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Okay so when my boyfriend fingered me he told his bestfriend (which is also my best friend) how tight i was. And i was kind of embarressed. And i Kind of want to strech myself out or pop my own cherry, so he doesn't do it, because i'm afraid it will be weird if he does it. So besides masturbation is there anyother way i can strech myself out? or pop my own cherry?
Also, if your a guy, do you like the feeling of popping a girl's cherry or do you think its sick?
Anything is appriciated =]
Personal stories are also helpful, if you dont mind. (link)
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my hymen was broken years before I even knew what it was. I'm a ballerina so I'm always doing all kinds of stretches and bodily contortions (especially splits) and that's what broke mine. So when I started masturbating and using tampons I didn't have one anymore.
That's pretty much the only other way.
hope i helped
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OK Ok I'm singing in the talent show. Its my first time. To a song by Kenny Cheasney summer time.
Uh. I have NO idea what to wear. I can go shopping for it if its not rediculause amount of money. Like 100 for a shirt is juts way to much ok. Can anyone give me pictures of like what i should look for or tell me a place to shop.
I'm not SUPER skinny but im defently not fat. i dont have bad ugly curves but i do ahve curves and hips i dont like. im just like noramle i think. 5'3 and 125 pounds. I need it by next week so even if you think i dont like please show me somthign THANKS (link)
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it depends on what kind of image you want to give off. you could show clevage and that would draw attention, or you could look more modest and so they would pay attention to your song/your voice.
Since it's a country song I would wear jeans and one of those button-up collared shirts that has liek the pockets u know... and maybe don't button it all the way and wear a cami under it so that would look really cute.
and wear like a cute necklace that's a heart or something.
Just look your most attractive.
Also- curves aren't bad- theyr'e actually really sexy and great-looking. And whoa 125 that is REALLY thin. so don't go thinking otherwise haha.
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so its like my dream to get really really good at wakeboarding. the thing is, whenever it's my time to wakeboard i chicken out and i can't do it. i'm really scared i'm going to have a horrible fall and hurt myself so i just cant get myself to go out in the water and do it. i've went wake boarding before but i had some pretty ugly falls and i suck at it.
first off how do i let myself get into the water to wakeboard without chickening out? and what are some tips for staying up on the board? please tell me everything there is to know about wakeboarding. i tried google but i just got confused. (link)
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do you have trouble getting up on it? The only trick is to be sort of in fetal position but with the tip of the board out of the water, and point your feet.
Then when you get up put your left foot forward and lean to the right (back) so you won't get pulled forward by the boat. Try to keep most of your pressure on the right foot.
If you feel like you're losing stability, bend your knees really deep and tense your abdominal muscles, or just let go of the rope and try to fall backwards so you won't hit the rope or anything.
For a while just don't try to do any tricks or anything- get really good at just staying on top of the water.
I hope I helped
feel free to ask me any other questions about it.
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Well, I really like this girl. I'm 16 and shes 15. We've been hanging out after school for like 5 months, and I've been trying to ask her out for at least half that time. But everytime I'm about to, I freeze up. I'm pretty sure she likes me back. This is especially annoying for me because I've never had a problem like this before, I've always been perfectly smooth with the ladies. I really like this girl, and I dont want her to get bored and move on. She's been amazing to wait this long for me. What's wrong with me!? (link)
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just don't stop when you get to that point in conversation. Take deep breaths beforehand and make sure you are relaxed.
besides, what's the worst thing that could happen? she could say no.
you've got nothing to lose!
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I eat a lot of fruit. Every day I have at least 2-4 servings. I eat a variety of fruits at lunch. I know they are healthy for you, but what about the sugar? Is there something bad about eating fruit daily? I still eat veggies but only one meal as a side. Any ideas? Thanks! (link)
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no there is nothing bad about eating fruit every day, unless you consume a gigantic amount of peaches (which will give you diahhrea)
the sugar in fruit is the healthy, natural sugar- not the unhealthy processed kind found in sweets like cake and chocolate.
I hope I helped.
Try to work some more vegetables in there if you can.
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does anyone have one of those chi straightners because my birthday is coming up and i want to ask for one. is it worth it? does it work really good?
which one do you have ?
o yeah and my hair is wavy not curly buy not straight lol somewhere in the middle and its semi thick (link)
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omfg i have the exact same kind of hair. I have the regular chi straightner... I don't know which model it is exactly, but it's liek thin and everything u know...
i'd say it's pretty well worth it. It's the only straightner that works for me.
so yeahh i'd say get it if no other straightners work for u.
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Okay okay...Im 14/f and im dating this guy.
Hes so sweet. And hes perfect. And i love him.
And okay...ive dated guys in the past, but it was stupid and we never did anything. The farthest ive ever gotten with any guy was this one time, i got really drunk and we kissed. He was trying to make out with me but idk...he just sorta sucked on my lips until i pulled away. Like i said, i was drunk.
But this ones perfect. Hes been moving at a pretty good pace for me. We hold hands and cuddle and stuff and we've been on one date (to the movies with a bunch of friends) and it was great. So tomarrow night he wants to go to this great ice cream place, just me and him. Im really excited. Every once in a while, on the phone, he mentions something about kissing me. Ive never really kissed a guy, for real. And im nervous that i'll skrew i up or something. i dont need kissing lessons or directions really, just some pointers on keeping it simple and stuff.
like What do guys my age expect for their first kiss with a girl?
also, when you just do a simple peck, do you just brush up against his lips or like suck in or what????
idk...
help. (link)
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tilt your head a little bit to the right and just make it a regular kiss- nothing special.
just press ur lips up to his really fast and just pull away because it will scare him off if you try to do anything more than that.
good luckkk
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i am a redhead, and actually have very few freckles, except for in the summer, then i get them like dark brown on my nose. They are soooo dark and i hate them!!
I am going to the pool on thursday, and i am looking for advice to either fade or PREVENT freckles. mostly to prevent.
i have tried lemon juice, it doesn't work..
I am willing to pay for a product ifthere is one!!! (link)
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if you want to minimize the appearance of them, get a good foundation and put it on your face.
make sure it's a natural-looking one though.
then put loose or pressed powder over it.
just don't worry about them- i'm a redhead too and i used to have a ton of freckles but now they don't show up because they've faded away- but in the summer they come back all brown and stuff...
so i know what ur going through. haha
u know freckles r actually really pretty and i've grown to like mine.
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15/f is there anything I can use to masturbate besides fingers?
thanx!
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These are the things I use:
flat end of a sonicare toothbrush on my clit
venus vibrance razor (in my vagina)
random things like markers/bannas/etc.
toothbrushes
any smooth phallic (penis-like) object
you can also order some legit sex toys from amazon.com without anyone knowing ;)
hope i helped
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F/15
And i have fake foreplay in my mind then dress realy pervocative and masterbate. i NEED to stop! How? i always do it !
its enough. any tips? (link)
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I'm the same age as you and I've been addicted to masturbation and orgasm for quite some time.
Don't try to stop if it makes you happy/sexually fulfilled. There's nothing wrong with having these feelings.
I actually do the exact same thing- like I'll put on some sensual music, light some candles, get in my lingerie, then take out my vibrator and i'll do it for like 2 hours. So you're not alone.
but if you really for some reason want to stop then just go cold turkey. or just do it every other day, then decrease to like once every week or something.
i hope i helped.
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I'm in the mood to watch some really romantic movies, so if you can list any besides the Notebook or Titanic, I'll be soooo grateful! (link)
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phantom of the opera is really romantic. so is funny girl...
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so you lost thirty pounds just by doing hat? but how do you keep track of it? like how do you know how many calories youre eating[i kno, read nutrition facts] but some dont have them i just tend to eat whats there and sometimes im so hungry at night but i dont wanna eat coz i wont be able to burn loff the calories i just ate coz its bedtime.. urrgghh can you help me and give me even more tips? thanks (: (link)
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you sound just like me about 3 months ago... I went on xanga.com and made an account where i list everything that i eat and the caloric levels in 1 post for each day... u can see mine @ www.xanga.com/mrsthenardier
it'll seem really hard at first- but the truth of the matter is: there is no "secret" to weight loss- exept to stay on track. By this i mean having mostly "good days" where you keep your calories under control and you get enough exercise.
You seem to be just like me- someone who is overweight (which i don't know if you are) and is just obsessing over the fact that she is overweight and constantly looking for the secret to thinness.. and thinking that she'll never find it- and therefore eats more because she is more unhappy from weight gain.
You need to break this neverending cycle of eating more, getting fatter, then more unhappy. That's what I did- and I feel so much happier with who I am already even though I'm still 20 pounds overweight.
This is what you need to do step by step:
1. set goals for yourself (i'd suggest taking it 5 pounds at a time- then relaxing a little but not too much)
2. determine a caloric limit (ex: never exceeding 2000, but staying between 1200-1500 normally)
3. decide what kind of exercise you want to do. (i take dance classes and i run/do other exercise machines)
4. Start!
And if you don't know the exact calories of something- estimate the calories. For example: a cup of some kind of pasta or rice dish probably has around 200, so just say 200.
Also you must have proper portion control: like don't eat more than 1 serving of each kind of food- liek don't just keep eating after you've finished a plate of food. (seems hard but gets so much easier and after a few days- you will only want one serving. trust me)
I acutually measure my food with measuring cups... That way I can know the exact amount of calories.
You can also go online to find out how many calories a food item has (just google the name of the food+calories).
Well, I hope I helped.
and remember: never say "i'll start tomorrow!"
and every little thing counts when it comes to dieting.
feel free to ask me any other questions
here's my aim sn: xbwayxactressx
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in my physics class i have a B or C and the final exam is worth 20% would i fail the class if i fail the exam?? (link)
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well that depends on what kind of a grading scale your school has... my guess would be no.
but it could pull it down a whole lettergrade probably...
try not to fail it though..
good luck!!!!!
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okay well i have a really big problem. im 15/f. ok im going out with this guy and ive been going out with him for like 10 months.. which is a pretty long time considering im only a freshman. i really love him and stuff but like i just feel like i dont really want a boyfriend right now. i wanna just feel free and do whatever i want. especially since its summer right now. if i break up with him i dont wanna get into another relationship right away. i just wanna like be free. and also he gets jealous really easily so that makes it even worse because i really feel like i cant do ANYTHING. so what should i do? break up with him or stay with him? and i know that if i break up with him i will still hang out with him and stuff because im friends with his friends and stuff. thanks xo (link)
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if I were you i wouldn't break up with him- you might just need some time apart from each other... DO NOT SAY THAT TO HIM THOUGH! Just go on a vacation and turn your cell phone off or something. And don't go online so you won't have to talk to him. If you feel like you don't miss him when it's over and you're better off single, go ahead and break up with him but put a lot of thought into it.
You don't have to be crazy about him every single second of your life... It's normal to feel like you don't really want a bf right now.
Just remember- you will probably miss having a bf if you break up with him but it will be too late... so just be really really careful whatever you do.
I hope I helped.
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how do you lower your entire body's total fat percentage in order slim down your tummy? (link)
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limit your calories. (i try to stay within 1200-1500 per day and i try not to ever exceed 1800)
get 20-60 minutes of cardio per day, (or 4 times a week)
This may seem really hard at first but if you REALLY stick to it, then it becomes sosososososososo much easier after about a week (or less).
Also take a multivitamin every day so you won't be getting pms cravings... and eat right (replace unhealthy food with vegetables/fruits)
i was able to do this and i've lost 30 pounds already... i have about 19 more to go...
trust me you'll be happier with yourself once you can at least start taking care of yourself.
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I've had dark circles under my eyes for a while now, and they've gotten worse over the last few months since I had bad sleep/eating patters (stress from school). I'm wondering, what are some things I can do to minimize the appearence of dark undereye circles? Thanks (link)
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I have under eye circles 24/7 because of my fair skin- so I have to apply concealer to them every day.
The kind(s) I use work really well- "Estee Lauder smoothing creme concealer", "Almay skin smoothing concealer with kinetin", and "maybelline cover stick" (the last one should be the most common and easiest to find)
just blend it in with your ring finger (it works the best) and put some loose powder over it so it will stay.
Just try to correct your sleeping patterns and eat better- take a multivitamin every day... They should clear up soon anyway.
Hope i helped
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is it true that when you get stress, tired, angry, dont smile, or frown alot you get wrinkles and you grow white hair?!?! im really curious thankss (link)
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No, this isn't necessarily true. Especially for people who are too young to have white hair.
It is possible that tremendous amounts of stress could contribute a little bit to hair turning white (in a person who is at least over 35), but not a significant amount.
Too much stress just isn't healthy- that's all you really need to keep in mind.
Besides, I'm usually really stressed and angry and unhappy and frowning all the time, but my hair is still perfectly red. haha
I hope I helped :)
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do you know any creams that can get rid of eye bugs,,or anything that you can do?? (link)
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If you mean eye bags, i'd suggest trying cold tea bags or cucumber gel... But if you really have bugs in your eyes (from soft contacts or something) you should see your eye doctor immediately because you must have something really wrong...
Here's another thing that I found for eye bags: using raw potato slices.
just spritz your eyes with water, then slice a potato into several slices so each eye has several to use.
Then lie down for 10 minutes with them over your eyes.
I hope I helped
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hey,
i've had a crush on my best guy friend ever since...around fourth grade we've been really tight ever since then, but ive always felt a little more for him, now for the past couple months he's been flirting a lot with me and calling me a whole lot more..his best friend asked me today would you rather be best friends or date him. his friend sent me a convo between them saying that he wanted to ask me out...i really want to say yes but would that destroy our friendship? (link)
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If you like this guy (you don't even have to like him romantically yet) and you wouldn't mind spending time with him- then i'd say yes- go out with him. The best couples always start out as friends. :)
I don't think it would destroy your friendship at all- if anything it would make it stronger and more meaningful.
The worst thing that can happen is that you two will not get along anymore and you'll break up- but you can still be friends probably. Or even if you don't stay friends- it won't matter to you at that time because you'll be ready to discontinue your relationship with him.
Think of it this way- if he asks you out and you say no, do you think he'd still want to be your friend? He'd feel really bad.
I think that saying no would do more bad than good.
So go for it girl!
hope i helped.
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My allergies are acting up really bad. My nose is stopped up, my throat is scratchy, and I can't stop sneezing! I would usually just wait for it to blow over, but I'm a singer and I have a performance TONIGHT. What can I do to clear it up for just a couple of hours?! I'm desperate! (link)
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there isn't any way to completely clear it up... but if you haven't tried this already: go to a pharmacy and buy "Singer's Saving Grace" throat spray- it's a miracle.
I'm a vocalist too and it's worked wonders for me if i spray it right before i go onstage.
You could also try Saline Spray. It's salty water that you squirt into your nose and it should dry up your congestion.
hope i helped :)
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