my hands are always icy cold,and i know that its not normal.what should i do about it?
-Try to move your hands around a lot.
-Wear gloves/long jackets
-Go to your doctor and see what he/she has 2 say
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Yesterday I went to PacSun with my friend. I walked into the back of the store, because the hoodies were marked down. As we were browsing, an employee walked past us and sort of stopped. We both looked at him. He went, "Hey!" in the friendlist voice. I was shocked by his charisma, really, I haven't seen anyone so gorgeous. I said "Hi!" back, and we both laughed like little kids. He asked me if I needed any help, and I asked him if he could find a medium for me. When it was time for me to buy it, he looked at me incredulously (but still friendly) and told me he'd hold it for me while I looked around more. I told him that was all I wanted and he kept insisting. Then, you know how you're staring at something so beautiful everything the person is saying is muffled? That's what happened, when I heard him say something about my face. I know it wasn't bad, because he smiled, almost flirtingly. I gave in and looked around more. When I went back, I said that was all I wanted, and he was like, "Are you sure? I mean It's not really the season for hoodies" Please note that when I was talking to him, I was beet red in the face and I was showing all signs of nervousness. He asked if I was alright about 5 times. He was like, "Is it something I did?" I thanked him and walked out of there. A few questions: Do you think he wanted me to stay because he wanted me to buy more, or stay longer because he was attracted? I never asked him his name, and I'm so desperate, I called Pacsun twice, then hung up because a girl picked up! I thought about him and regret how I never asked for his name..or age. I'm 14 years old. I hope to death he is young because If I ever hook up with him, I don't want it to be RAPE! I desperately need help. Pleaseeee. I will rate 5's.
Plus, what can I do when I go back to the store? I want to come back and say something, but I need suggestions. Thank you so much in advance. Sorry for the length.
Okay, one question at a time.
1. He wanted you to stay longer because he was attracted to you, not because he wanted you 2 buy more stuff.
2. Call back again, and ask if you can speak to a male who works there, and see if you can recognize his voice. If not, hang up.
3. Go back to the store and buy something else, even if it is just a necklace or something. If he is there, make a move and maybe he will ask you out =)
♥ kkkkkendall
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alright i went out with this guy for a month. i was really upset when he broke up with me but im over it now. recentely ive found out he is going out with a girl in middle schhool (were freshman) & for whatever reason that really bothered me. i still sort of talk to him but we had schedule changes. i wanna hang out with him but make sure i dont start liking him again bc itd be more me just wanting someone than wanting him. i know that sounds awful of me but i dont want that to happen. he told me friend that whenever he saw me he was happy so i think he's trying to be a "player" he told my friend that he like a couple girls. how do i keep him as a friend but let him know i dont want anything other than that?
It's hard to let him know just that. He might be one of those guys that thinks everyone likes him, or not. He could be a player because he's going out with a middle school girl =x or he could not because he went out with you:) ask him if he wants to hang out sometime but you can bring your friend along and he can bring one of his friends and you guys can all hang out. That way, if he trys to make a move your friend is there with you and you can just say, "All I want is to be friends"
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Is it ok to ask the guy you like to prom on msn? I kinda work with him and we talk a little bit here and there. I think he likes me, but we haven't really hung outside of work. Would asking over msn be weird?
Maybe ask him out for dinner before you ask him to the prom. You could if you didn't want to get to know him more, but try talking to him more at work or online before you ask him
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ok so i have a zit on my hairline its most likely from my sweat because i work out really hard everyday is there anything i can buy/do to make my skin less reactive to the sweat?
Wash your face and make sure you get your hairline everyday
Take a shower everyday and especially after you work out
You could go to the doctor to have him/her perscribe something, but your saying you only have 1 zit on your hairline so it's not that big of a deal =)
♥ kendall
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If I have strech marks left over from me losing weight...will they ever go away?
They will definitly go away. You might want to go see a doctor and ask him/her what type of cream/lotion you could use to make them go away faster!
♥ Kendall
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yea so im a 15/f i really like basketball & id love to play next year but im so nervous because there are a limited amount of spots! in 7th, 8th, & 9th grade seasons i played post, but because im not exactly the tallest im having to change to guard. im really worried about dribbling & outside shots any one got anything i can practice?!
THANKS
hey, i play basketball too. But, I am tall. So if you get changed to a different postion, then make sure you practice that everyday. Go outside and practice EVERY THING about basketball, because you don't know what postion your going to play. You could talk to the coach of the team and ask him if you could play post, but I don't know how your school system works and if you could do that or not, or when you would ask him.
Good Luck ♥ Kendall
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All my life, every best friend I had has eventually left me. Moving away, losing touch, or a terrible fight has broken us apart. All I've ever wanted was one good friend who would never leave me.
This is my year so far: Met a girl in my new school, became best friends for half a year until she left me for a guy. My old best friend and I fought so he ignored me until we stopped talking. My other best friend became sort of slutty and we stopped talking.
What can I do to find a person I can have a lasting relationship with? How can I tell if our friendship will survive?
When somebody leaves you for a guy or because they don't like you anymore, there is basically nothing you can do about it. You have to find new friends and some ways you can do that is this:
-Having a party (invite old friends & new people, who knows, you could become friends with your old friends again!)
-Having a new friend over
-Going to the movies with a new friend
-Inviting a friend over for dinner
These will make your relationship stronger in the begininng so that it will not fade towards the end. If you two start to get into a fight, then make sure it stops by saying you are sorry for what you did and make an agreement to not get into another fight again becauase you are best friends. This will make her understand that you and her are bestfriends and it should stay that way. It is hard to find new friends at this time of the year because most everyone already has "cliques" that they hang out with. Sorry, but you could try to join a new clique, but don't join like the art club if your not into art. Don't be someone your not, and I hope you make new friends!!!! ♥
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I have been using Duac Topical Cream on my face...it was prescribed by my dermatologist and has 5% Benzoyl Peroxide and 1% Tri-something (lol...dont remember the spelling)...anyways, it has a 60 day expiration date, and is quite expensive. I was wondering, does anyone use this? If so, is that expiration date a must to be followed? Also, does that expiration mean when you bought it from the store? I am confused!
Experation dates are different on face cream then on say... a gallon of milk. When your cream expires, it means it will start to not work as well. You can continue to you use, but it might not be as effective. You can also go to the dermatologist and just get a new tub of cream.
♥ KENDALL
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i'm 17, and i like this guy who is 27. usually i like guys who are within my age range.. but i suppose you can't help who you fall for. he's very quiet and seems very lonely.. hes doing law so he spends a lot of time studying and doesn't go out too much. he always jumps at the opportunity to speak to me when we see each other. well, i'm not sure what to do about this. 17 is legal for consent and all where i live (so its not a legality thing) but i guess it does sound kinda bad that hes 10 years older than me. i'm wondering whether i should just try and forget about him or whether i should try for this. i don't really care about age, but he might feel differently, and society always views these kind of things as unacceptable. so just curious what everyone thinks of the age gap, and whether it's worth pursuing or not.....?
thanks.
I believe that age does not matter. When you are 27 and he is 37 it will not matter at all because you are both responsible adults. If you like him and he likes you, go for it! Good Luck! ♥ kendall
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Okay. I was supposed to get my period at..eh..around the 20 of last month. obviously i haven't. :( and i'm a bit confused why.
I'm NOT sexually active, nor have I ever had sex.
I'm 13.
But I can't say that defensivley because there are many people my age sexually active.
I just got over being sick..could that effect it?
Thanks for your help. :]
It's just irregular like all 13 year old girl's periods are. The you being sick might have effected it a little, but mostly it is just not on an exact pattern. Good Luck! ♥ KENDALL
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If I have money, and I break a drawer at home, in California, is it illegal for my parents to take money that I earned from my job and spend it on repairing the drawer?
Since your 14, no it is not illegal. They are your parents and they can take your money. Sorry!
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Hey,
I am going to Florida for spring break, which is in two weeks.
So, I went to the mall today to go shopping for my vacation. I went to go and buy a bikini,and I knew it would be hard to find one because I have a very large chest.
Well, I went to four different stores, and could not find a single one that fit me...
Does anyone know any stores that would have stuff for girls with a big chest...?
And I would like a bikini, not a one piece...
Thank you...
Victoria's Secret definitly has some
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Could anyone tell me how you make the little hearts that you type in?? I have no idea how to do it! Plz help!!
♥
its really easy =)
it doesn't show up in the questions but it shows up on the advice column.
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I have this habit of overeating when I am sad. I have been having some friend & boyfriend problems lately and it makes me eat all this food, especially ice cream. Its not like I'm fat or anything, but I just want to know how I can get over this habit. I can't just stop eating when i'm sad.....or else i just can't get over it. What can i do?? Please help! I'll rate high if you give a logical answer...instead of calling me a stupid name or something.
Instead of sitting down in front of the TV with a gallon of ice cream when you start to feel sad, go outside and run around the block. Or do an exersize video. This will help you let out your sadness and anger, and help you keep fit at the same time
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When it says on the "Your Feedback" page, "Total feedback points" what does that mean? Like how do they get the points?
Just wondering, lol. thx if you answer this though.
when somebody rates your advice 1-5 it all adds up. Like if you answer 5 questions and your ratings are 5 5 4 2 5, then your Total Feedback Points would be 21 points.
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Well my Best friend's boyfriend broke up with her because he liked me. She knows this. I feel so bad. I don't like him....i have a boyfriend. My boyfriend is his friend. I am so confused. I don't know if my friend hates me now. She always seems really sad around me. Can anyone help me?
She might just be sad becuase he broke up with her. It was realllllly stupid of him to brake up with her for you, who has a boyfriend and doesn't like him. Talk to her and him together and let your feelings out
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All of my About Me in my Advicenator profile got deleted!! It took me soooo long!!! Do you know how to get it back!? I'll rate supa good please.
is this dez? i read ur thing it must have taken a loooong time to rewrite it. you have to rewrite it! sorry !
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so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME!
That is rape and a very bad thing. He was pressuring you to have sex with him and you need to tell some one. Good Luck.
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Okay. I've had my period on a regular cycle for a little over a year and a half. This week, it came a little earlier than usual, but sometimes its a few days off. Anyway, it started three days ago, and until this morning it had been really light. For half of today it had been regular, then started being light again around 12:00. I don't think anything's wrong, but this hasn't ever happend before and i just wanted to check. Will it be longer since it's lighter or will it be the same length?
Even though it is light it is just re-adjusting. It's still irregular if you've only had it for a year and a half. It will most likely go back to normal next month
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