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ay;pi'd say i'm good at givin advice ,but to be honest like eveyone here thinks that they're good .i take my answers pretty seriously .most of the time the reasons my answers are right is because i've been there and done it twice .im not the average teenage girl giving advice either .im a fabulous ,trash-talking ,one of a kind ,jealous ,confident ,dramatic ,beautiful ,crazy ,funny ,creative ,tv watchin ,outspoken and blunt chica;D .so i answer all private questions and ignore ratings
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i'm 13/f. There's this guy at school. He's rly nice and used to talk to me a lot. And now...he doesnt. He doesn't even look at me. I miss the times when he hugged me and told me it was okay...
Then after a long time, he just said sorry... Should i give him another chance?
always give your friends another chance. (if ur guaranteed he's srry) def. talk to him because its hurting you and deep down its hurting him. but before you give him a chance talk to him and see why he was ignoring you. if his story sounds good and he's making alot of sense the go for it!
thanks for the chat lovey and ask me questions ANYTIME. (dont ever think your troubling me for the answers. i dont mind) =)
I'm 16/f, my best friend is 16/m. I feel like when he hugs me now, it's like he doesn't want to or something. Like he's the one who goes in for the hug, but when he hugs me it's quick and like, I feel like it's not all there..if anyone knows what I mean? I used to feel like he wanted to hug me, like the hug felt right. I'm not sure how to state it exactly, but when a hug doesn't feel right anymore..does that mean something?
well its possible that its all in you head but if your sure then maybe you 2 should take a break. still be friends but maybe hes over whelmed with own issues. its good your being supportive but just back off a little more. or he just starting to think your boring and uninteresting. let him know that your a fun loving person. do something together thats super fun. and tell him whats going on because after all you could just be paranoid. say that you feel strongly about whats going on and thats its worrying and hurting you. for additional help >> http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=CheerCandi
so, recently, i've been realizing, that, i flirt, wayy tooooo much, wiht like any guy. i can't help it.. its just easy and fun. and i feel HORRIBLE about it. are there any suggestions to help me stop flirting so much, or anything at all?
thanks
14/f
sweetsz theres not such a thing as toooo much flirting (unless your a slut) you cant help that you like a boy so much that your willing to go for it. to stop just stop hanging out with the boys so much (yeah i know its almost impossible). but heres what i do that realy helps me and will help you to. 'think before you talk' (yes i know its extremely hard because people just talk w/o thinkg) but right before you flirt think 'what did CheerCandi say about flirting? oh yah, she said THINK' (he he) for additional help >> http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=CheerCandi
Ok, recently a friend of mine introduced me to some other friends of hers. They are twins, and they are guys. I immedeately fell really hard for one of them, but after talking to the other one, I think I like him too. They are both really into music. One of the plays football and is "hotter" than the other, and the other one plays the guitar, and he's just really adorable. They are both funny and really sweet. And I guess I'm just confused on that. I mean, I just met them on Tuesday, I believe it was. Is it possible to fall this hard for someone I just met? And am I a horrible person for liking them both? 'Cause I feel like it.
o sweetie of course your not horrible! i went out with a twin too.
and yeah its possible (its called 'love at first sight' lovey) you should pick the one that is more interesting and draws attention to you and go for it. flirt and ask him out. but bring it up lightly and all up in the air. that way if he says no just go for the other twin! for additional help >> http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=CheerCandi
hey. i was wondering whats an easy song to sing in front of an audience but still have it sound good...i havent really performed in front of an audience before so ya. btw my voice doesnt do high notes very well.
Amazing Grace is a classic and very easy
Fallin by alicia keys has rythym and is easy
Hero by mariah carey (rhianna actually sang this song for her talent show.
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ook well I'm 13/f first off. I've just got out of a bad experience with a guy who i thought was sweet and adorable but turned out to be a total asshole. (excuse the language) but anyway; I've had my eye on this guy who sells skates at the ice rink i go to every Friday night. well hes really sweet. i mean i have had a normal conversation with him before because hes into the same style as me. but one problem is that he older. not like dramatically older though. maybe for or five years tops. i mean its not that bad right? i mean my aunt and uncle are 10 years apart!! but i don't think age really matters unless its like sickly different. but yeah so anyway, how is a way i can start a conversation? he has a really nice smile and he knows i think his hair is sexy. (its long and orange /natural/)and hes absolutely adorable.
helpp meeee!!
thanks =)
weelll there is such a thing as illegal relationships lovey (when one person is a minor and the other is way older) i dont know if that applies to you both though. well i understand where your coming from. be funny and smart. (not a nerd) compliment him. if he smiles alot at you or compliments you alot then he might like you 2. when you go skating and he calls you over then he def. likes you. absolutely never let the convo go flat. always make it interesting.
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ok so i have naturally curly frizzy hair. but not like pretty curls its just random curls and its frizzy. no matter what i do, no matter what gel i use to make it better it works for about 4hours and then goes POOF. how do i get those loose waves you see in the magazines. im desperate i'll try almost anything
dont do it by yourself because you could damage your hair. go to a salon and get a perm or whatever you need.
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I just got a new ipod and i have a lot of songs in my itunes library from my old ipod. i want to put those songs on my new one. but i heard if i plug my new one in, it will erase all my songs. this is a used ipod off ebay if that means anything. so...#1, is that true, and #2 how can i keep this from happening?
well it is true but theres a pop-up that prevents it if you click it. theres an apple store in the mall. and a website. dont do anything without help because w/o knowing you could easily mess it up
my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my cousin traci always bosses me around and she's 15 years old and if i don't do what she says she says she won't speak to me again what should i do?
well she is only 15 (thats 3 yrs younger than you). you shouldnt be intimadated by what she says. she wont actually not talk to you ever again. and if shes so bossy maybe some time off from hearing her being bossy is what you need. just do whatever you want and if she has a problem then she just needs to deal becaus its her own personal problem
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13/f
The whole school is going on a field trip to this lesiure place called Holiday Hill. I was planning on wearing my new bikini but my parents won't let me. I'm not going to be the odd-one-out wearing a 1pc or tankini. I was planning on wearing it or changing into it there but is there because of this, but how can I talk to my parents about this? What do I say?
i know how you feel. parents just tell you that their trying to protect but idk bout that. anyway go on the field trip and change there. then change back. they'll never know. you might not like lieing but if you dont want to be the only one then i sugest changing. but first ask your parents why they feel this way.
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i want to know how to lose fat but not gain muscle because i dont want to get that fat and muscular look
well sugar and fat out of your diet (carb too) running will help (it wont build muscles but it will tighten your legs after awhile) dont think of food. do stuff dont sit around to think. (if you sit and think then you'll get boared and get hungry) MAKE SMOOTHIES! their sweet, fruity, and delicious. go to a weight loss program (like LA fitnees or SHAPES)
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(15/f)
Well the season of summer is almost here, and I have a slight problem. Due to the fact that I'm currently on medication that has weight gain as a side effect, I am now rather pudgy around the edges. I'm working to lose the weight, but in the meantime.. Does anyone have any suggestions for outfits that won't make me look like the Michelin man this summer? Any fabrics or whatever I should be looking for, swimsuit ideas, etc... Thanks ^_^
sexy 1-pieces. (not too granny-ish that cover all of you) cute sandals. bright pastels.(stay away from dark and gloomy) very light make-up.
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alright. ha. so im 13 (14 in a few days) and my 8th grade dance is on the 15th or something like that. its formal too. and i have to get a dress for it. im thinking like a black or blue one. any good dresses that arent like SO much money. or any like.. other dress ideas?
and shoes too. ah. (i sorta have big feet tho? :[
and i need to figure out how to do my hair. ill tell you what i look like first.
i have blonde wavy hair to my shoulders.
im 5'3 and have blue eyes.
i have long legs? and um theres nothing really else.
so yeah. any ideas on my hair. i think i might just straigthen it.
and the theme for the dance is like bon boi ash (thats spelt wrong) but pretty much like a cruize line thing.
ANY IDEAS for ANYTHING? :] thanks.
well blue dress to accent your blue eyes. black or white open-toed dress shoes. if you go with white shoes the go with peal earrings and necklace and ring (but pearls might be too old) curly hair is beautiful. pin it half up half down. spray glitter is cute to. plus blue and white is like the clear water and white sky
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okay to start out im 14. im about 5' 2'' and 97 lbs. i have been working out a lot lately...i have swim practice 6 days a week, i run 2.5 miles every other day, and i bike ride about 3 miles every sunday. i have been doing this for about 2 and a half weeks now and i havent lost any weight at all..will i ever?
your already 97lb. thats skinny enuf for a 14 yr old. you realy dont want to becom anorexic. thats like the min. for a 14 yr old. theres nothing wrong with it. but maybe eating healthy will help you maintain it. so just eat healthy. doant eat any sugar or fat ao carbs. running daily will help build your leg muscles and help you burn carbs. keep in mind that muscle weighs more than fat
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My weight has gone up so much in the last weeks
How can i control this better, i over eat and cant help it!
dont say you cant help it because you can. and thats one of the reasons your not losing weight. you've already given up. you have no confidence. cut your daily intakes in half. leave out fat and sugar. get more active and go to the gym. get your friends to do it to.
1st, I've been cheerleading for a couple weeks and my friends say I'm pretty good. I can do the motions pretty good but now i want to do a heel stretch but i can it like 1 foot above my waist and can hold onto my foot. Any suggestions or help that will help?
2nd, I want to go into a split but I am short about 6 inches. Any exercises that will make me more flexible?
Thanks in advance!
ok well they do have stretch bands designed for heel dtretches and scorpians. cheerzone has them for 7.99 item number is #SS0001 its called a STUNT STRAP. call them: 800-856-8869.
and do leg stretches on the floor like bend your front leg and strecth thr front. the do the opposite. then go down into a split and stay there for 5 minutes. then switch. its going to hurt but its worth it.
My boyfriend likes another girl form Depew nad asked for her number behind my back. I reall like this girl nad i dont know what i should do..
do you like that girl enough to lose you boyfriend. thats the big question you need to ask yourself. confrony your bf and ask him whats its all about. you should be able to tell if he's lieing if his story doesnt make any sense. i personally wouldnt have tooken. as soon as i saw my boo get some girls number i would storm right up to him. try talking to your friend. its only fair to see both sides of the story. if both their stories dont match or add up then someones lieing.
ok. so i'm at my friend's house and we really want to prank call this really hot guy & she wants me to use my cell phone. well, we tried doing " *67 + my friend's home phone " to test, and it came up like private on her caller-ID. but isn't there a way to like track the last call received? like by pressing *67 EVEN IF I DO *67 BEFOER HIS NUMBER? is there ANY way he can find out my cell number? please tell the truth! love youuu.
i dont know if he really could (he would probabally need a professional for it) i dont think he would do all that anyway. its alot of work to track someone. so he wouldnt track but he would be compketely confused
ok my cats are weird. They drink from the toliet. Even when I have given them a fresh bowl of water, they would rather drink out of the toilet. Is there something wrong with them? should I stop them from doing it? If so how?
thats perfectly normal. my cat does the same thing. you shouldnt stop it. some cats do develop some dog habits (for example my cat likes to be scratced on the stomach whereas most cats hate it when you touch their stomach)
how do i get over a guy and like someone new with the old guy still being my friend¿
ok thats very hard. (i know i've tried)
find some better guy. whatever is meant to be will be. stop thinking of the boy. but first you could make up a list of bad things about him. dont bring him up anymore and just take him completely off you radar. it will be hard and painful and probabally a long process (your not going to be over him over night)
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