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i want to make ma xanga back ground lk a collage of all these pics except in black and white...and my photo shop isn't working and when i do it in paint i cant make it black and white.....any way of using html t do it?

There is a way of makeing it grey scale, but I'm afraid I have forgotten it at the moment. I'll get back to you if I remember

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Hi see my boyfriend hasnt called me for a week in a half, and im worried about him breaking up with me,we always tell each other thatwe love each other. But I am really worried!!! i cant call him bc he lives far away. What should I do??
Signed
Ineedhelp!!

You *can* call him, through the magic of telephony. If you are that worried then maybe you need to take controll of the situation. Having said that, if your partner really loves you then you should trust him not to go off with another girl and not to break up with you. IMHO all good relationships have two main ingredients: Trust and communication. Yours seems to be lacking these, so you really need to call him and discuss your fears.

Good luck :)

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how do u make a buddy for you profile with journal icons on it cna someone help me liek walk me through it? plezzz i.m me im so desperate EcKo BaBi xO that is my s/n hurry plez!

Well, I'm not entirely sure what you are talking about, but if you want to make yourself an avatar or something then you need to get hold of a graphics programe like Adobe photoshop to makes one, and it depends on what'profile' you mean as to what size it will have to be.
Sorry I can't help furthur.

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Ok, over the past few weeks a lot has been going on. I'm fixing to make some big transactions and I'm going to have to leave a lot of my close friends behined to move to a different location. Something that's always been very hard for me, is dealing with CHANGE. I know it's like that for a lot of people, nobody really likes change yeah yeah. But I always get extremely depressed when I have to change things in big ways, especially if I love the way my life is going. I just feel like everything is going to fall apart. So, I guess what my question is, is has anyone ever had a hard time with change, and overcame it.. if yes, then how so.. I mean if there even is an awnser.
Thanks.

I think the bigest chages in my life recently have been the death of my two remaining grandparents. To be honest I don't quite know how I delt with it, maybe I'm still dealing with it, but I know that after a while the upset that was caused becomes slightly more bearable. You never really forget what it was like, but things get easier.

I think the best things you can do are to try and keep in contact with your old mates, by phone e-mail, snail mail ect, as well as joining some local clubs [in the new location] and maybe inviting your new neighbours round for a housewarming or somthing.

I wish you the best of luck :)

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I know I love you now.
Its your eyes,
Sparkling as you laugh,
Watch me trip and fall.
I can see you.

And your gaze,
Your gaze ...

Maybe it`s how my stomach flips
When your hands brush mine.
Or how my brain goes numb,
And I can`t talk right ...
You make me feel like an
Idiot and a goddess at the same time

Maybe it`s how you bring me up;
You make me laugh, be happy my girl,
Be happy. Let me see your smile

My heart is beating, beating
But I am still bleeding.
And I know you`d never do that.
He doesn`t know ... I cried.
You are my angel.

But I must tear away,
I`m not allowed ...

Oh, Your Gaze.


-- okay me n my friend make stuff like this up. we had a fight about the several subjects in it and oh beep beep head it was tough for us .. and stuff but now we`re best best friends and she thought it was good but i dno..

opinions??

thank sOo muchh!

xox-elle

Humm, the poem itself shows a good grasp of structure and form, but to be honest, the content doesn't exactly move me to tell you its amazing. Its a bit rambling, and the last few stanzas kind of ruin the mood for me.

To be hoest, this subject matter has been done so many times, it's hard to bring a fresh angle to it. But overall I would say you and your mate show promis, keep working at it, and try to explore other subject matter. A good excersise is to take somthing really mundane, like making a cup of tea, and turn it into poetry :)

good luck, and keep writing :)
[don't forget to check out http://www.draakchaos.com/home.html]

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Where did you get flavored condoms? Do they really protect you?

I just bought them from a supermarket, but I expect you can get them from any pharmacy or drugstore.
As for protection, I've not actually used one yet, but if its from a reputable company then I don't see why it shouldn't. All condoms comanies have to adhere to strict guidelines, and most have some kind of mark to signify they coform to that standard.

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i no that this sounds relly stupid but in the advicenators thing you can send mail in it does ne one no how i need to no thanx

If you mean you want the Admins email, I don't think she has it on the site, but you can use the 'contact us' button to ask her a question.
Unfortunatly Private Messageing is not available at the moment, if that was what you meant.

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I need help. I use to be bestfriends with this girl. We hung out almost every single day all the time last year and most of this year. Now that summer has come she works till 10 on the weekdays and on the weekends she goes away, I'm not allowed to go away with her from ym parents. Next yera we are goin away to different colleges not even close to each other. She always tries to make me feel bad for hanging out with my boyfriend and not her but she works till 10 everyday. What should I do?

well, have you told her that you find it very difficult to hang around with her, so your only option is your b/f? She needs to understand that any kind of relationship, be it romantic or platonic, needs to be maintained by both parties.
Maybe you can see if she can get even a day of work, so you two can hang around :)

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Can anyone give me the lyrics of the song "Superstar" by Jamelia??

Just do a google sherch, its not that hard.

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WHAT ARE HICKEYS??

Basicaly they are bruises caused by someone sucking on skin, and bursting a bunch of capillaries, then pulling the blood to the surface.

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Where's a good place to get good Midis at?! I'm have absolutely no luck!

http://www.google.com/search?q=midis&sourceid=firefox&start=0&start=0&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8
This is a google serch page for midis, it has tonnes of good sites.

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I am deaf but i can hear litle and i can talk i have good speech but my voice make me sound like little kid. I want know how to writ songs and how you end it and how come up with ideas of makeing songs any tips

Songs are like poems; the best ones come from the heart. Songs usually benifit from a strong rythum and ryhme. As for coming up with ideas, well, there are ideas all around you, in the news, in your heart, what's going on with your mates etc. Maybe you could start of by writing about how your disabilities affect you, your life and the people around you.
As for your voice, maybe training would help.

Good luck :)

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everyone is talkin about being a moderator and i do not no what it is !! cuz i might wanna be one or sumthin ! IM me AIM my s.n is d 0 r k y me x3

please i wanna kno really bad

- RaChEl

Well, a mod is someone who helps the admin manage the site. For example, mods can rate and approve questions, suspend users ect. However, you can't just decide to become a mod, you have to have it bestoed upon you, if the admin considers you a decent columnist and responsible person. You can also get to be a mod by rating questions and being an alround good person.
see the faq for more info:
http://advicenators.com/mod.php?mode=faq

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does anyone know the head advicenators website?? thanks!

Are you sure you don't mean http://spacefem.com?

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if i fucked my boyfriend today...can i go to the clinic 2marow and see if im pregant! please answer should i take the day after pill

I think you have 72 hours after you have sex to take the morning after pill, so its probably a good idea, unless you are old enough to want/have a kid. Also, you can get home pregnancy tests.

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Okay , me and my boyfriend was talkin on ta phone and he asked me to marry him(AND AT A YOUNG AGE TOO) and I said no , was it the right thing to do ???were both 15.he aint mad but he is kinda sad , he said he wanted to be with me forever,and I let him down. was it the right thing to do???

Well, the first two times my partner asked me, I said no. The first was cuz I was only 17, and I felt it was to young. He was also a bit sad, but said it was more of a statement of intent that him wanting to get hitched there and then. The second time I said no, becuse again I didn't feel ready.

So I don't think you did the wrong thing, as long as your partner knows that you do care enough about him to marry him one day, but you don't feel you are quite ready yet. Also, I think in the US you can't get married without perental consent untill you are 18. the limit is 16 in the UK.
*hug*

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hey k so my boyfriend smokes and when he came back from thedoctor he said that if he smoked again hed die right there and then , he keeps wanting to smoke each night how can I get him to stop and hes 15, need help fast
~need ur help~

It depends on what the doctor said would kill him. You could try weaning him off on nicoret patches/ gum. I would also suggest going back to the doctor for advice on how to help him quite. I don't know about the US, but in the UK there is a part of the NHS dedicated to stopping people smoking. Their website is: http://www.givingupsmoking.co.uk/%255Chome%255C/.
Good luck :)

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Im trying to put a new audio system in my 1969 mustang, but i need the original dash harness and face plate, ive been to all the stores in my area ( sacramento mustang, vintage auto, ect) and i cant find anything, does anyone know a california based mustang part supplier i could call?

I did a google serch and this site:
http://www.allfordmustangs.com/AFM_Links/Dealerships/index.shtml
came up with quite a few CA dealers, so try them out. If they don't have what you need, why not ask them if they know of anywhere you might get the parts.

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Ok, I have a few random questions.

1. It's my time of month...so my skin is breaking out. And now I'm getting a pimple inside my nose. And it's not just on the edge...it's on up there. Is there anything I can put on it?
2. When I shave (mostly my legs) the very day...they are already fuzzy. I have dark, thick hair... and it seems it grows back within 1 night. I have tried putting lotion...but sometimes I think that makes it grows back worse. Any ideas?
3. I've decided not to shave "down there" but just trim it...how short should i keep it?

Thanks.

1.There isn't much you can do. If you have somthing like clean&clear, which is very liquid, you could try putting some on a cotten bud and stcking up there.
2.have you tried waxing or hair removal creams? they might work better.
3. I would keep it short enough that when you are on, and you go to the loo, the hair doesn't get stuck togehter. So pretty short, but not so that you are at risk of cutting yourself when you trim.

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me and my sister are going out with these really cute guys who are cousins. when my sis had this other boyfriend i liked his brother but he wouldnt go out with me because me and my sis are related and he has a brother and he thopught it was wrong. now with us going out with cousins is that wrong?

I don't see why. After all, its not like you are interbreeding. Go for it.

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