Don't listen to what your friends or his friends say because they could be trying to trick you. Sometimes they are unsure about what they are telling you so its better if you ask him yourself. Just ask him what his feelings towards you are and after he tells you then you tell him how you feel about him. Flirt with him more and see how he reacts to it. Hey if you both like each other take the chance or wait to get to know each other more. Hope this helps!

-Manda

If you really care about your friend you should try talking her out of running away. You dont know what could happen to her. She doesn't have to listen to you, but think about it what if you dont ever see her again. A lot of things can go wrong. You could stop her from making a big mistake. What if she's not happy after running away. Tell her how you feel and its not really worth it. Try talking her parents about it, but tell them not to worry because you can help or they should try talking to her. Hope this helps!!

-Manda

I know how you feel! Try hanging out with him more and you guys will get closer. You gotta respect that he doesn't want a gf right now and dont worry things will change between you two! Tell him how much you care about him and what your feels are towards him. Dont pressure him or force him to go out with you. Try meeting new people to get him off your mind or think of other things. Dont worry about him. Dont let him hold you back because if you two get back together you wont have the freedom like before you guys broke up. Hope this helps!

-Manda

You should talk to your boyfriend and he needs to learn to trust you. He's just jealous and deep down he doesn't want to lose you. Remember there might be times your like that to him. Everyone gets jealous so respect each other. Dont worry about if his sister likes you or not because she's not apart of the relationship. Hope this helps!

-Manda

If your not sure you might want to hold out and try to get to know him more. Getting to know him will make him realize how much you two have in common. If he shows signs of him liking you then go for it and ask him out. You could also have your friends find out for you, but that isn't the best idea because your friends could be lying or he might not being telling your friends the truth. You can straight forward ask him yourself if your not scared to hear the truth. Good Luck if you do ask him out! Hope this helps!

-Manda

I dont care about have a high rate or feedback, but its nice. I just really want to help you out because I used to be in that situation. Maybe you two were spending too much time together before and now you two are starting to get bored of each other. Have you tried talking to him about this? Remember he may feel the same way you feel and he might not be sure if its okay to talk about it with you. Telling him how you feel is a big part dont let everything get out of hand then you want to try to tell him. Always tell him ahead of time. Sharing about how you two feel is the biggest part of a relationship. Maybe you two should take a break from each other or try getting closer. If you take a break you see how much you really miss him because taking a break for a long time will help make your relationship stronger. When you two are away from each other you'll think of each other and know what you should or shouldn't do. Things change in a relationship sometimes for the better or worse. You can't always have everything your way. This change could be good for you two because it will should you if you two really care for each other and need each other. Hope this helps you!

-Manda

If they ignore you then let them be because you can do better then what they are doing now. You dont need them to put you down. Be yourself and you'll meet more people and have better friends. If you really want to be their friend then you should talk to them about it. They should know how they are making you feel. I used to think the same thing about some of my friends and I learn that I can either deal with it or move on. In the beginning I tried dealing with it and I still wasn't very happy, but now I'm starting to move on. I dont want to be stuck with the same people forever. Deep down you should know that even thought they treated you like that you should always give people a second chance and forgive them because everyone needs friends. They make need you back and you decide if you want to go back. Sometimes you should show them how they treat you so they get a taste of their own medicine. Thats what my family always told me. Its the summer you need to get out and meet new people and forget about your friends for now. Dont let them take your summer away.Hope this helps!

-Manda

You should really talk to him and tell him how you feel.Dont make it seem like your obessed with him.You have to respect how he feels, you can't make him like you and its both your decisions. A relationship is about working as a team and not letting one person be the boss. You two can try to make a different close bond. Even if he's not sure if he wants to get back together just let him know your still going to be here for him and you care and love him a lot.Dont put too much pressure on him and dont put pressure on yourself. HOpe this helps you out!

-Manda

Hey this is a second chance for the both of you. Dont let it pass by because you will regret it. You guys should talk about and tell each other how you guys still like each other. Dont be shy and just wonder about him. Wonder how he feels about you will make a ton of what ifs in your head. So just go for it and you'll do great. Try to talk to him in person..dont do the online things because then it seems so fake. Like you guys might be distracted by a game or music. Try going out somewhere to talk because then you guys are listening to each other. Hope this helps!

-Manda

Girls can do almost anything that boys can do. If you like this girl you should ask her out. This girl is probably scared or isn't sure what your reaction will be. She might be waiting for you to ask her out. She shouldn't be listening to her friends and you shouldn't listen to your friends if they are telling you to reject her or anything. Its your decision and her choice. Dont let your friends confuse you. Maybe you should talk to this girl that you like and see what's up? Hope this helps!

-Manda

I think you should try talking to your mom. She's not going to make fun of you or anything. Your mom can't read your mind and its easier if you talk to her now because later on in life your going to have tons of questions for your mom. I know its hard to ask or tell your mom personal things, but she's going to really helpful. I used to have a similar problem and I just ask my mom went we were at the mall if we could get a new bra for me. For the summer time you should buy tank tops with a built in bra. Hope this helps

-Manda

Trying finding a time with him and telling him that you guys really need to talk. A relationship isn't up to one person, its about talking things out and working togehter such as team work. Not one person can take charge because that jus messes up the relationship. If he doesnt want to talk then you should really move on because there are plenty of better guys out there and you dont need him to be holding you back. You also have to respect him if he really doesnt have time because he has a life too. If he's lying about not having time thats just sad of him and he doesnt need to be apart of you life. Dont listen to his friends, dont know anything and they just want to mess everything up. If you want to move on then just block him out for a while and just try doing other things to get him off your mind. I know how you feel and I know its hard to move on because I've been through this, but dont worry I know you can get through this! Hope this helps

-Manda

I'm going through that right now and I'm slowing moving on. Moving on is the best thing to do and its okay to still care about him because you guys are friends. Maybe as time goes by you two can get to know each other more and that will help move your friendship to a relationship. He's making a good choice of not using you and he doesnt want to mess anything up. Deep down I bet he does like you, but he just doesnt want to regret anything and doesnt want to make you regret anything. Its the summer so you should try to get out more and meet more people. It can be a way to put him aside and a way to have more friends to get to know. I'm trying to get closer to the guy I like, but if things dont change than its okay and its just not meant to be. Hopefully this helps

-Manda

Cutting yourself makes your life worst. You need to tell someone such as your mom or a friend you can really trust. You think cutting yourself makes you feel better and you think your not hurting anyone, but you... its not true your hurting people that really care about you. My best friend used to cut herself and things changed in our friendship. When she told me she was cutting herself I was hurt I felt so bad and I knew I needed to help her. After telling her how I felt she tried stopping, but couldn't because she had gotten used to it. When her mom saw her cutting herself she broke down and really told herself she needed to stop. If your boyfriend doesn't treat you well then you need to dump him because you deserve so much better. There are other people out there that care about you. Hope you stop cutting yourself and I hope I helped.
--Manda

Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site. 

Enough about that, well it's nice to meet you all and my name is Amanda! I hope to really help by giving the best advice I can. I'll always be free and open to help anyone out so don't hesitate :)

E-mail:
Gender:
Location:
Occupation:
Age:
Member Since:
Answers:
Last Update:
Visitors: