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I know most answers are going to be to talk to the person.. but how am I supposed to know whether or not the guy I want to confront is gay or not? If you are gay.. please IM me lol Striker6909 I'll rate you a 3-5 if you answer this question well thanks!

well.. pay attention.. like.. if a pretty girl and a hot guy walks in a room.. sees hoo his eyes are on.. or.. ask around.. usualy.. if someone is gay.. people are gunna knoe about it.. oh.. and a little tip *if you have to question if hes gay or not... maybe you shuudnt want to hook up with him* unless your a guy.. then.. do all tha other things i said and you shuud be able to figure out if hes gay or not!!

*.* hOpE i HeLpEd *.*

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I've been having these visions in my sleep that it's going to become the end of the world by next Friday. I wake up in a cold sweat and see pink gay bunnys everywhere. Then all the sudden the damn rabbits start making out with my pillow. Then the frisky lil things take out bb guns and start shooting my TV. My house then catches on fire, causing the next house to burn up too (some how, i don't know how, though). ...and so on. Then the whole US is on fire. Our president, bush, thinks we're getting bombed by iraq so we go to another deadly war. Then china launches a gigantic nuclear fusion for the hell of it, and the world blows up.
But some how I manage to survive bc/ i can breathe in outter space. Then, I rule the universe! Muhahahaha



What should I do about these dreadful nightmares?


wooahh sweetie.. okay.. this is what you need to do.. *stop smoking so much before you pass out*

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hey guys, what are some good song about a really good friendship. i want to sing a song for my best friend at a talent show but I have no idea what to sing!! She and I are so close and I luv her a lot. (sisterly don't worry) So please help me. If you give me any songs I'll rate you a 5.

LeAn On mE!! oMg.. thats a good song for that.. uHm.. what else.... ? idn what else.. but.. lean on me is a good one:-D

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What are some ways to make money? Im only 14. And I have 2 ways so far, baby sitting and team read. You get paid for reading to elementary kids. What are some jobs for 15 year olds though? ( Im tunring 15 in 2 months ) thanks.

uhm.. you kno those little carts in tha mall? like.. the ones in the middle of tha aisles..? well.. you have to be 15 for those.. and they seem like they could be fun? l0l.. yeah.. well.. anyways.. you can clean peoples houses too.. thats what me and mai friend do.. l0l.. gOoD LuCk!!!!

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I have this boys number and i am afraid to call him.
what should i do? call him?
if i do call him, what do i say?

call him and be like.. heyy!! and then be lyk.. yeah.. so im bored.. so.. i was lyk.. "im gunna call him.. " 0l.. and then.. just be like.. whats up.. and just.. go on with tha conversation.. l0l.. it will work!!.. :D

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i just figured out that one of my really good friends drinks and stuff..and it really sucks because now my whole perception on him is totally changed. is it really that bad to be drinking as a freshman in high school, i mean i know everyone does it or whatever..but its just really sucks to find something like that out about someone you thought you knew..any suggestions on what to do?

well... i thynk you shuudnt treat him any different.. mean.. there are probably a lot more people who drink that you dont know about and im sure if your friend finds out that you were gunna treat him different.. then he wouldnt have told you.. so.. yeah.. dont act different! :D

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hey! i really need your help. alright im 15 years old & i like this 17 year old guy. anyway, tonight when me & my friends met up w/ him it was like 10 minutes till i was supposed to be home. so he was like just call them & tell em youll be home in about 30 minutes. which number one i knew wasnt gonna work & number two he wanted to like make out. so my problem is this...i mean i really want to 'do something' w/ him but im not sure if im like too nervous. like tonight the thought of getting in his car & like driving somewhere & hooking up wasnt making me happy. ive never kissed anyone so maybe thats why. im just so scared...is this normal? do you have any tips on kissing? am i just freaking out for no reason or what! **i nEed hELp**

omg.. yes thats normal.. l0l.. i get waay nervous..so like.. dont even worry bout it.. l0l.. and tha hole thyng with wanting to do sumthyn with him.. but not wanting to at the same time.. is normal too.. thats like.. how i am.. l0l.. but yeah.. just.. go with tha flo of whats happening.. but like.. dont do anythyng you dont want to and alll that junk.. l0l.. but yeah.. i thynk everyone is nervous.. just not everyone shows it as much :-D

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ok i like this guy named Humberto and he is fine!! Well my gurl friends told him i liked him and he came to my table at lunch!! omg and i forgot to say hi and he got all mad and said i was ugly but an hour earlier he was like saying i was really hott and all now he is going out with this hoe that fucks every guy she can!! what should i do i really like him

okay.. welll.. dont worry bout tha hoe.. cuz.. he'll get over her.. and if he went over there to sit with you.. and he got mad cuz you didnt sae hi.. then he prolly likes you.. l0l.. but.. if u want to speed the process of him gettyn over tha hoe faster.. l0l.. then flirt.. and be like.. "dAnG.. tOo bAd uR wItH hEr...." haha.. and leave it at that.. l0l.. and he'll be lyk.. DaNnNnNnNGgggg!!! l0l... teassee him.. l0l.. and trusttt me.. it will work!!! :-D

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I have an online photo album. One of the categories of one of the albums is football games. Each album you can allow any song to play while people look at the pictures in that album. What would be a good song to play in a football games photo album?

somethyng like.. rock.. cuz thats all hard core.. and so is FoOtBaLL!! l0l.. yeah.. so.. sumthyn loudd.. and fast paced.. like.. rock... l0l.. mMk!! :-D

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There is this guy in my class and everyday he like stares at me for the whole period...but when i look over at him he looks right away...what do u think that means!thankx
alexa

aWwWw... hE likes you.. l0l.. thats what guys do.. l0l.. and he doesnt want you to kno he likes you.. so he looks awae.. l0l.. thats CuUtE!!

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my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?

okay.. well.. a lot of mai friends parents dont like me either.. and idn.. maybe.. you oculd rite her mum a letter.. like... apoligizing.. or call her.. and try to convince her.. one of mai friends and mai mum were having a problem.. and she called mai mum and rote a letter.. and mai mum started liking her again.. so.. yeah.. :D

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I know this is really early, But What should I do for my 16th Birthday party? Its in July, The readon im asking this so early is so I can save up money for all this stuff. Some things I like are..The color pink,The beach. Im a girlie girl I guess you can say. Dont suggest a Hotel party, I already asked and they said no. We only have a limited amount of money. And a really small house. We may be moving sometime before my party though. So yea anything fun you guys have done for your 16th birthday that was fun and no one will forget please post. Thanks

uhm.. six flags is alwaes fun.. for guys and grls to go and hang out.. and you can rent out like.. teen clubs.. like.. tha groove shack.. or what ever is near you.. it cost like.. 2o0o dollars to rent it out.. but i would be totally worth it.. and uhm.. mai friend had a party last nite.. where.. she turned on sum music outside.. and let people watch tv.. and like.. A LOT of people just came and hung out and tha guys left at like.. 11 and tha grls left when ever they wanted to.. so.. yeah.. i hope that helped:-D

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k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!!

charlotte ruse.. uHm.. rue 21.. vanityy... RaVe has tha cutest.. and uHm.. xxi.. wet seal.. yeah.. those are all CuUuTE!!

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well everyone in my school has a bf! even my ugly bff has one and hes hott! i dont no what to do b/c it seems like no guys like me. i wouldnt say im ugly but im not exactly pretty. what could i do to attracted guys???? thx

hMm.. well.. okay.. l0l.. i asked one of mai guy friends *hoos FrEaKyN fYnE* and he saiidd.. "someone who is hot and a nice personalily and thats a virging..and that doenst do drugs..unless the guy does drug.. then is ok" l0l.. so yeahh.. :D

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Well... last night I was at a football game with my best friends. We ran into one of their ex-boyfriends. She has been trying to set me up with him.. but I had never met him before that.
Him and I really hit it off. One of my best friends went to watch the game (his ex) so I walked around with my other friend.
The guy and I were first talking.. and then he gave me a hug and we were walking around with our arms around each other. My best friend left with some other girls to talk to someone.. and left me alone with this guy. While she was gone, he kissed me... Well.. we were kissing when she came back.. and she got mad. I went to find out why she was mad... she said i could do better than a guy like him.

Before I left the game.. I asked him if he wanted to go to our school's homecoming dance with me. He said yes to me.
During the car ride home.. my friend told me I shouldnt go with him because he is white trash. She probably knows him better than I do.. but I really like him. Should I listen to her and tell him I dont want to go to the dance. or go with him and get to know him better?

oMg!! oMg!! oMg!! thats tha saaame thyng that happened to me.. okay.. mai friend was tryin to hook me up with her ex.. and i did.. and then after i did.. she was tellin me how horrible he is.. and how he was probably cheating on me.. and all that CRAP.. and so.. you kno... i figured she was mai best friend.. and she knew him better... so.. i shuud listen to her.. sooo.. i broke up with him.. well.. it turns out that she was full of crap because like.. a month later.. she was goin bak out with him.. so.. i thynk that u shuud give him a chance and not listen to ur friend.. cuz if she tried to hook you up with him in tha first place.. then he cant be that bad... she prolly just is jelous.. so.. yeah.. dunn worry bout what she said :-D!!

xox andie oxo

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at school once, i farted really loud on accident...see...i sneezed and it popped out! no one will let me live it down...what do i say to them?

OMG!!! that happened to me in 3rd grade.. and omg.. i was watchyn a movie.. and yeah.. it was funny.. but i blamed it on mai friend.. and everyone messed with her.. but yeah.. mai advice is.... laugh it up when people are talkyn to ya bout it.. they arent gunna wanna tease you if they thynk you thynk its funny.. TrUsT mE!

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my bf never really talkes to me that much..unless were sorta alone which never happens!! if we aren't alone..then he just kind smiles if i say something..or is just like ok.. i realllly like him!! what do i do..??

-talking concerns

heh.. a lot of guys are like that.. hes probably just nervous.. so.. when ur not alone or whatever.. start a convo with him.. like.. ask him questions.. l0l.. it forces him to talk.. and then he wont be as shy with you.. and then when ur alone yall can be even closer :-D l0l.. kay... hope i helped!!!

XOXO ANDIE OXOX

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okay, ive had my guy best friend for like a year now, and he recently just got a gf, theyve been goin out now for like 4 months, he loves her, she loves him, etcetc...he usta REALLII like me ALOT in the past..even when he was with his gf, we tell eachother EVERYTHING, he even told me how he felt about me...then i didnt wanna fuck nething up for them so i backed off so he would kinda stop having these feelings for me...now everything is back to normal i think...we just like gradually started talking again and we are like how we usta be...this was acouple months ago, but the thing is, i THINK that im starting to have tiny feelings for him starting to form..ahh i dunno whut to do cause i think im kinda jealous now?? i have no idea how im feeling..i dunno whut to do/think..id appreciate if u helped, thanks =]

well.. he prolly styll likes you too.. and trust me.. if u tell him you like him.. even if he doesnt like you ritew now.. then u styll have a chance.. cuz there are sum people hoo ive liked.. and been shot down bai.. l0l.. and i move on.. but then i find out they styll like me.. and all mai feelings come up again.. soo.. i thynk.. u shuud tell him.. even if he dont like you rite now..
>hOpE iT wUrKs oUt

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okay my friend laurie likes this guy and he likes someone else what are some ways to get him to like her more?

well.. find out what type of grl he likes.. and exagerate on ur friend to make it sound like shes that grl when ur talkyn to him.. l0l.. it mite be lying.. kinda.. but.. she will get him that wae.. l0l.. kay.. furr eXaMpLe.. if he likes FrEaKs *tha good kind* l0l.. then tell him bout a tyme wher ur grl was fEeLiN freakay!! l0l.. yeah.. it would work!!

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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?

aw.. theres nuthyn wrong with you.. and trust me.. l0l.. i thynk tha grls hoo have never been kissed would rather have a guy hoo they kno isnt all expirenced.. l0l..and there are some.. cuz im fourteen and some of mai friends havent kissed anyone.. but.. they prolly wont want an ExPiReNcEd guy.. cuz yeah.. i wish mai first kiss would have been with someone hoo wasnt expirenced instead of bein a playerrr.. l0l.. yeah.. and anywaes.. there are prolly a feww guys hoo havent kissed anyone b4.. if u have anyy more questions.. IM me or ask sumthyn in tha inboxx!!

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