New Wave, Electronic, Alternative, HipHop]
Photography [I take many pictures]
Friendships [They're really important me]
& Helping out people [I am always helping out]
There's really not a lot to me.
Other than I like to help out people.
Sometimes, I think that I should take my own advice.
But I rarely do =/
So yeah, that's about all I have to say.
advice
So there's this guy.. I call him my best friend. We're kinda dating but not, because he's going away to basic training in a few weeks. He told me he didn't want a girlfriend while he was away because he didn't want to worry about what they were doing, hence us not being together. Anyways, it hasn't hit me about him leaving yet, but I know it will soon. I was just wondering what are some things I could do to keep myself busy and not think about him so much while he's gone? I don't have too many friends to really hang out with & keep me busy, but I definately don't want to be stuck at home all depressed. Thanks!
Well, I say you go out with the friends that you do have. Or just hang out with your family. Maybe you have a job or you go to school..you can focus on that. Go out and just have fun.
Hope I helped & Best of luck!
yes, i know every girl dreads their period.
i never did because i never got cramps.
all of a sudden this period i've gotten cramps.
and it hurts SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO bad.
what do i do to get rid of them?
i'm having a little bit of trouble breathing and obviously it hurts like hell. help please!
Midol is good. But it is totally normal for it to hurt.
14/f
okay, well i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 4 months. a few weeks before, i DiD like this other guy.. but then i liked my boyfriend more... and because i had confused feelings. only a few people knew.... but then later on, he came over (not my boyfriend) and he left early because we were bored & we were watching tv, plus becuase he had to go to a wedding. after his sister picked him back up, she asked him what'd we do. he said "nothing." and she was like "common, you can tell me." and he said "nothing, just CUDDLiNG." and she said "ohhh, doesn't she have a boyfriend already?" and then he said "yeah." -_____- anyways, that night his brother & sister was talking about me, calling me a slut & a hoe. then a few weeks later, my sister said she wanted to talk to me about something, obviously it was about the guy thing. sooo, she said that he heard it from her bestest friend, since his older sister told my sister's bestfriend. and she confronted my sister about it. she said "you should tell your sister to chill about what she's doing, cause she's giving herself a bad name." and then my sister said "what are you talking about?" and then, she told her what happened. apparently... my ex, jimmy, was in the car while she was telling my sister. and jimmy is close with this guy gary (ex friend), and he's going out with jenny (ex friend), and jenny is close with susan (ex friend & ENEMY), and susan and my boyfriend are pretty close.. but not SOOOO close. and if susan finds out.. yannoe what she's gonna do. -_____-" and the thing is... me & the other guy already stopped talking, i mean like, he'd tried to say "i love you" to me, but i wouldn't say it back. he'd try to flirt... i wouldn't flirt back. either way, it won't stop it from spreading. and now my sister is a bit embarressed to hear this from her bestfriend about me. and she wouldn't really talk to me after she told me and stuff. i really don't know what to do, i don't want it to get to my boyfriend, because me & the other guy stopped talking, and i chose my boyfriend over the other guy. cause i actually like my boyfriend alot. T.T i just want to stop it. help me please?!
You should tell your boyfriend everything. He should understand & trust you. After all, you are his girlfriend. He should trust you and not all those other people. If he doesn't understand, give it some time. He'll come around.
Hoped I help. & Best of luck to you!
14/f
so i really like this guy and i want to makeout with him but i can never find the right moment or be with him alone. I know he likes me (cause he told me) and he know i like him. any suggestions other than the movies we could go and be alone? i need help badly
Well, the beach is always a good place. Or at some place where you know that a lot of people from school don't hang out. You can always invite him to you house. Hope I helped!
I got a camera around Christmas time and it's already messed up! The place where you put the batteries won't close and that's the only problem. I used to be able to put a hair tie around it to hold it and it was fine but now it got worse and I can't even turn on my camera for more than a second without it turning off. I took it to the place where I bought it but they wouldn't do anything about it. I can't get a new camera because this is the 4th one in 2 years.
My question is where can I take my camera to be fixed and about how much would it cost?
Well, did you get warranty or insurance for your camera? If you did, than you can take it to the store where you got it and they'll fix it. Other than that some Radio Shacks fix thatkind of stuff. I remember they fixed my camera for like 70 dollars. But my camera was new and one of those photodraphy one. Hoped I helped.
What are some ticket sites I can use to get reasonable prices for tickets early? In Tennessee? Thank you!
ticketmaster.com
ive been wanting to go and get my hand read or have the tarot cards read to me too but i dont really know how to search for that how do i search that in my area like at yahoo yellow pages or in a yellow pages book?
Both. You can also ask around. They might have some at a mall near you as well.
recently i took a pic of myself and in the back ground it looked like some one standing like 5 metres away from me i was home alone i zoom in and its got like a demon scary face i showed my sister and freinds and they say it looks like the grim reaper one says its wearing a black cape ive felt for a while like a ghost or something is following me how long do you think it is til i die?
Oh, wow. Well I don't know how long. But this is scary. Maybe it was a shadow of something. Hope you don't die.
whenever I try to log on myspace, it just saids an unexpected error has occurred. why doesn't it work?
Tom is having to restore your friends count. Therefore the whole system is having problems. That, of your account of getting some special maintenance.
my boyfriend came to my house on saturday & he was playing with my little brother in the living room and i was in the kitchen. i looked in and i saw him lying on the floor, so i thought he was asleep, but he was twitching. so i kept watching and his eyes opened and closed a few times. i walked in the living room, and he was staring sraight at me and just twitching. i was talking to him, but e just kept looking at me and twitching, so i rolled him over, and he said"what happened?" my brother told me that he saw my bf fall over, while they were playing. i of course freaked out because my boyfriend just had a seizure! but i have no idea why. he hasnt gone to the doctor b/c he has no insurance. hes 14 and plays golf and football, so his parents think it has something to do with not drinking enough water. this is the first time it has happened. and i am going to be horrified until i know why it did. any guesses as to what caused this?
I can tell you why some people get seizures:
1] They don't drink enough water.
2] He might've hit himself while playing with your brother.
3] Sometimes something in the brain misfunctions causing a minor seizure.
I recommend he sees a doctor. Or someone who is a doctor since he doesn't insurance. It's better to know that something is wrong and give it medication than to not to know.
Best of luck to you BF!
Hope I helped.
i went out with the boy and we really liked eachother but then my parents made me break up with him because he went out with my step sitster (shes in the same grade as me) and they told me not to tell anyone why. well the deal was i wasnt allowed to go out with him for a year after their breakup. and he asked me before a year (he had no idea of this rule and niether did i at the time) so the year is up and i really like him still and hes not with anyone right now and i want to hook up with him but do you think i should tell him why i broke up with him or not?
I think you should tell him the truth. Maybe he'll understand. & you guys will get together.
Well to start off, I am 16/m and i have had a few girlfriends before irl. And I never thought i would be in this type of situation but anyway. I met this girl on xbox live and she is 15. I really love her but the problem is that she lives 500 miles away. I would definitely be willing to drive up to her house but there is the problem with the parents, of course. I dont feel like coming out and telling them that i want to drive up a few states to meet this girl because they will definitely not allow me to. So, can anybody give me some suggestions on what i could do because i love her so much and I really want to meet her but i dont know the best way to do it.
Thx in advance
Well, to start off I think that what you're willing to do is really sweet. But you should talk to your parents. You may never know, they might be understanding. But I guess if they won't let you, you can always tell them that you're at a friends house and tell them to cover for you while you're out with her.
Best of luck to you!
So i am 15 and i am going to my friend birthday party in 2 days. At the party there is not going to be alcohol or smoking or anything. But afterwards I am spending the night at her house with a whole bunch of people and there is gonna be drinking and smoking and i already know i don't want to smoke but I am iffy on the drinking. My friend told me I didn't have to but I would feel kind of left out so I kinda want to. Do you think its a bad idea? or should I enjoy my youth?
Ugh. This happens to me all the time. I am fifteen. And my friends are the same age. They're always drinking and getting high. But I am not into that stuff. So i don't do anything. But you do what you're most comfortable with. I know that if you don't do anything, you'll feel left out. But it's better than dieing at a young age. If you do want to br part of the "fun" just drink wisely and don't get too drunk. Cause I garantee you'll do something you regret. Hope I helped.
Okay this may sound stupid to some...but here's my problem.
My husband and I have been married for three years. I love him very much. He's 26 now and I'm 23. I just graduated from Harvard.
My husband comes from a rather welathy family and once he graduated from Harvard he took over his father's company.
Recently he just expanded the company and I really have no clue what that means, but he's so busy now and always so stressed out.
I just found out I am around one month pregnant a few days ago, and I'm so happy, but the thing is I don't know if my husband will be... Landon and I have discussed having children, but we didn't plan for this. He suspects something is wrong...I can rarely hide my feelings from him.
It's just that he's so busy right now and it would break my heart if he wasn't happy about the baby. He told me things would be hectic for a while with his company, he's always gone before I wake up and he comes home around 2:00 AM and sometimes I wait up for him...even though he tells me not to.
Should I tell him now? I probably won't start showing for a few more months. Would it really hurt to wait until he isn't so busy and stressed out with running a whole company. I really don't want to be selfish, because I know that if I told him he would stay home with me and become so overprotective and want to be with me every second.
He already feels bad that we don't have that much time to spend together right now. He says he feels as if he's neglecting me...and being a bad husband. That makes me sad because he's not.
Anyway, should I tell him or not? I don't want him to hinder the whole company because of me, and I guess I'm also kind of scared he'll react badly towards the baby. What if he doesn't want it...
Anyone who can help, please do, and thank you so much.
-Gianna
Well, I think that you should wait just a little longer. Just until things start beggining to calm down. I know that his job is really hectic. But plan something with him. Like a little picnic. You can go some where romantic. And you can break the news there. I m pretty sure he'd be happy. I mean, what person wouldn't be happy when they're hving a kid. But he doesn't seem too excited, give it time. Maybe when he sees you and you start showing he'll probably get more into it.
Hoped I helped. And best of luck to your family.
Ok I don't know why but for the last 3 periods, the pain just keep getting worse and mroe worse each time.
I know it's already supposed to hurt but recently, when the next period comes, the pain is 2 times worse!
It hurts so bad that I cried! I feel like I have a baby or something!
Is this normal?
This happened to my friend. It was so bad she was taken to the emergency room. So now she takes birth control pills for the pain. You should go to the doctors though. Hope I helped[=
i'm in need of a couple paticular songs.
1. a song about how being in love is the most wonderful, UNDESCRIBEABLE feeling, or loving someone so much you can't put it into words.
2. a graduation song. i can't use the vitamin c one, "time of your life" by green day, or "stop this train" by john mayer, because they've all been used in recent years.
help anyone? i'll listen to basically anything but screamo or rap or hard metal stuff. but post anything. and i don't want something you've looked up on google. just things you know of will do. thanks (:
there is a song by head automatica named graduation day.
why do i think when im in pain suicide is the only way out
its called depression. a lot of teens go through it. you think suicide is the only way out, but you should control your emotions by writing in a journal or talking to someone.
hope i helped.
i'm a cutter. at least i used to be. i stopped once i started going out with my boyfriend. he's helped. he's also my first boyfriend. we've been going out for three and a half months. i really care about him, but i think that the only reason i stopped cutting was because of him, and that i might start again. i don't know what to do. i don't want to cut now, but a few times in the past few weeks i've wanted to. i don't know if i've honestly gotten any better or if it's just a temporary thing. it's just the only thing that has ever helped. therapy and pills never did anything.
i used to a cutter too. and i used to be in the same position. after me and my bf broke i started to cut. but then i starting to my counselor and she recommended the rubber band method. and everytime i felt like cutting i'd hit myself with it. it sounds stupid but it really does help.
i hope everything works out.
14/f/freshman in august.
so far, this is what my schedule will look like;
algebra 2
geometry
english 9 AA
world history
biology pre-AP
spanish 9
freshman girl's choir
i think i'm getting in over my head, with two math classes and two honors classes. also, i'm in cheerleading that has practice 3-5:30 daily after school, and i'm in volleyball, which practices 6-8 every monday, wednesday, and thursday.
do you think i should drop one or both of the honors classes? [english and biology] i'm deffinately staying in algebra 2 and geometry, because i love math and i can deal with those.
personal experiences would be great.
thanks in advance. (:
algebra 2: graphing calculator
geomdtry: scientific calculator.
you are going be busy i recomend you take it slow. if you think its too much talk to your couselor and maybe you take some classes that are easier.
good luck!
how can girls have a crush on angelina jolie and not be lesbian/bi
She's a pretty attractive woman. Maybe they really want to be like Angelina Jolie. I mean, I know some guys who find Brad Pitt attractive, but they aren't gay or bi.