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well im going out with this boy my 2 friends but i like him alot alot and they want me to dump him and i dont want to dump him cuz i like him ALOT but my 2 friends want me 2 and if i dont they arent ever going to talk to me again
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Your friends are being really stupid. Explain to them that you like him alot, and if they were your friends they'd be happy for you instead of trying to ruin all that. If they don't talk to you, fine. They'll eventually come crawling back. Why would they want you to break up with him in the first place anyways?
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Is there any way for you to find out if you've been rated? (link)
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If you go to your advice column, look towards the top and click the link that says View Feedback. It shows the numbers there. =)
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My boyfriend and i were together for almost 4 months.. and i fell in love with him.. we never really got to see each other.. and we both cheated on each other. But we were in love, so it didnt really matter. He broke up with me a few days ago.. i begged and pleaded and tried everything to get him back. I just want it all to be ok. I cried for 2 days.. and I wrote him a letter explaining all my feelings and how much fun I had with him. The letter made me feel a little better.. but I just need a way to get him off my mind.. its horrible..
please help me! i rate 5s
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Oh, breakups suck. I'm so sorry. I'd say just give him a little space. And as hard as it is, try not to think about him right now. Think about all the other guys that are out there now! Or, try this. Take a shoebox, fill it with the things that remind you of him, and bury it. Or have a little ceremony and pretend like it's gone. It will give you a little closure. A little wacko? Sure, but aren't we all sometimes? I might be able to help a bit more if I knew why he broke up with you, so feel free to IM me (askchristeena) and I can try and help a bit more!
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if you get a fake tan do they look kind of obvious and people will be able to tell that they are fake? (im talking about the kind of tan that you get and get done at the salon, not the one you can buy at a store and put on yourself) (link)
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It depends on if you are really pale in the first place. Like I know people that go tanning and you can't tell because their naturally a little bit darker, but then there's the pale girls that go tanning and you can tell because it just doesn't look right.
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is it alright to not tell your mother baout your period for a few months, because i know if i tell her she will get all emotional and cry and be all my lil baby is growing up and now we have a special bond. i am the only daughter with 2 older brothers. im al right on getting pad and stuff....im just wondering if its safe to not tell for a few months plz help! (link)
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Tell her. It's a great step for a mom to have her daughter expirience her first period. It's not that bad when you tell her, trust me.
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I am 17, 5'11' and 103lbs. I ont know what to do. I need to gain weight. I was just wondering if anyone could recommend anything for me. I am so skinny its disguting. Help Please! (link)
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Eat. But eat the right foods, so you're not putting on flabby fat, but good fat. Eat lots of fruits and veggies, brea, meat, energy bars might help too. Also, talk to your doctor about what you should eat and how you should exersise to put on some pounds. Best of luck!
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ok, i am totally head over heals for this chick.. she is beautiful.. and kind.. and she says to me that she isnt ready for a relationship.. or that she doesnt want to be more than friends.. but i keep getting this feeling that there could be something more! and so i told her to look deep in her heart and see whats there... and to ignore everything her brain is telling her.. then she replies that what i wrote was beautiful and to give her a week to sort things out and not to talk about me and her in a relationship and give her space.. what does all this mean!?!?! by the way most of this is all said in email but yeah.. its the easiest way to comunicate.. plz help!! (link)
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I think she needs time to think, so don't press it. Give her the week and let her approach you first. If you press things at all this week, she's more likely to say no, so back off for a little while. Good luck!
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I have the weirdest problem. Everytime I have a little sickness, I think it's huge. Like if I have a headache, i think it's a brain tumor. If I have a stomach ache I think I'm gonna hurl or that I have the flu. Yes, I know it's weird and freaky. But I need help!! i wanna stop. Please help me (link)
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Ah, I do that too! I'm always so afraid when I get headaches or pains or stuff. I freak out. Is there anything in your past that happened that might make you scared of that? I am probably scared about headaches because my aunt died of a brain tumor. But figure out if there is anything that happened in the past that might make you nervous about sorts of pains and if there isn't, maybe talk to someone about it. If there is, you've gotta tell yourself that some things are beyond your control, and what is worrying gonna do about it? Hope I could help!
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My ex boyfriend and I had been together for about two years, and now that we've broken up, he doesn't want to see me at all. (-there wasn't a fight, it was more of a 'this isn't working out, I don't feel that way about you' type of deal.) He's returned my things through a friend of ours, who gave them to me.
Well, I'm still kind of upset about the whole thing, and we were going to talk a little after we'd had some time apart. I still have some things of his, and was wondering if I should A. give then to our mutual friend, B. drop them off at his house/in person, or C. wait a week or two and then give them to him myself.
All of our friends are shared, so it seems that there will come a time when we'll be forced to see each other. I wouldn't cause a scene or push him to feel bad about our breakup if I did see him, but he seems to want to avoid me at all costs right now. When he'd broken up with me, we didn't talk at all, and it seems this still has to happen (not to get back together, but to clear my mind and his a little between us.)
What should I do? Should I wait it out? (link)
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I'd wait a week or so and give them to him yourself. It's more personal and thoughtful, and even though you're not together anymore it shows that you still care as a friend. Hope I could help a little bit and I'm sorry about the breakup.
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Does anybody know any store that sells Paul Frank hoodies?? Pacific Sun doesn't sell Paul Frank hoodies anymore.. but thanks (link)
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I search Google and it looks like Paulo Frank Hoodies are sold at Urban Outfitters and Nordstorm. =)
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Hey, I have Insomnia. Every night I'm up late trying to sleep. I've tried everything!!! Reading, singing, counting sheep(lol), and I don't drink that much soda. Please tell me what's wrong,b ecause I've been tired lately and I'm getting bags under my eys. (link)
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I don't know much about insomnia, but I suggest you see a doctor if you can. =( Sorry I couldn't be of much help.
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all of a sudden i got this horrible pain right below my boobs, like and when i breath deeply it hurts even more, i've eaten like 3 cookies since i woke up. do u think its that? and what do u think it is. thanks \
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I get this sometimes too, but I'm not exactly sure what it is. Try and lay down and stretch out, relax, drink something warm, try and take some Tums, and it will hopefully go away in a little while. Also, try searching webmd.com with your symptoms, you might find something there. If it doesn't get better within an hour, I'd ask your parents about seeing a doctor. Hope you get better!
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Hey, can anyone tell me where you can get already made icons, like the pictures on Advicenators?? THANKS (link)
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www.iconator.com is really good, they have tons of icons and stuff. Also, a new icon site just opened, www.iconcraze.com!
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how do u start like a lil webstie thingy ???? where do u go ?? i sjtu want a lil website we i can write stuff and put dollz on and everyone can view it . . . ..help me please .. (link)
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Geocities is the best out there (www.geocities.com), so I suggest using them. If you're going to have dolls and stuff on your site though, I'd use Image Shack (www.imageshack.us) to upload them. And don't forget to credit back to where you got the dolls, I used to have a doll/graphic site and it's amazing how many people don't credit.
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Does anyone know of any free picture sites (I mean for sharing photos)? NOT picture trail, I don't want a free trial, I want something that won't get rid of me after 30 days, lol...Thanks in advance. I'll rate. (link)
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www.imageshack.us is the best!
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Okay, i've been using photobucket for a while and just recently my pictures stoped working. I'm pretty sure it's because too many people direct linked to me. Does anyone know how I can know whos using my stuff, and also when my graphics will start working again? Also are there any better sites you know of to use? Thanks if anyone can awnser this. (link)
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I used to have a graphics website, and I used Image Shack to upload all of my files. Out of the tons of graphics I had, maybe two or three of them didn't work, the whole time I had my website! I definitley recommend it to anyone!
www.imageshack.us
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Ok I have been suicidal for a while, and haven't had an episode for about a month... I have scars on my stomach and arms.. but I can't stop thinking I need more cuts... I have had alot of stuff going on lately... what should I do, should I tell someone! I just don't wanna go to a mental hospital! thanks I'll rate high (link)
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You've gotta realize this first. Cutting, though it may seem to help, won't. It will end up hurting you more in the end. It's a temporary release for your pain, so you need to find a healthier release. Maybe when you're stressed you could go out for a walk, or do a yoga video. Both are healthy ways to deal with pain, and exersising releases endorphins which studies have proven to make you happier.
When you get upset and cut, you are releasing before realizing. You need to switch that order. When you are upset, ask yourself what's wrong. Then ask yourself in the long run, what is cutting going to do for that? By the time you realize where your pain is coming from, you won't need the cutting release, because you will know it's not going to help, no matter how good it seems.
Also, find someone to talk to about your pain, because no one deserves to feel this way. Also, keeping a diary about your feelings, while it may seem corny, does help.
Hope I helped!
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Well, I shop a lot at Abercrombie. And some of my friends aren't allowed to shop there. They'd be like 'Oh cute shirt, where'd you get it?' and then I would be like 'Abercrombie' and then they'd tell me that they weren't allowed to shop there. I don't see what's wrong with the place and shopping there. Can anyone tell me what's wrong or are my friends just being too closed minded?? Thanks and I rate. (link)
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Some moms don't allow their kids at Abercrombie because they don't approve of the sexual advertisting. It may not be your friends that are closed minded, it may be their parents that don't allow them to shop there.
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ok i have dark circles uner my eyes... i get a enough sleep but i still have them... ive tried concealer and foundation n crap but it gets so annoying because it comes off throughout the day and i hate reapplying... anyone know any way to get rid of dark circles for long periods of time? i rate high =) (link)
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Sometimes dark circles can be hereditary, so not much other than makeup will help. Try saving up a few extra bucks so you can buy an extra long lasting concealer. Also, make sure you're putting on powder after the concealer, it will help it stay on longer and give it a matte finish.
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