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Long Distance Relationship Dilemma
Well to start off, I am 16/m and i have had a few girlfriends before irl. And I never thought i would be in this type of situation but anyway. I met this girl on xbox live and she is 15. I really love her but the problem is that she lives 500 miles away. I would definitely be willing to drive up to her house but there is the problem with the parents, of course. I dont feel like coming out and telling them that i want to drive up a few states to meet this girl because they will definitely not allow me to. So, can anybody give me some suggestions on what i could do because i love her so much and I really want to meet her but i dont know the best way to do it.
Thx in advance
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Yeah, I'm in a similar position. A guy I have been hooking up with that I'm starting to really have feelings for lives about 100 miles away. Does she know about your plans to come up and visit her? Make sure its ok..because my mom would definitely be weirded out if a guy showed up and wanted to stay with me. Maybe you should meet her halfway, if she has a license and is willing to drive a few hours to see you. You can both leave early and hang out all day..maybe meet at a mall or a park or something. And if sparks fly, and you like her as much in real life as you do over the internet, then you should really talk to your parents. Going behind their back might not turn out well..trust me. But yeah..talk on the phone with her a bunch and make sure its worth it first. You don't want it to be awkward if you drive a few hours just to see her!
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Well, to start off I think that what you're willing to do is really sweet. But you should talk to your parents. You may never know, they might be understanding. But I guess if they won't let you, you can always tell them that you're at a friends house and tell them to cover for you while you're out with her.
Best of luck to you!
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