what do you do when you like your x-boyfriend still but you're not sure how he feels about you..and you fight with him all the time yet he's the only person you think you will ever love.
ItzMzManda answered Saturday July 16 2005, 1:13 pm: You should really talk to him and tell him how you feel.Dont make it seem like your obessed with him.You have to respect how he feels, you can't make him like you and its both your decisions. A relationship is about working as a team and not letting one person be the boss. You two can try to make a different close bond. Even if he's not sure if he wants to get back together just let him know your still going to be here for him and you care and love him a lot.Dont put too much pressure on him and dont put pressure on yourself. HOpe this helps you out!
Mackenzie answered Saturday July 16 2005, 12:56 pm: You sit him down, and talk with it about him. You tell him flat out how you feel, and what you would like to SEE happen. Then you matuRely and logically discuss possible solutions and events. Hopefully between the two of you, you will be able to come up with some soRt of acceptable agReement. HoweveR the haRsh tRuth of it all is.. you CAN NOT **MAKE** someone like you, as unfoRtunate as that is. And what's the point in foRming a Relationship when only ONE paRtneR holds Romantic feelings foR the otheR?? Just befoRe going into this, be pRepaRed foR MORE heaRtache, as it could definitely end up that way. And if so, I think you should be faiR to YOURSELF by accepting and Respecting his decision. Then I think you should tRy to gatheR up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt, and keep tRuckin' on. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to somoene who won't give you theiRs??? 'Love' is RecipRocal; meaning, it's NOT just one-sided. Relationships RequiRe a 120% effoRt fRom *BOTH* paRtneRs, and without that.. you've got nothing. I wish you all of the best....
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