Not an expert, but I will do what I can to help and support
Gender: Female
Member Since: June 17, 2012
Answers: 186
Last Update: September 30, 2014
Visitors: 8365
Favorite Columnists
rainhorse68
dreamer1999
|
| |
Hello! :) I'm in 7th grade and I have a little.. Bra problem..
Ok so the bras I had you could see through them (That defeats the purpose of a bra) so I finally told my mom I needed new ones. Well, we got some new ones and they work REALLY good. However, they're padded and my old bras weren't. I'm afraid people will say something like "Uh.. How'd your breasts get so big?" or something.. Like this 8th grader made a comment saying that my breasts are fake - in front of ALL my friends. So now, they'll definately think they are.
I told my mom about this and she said they didn't look different at all, but I think she's lieing. What do I do? I can't go back to my old ones because they seriously show things that aren't supposed to be showed.. (link)
|
ignore the comments of hate and let your bras work itsa none of there business
|
|
I'm a 21 gay male. I've been in a relationship for over 2 years now. I use to sleep perfect with my partner. Now he has a new job where he works away a lot,when I get to see and sleep with him.. I'm always moving and touching him.. But not knowing I'm really doing it ( if that makes sense). Like I move to where I wake up several times in the night. When I sleep alone, I don't sleep good or don't sleep at all. What could my problem be?? (link)
|
try melotonin it helps me sleep and is safe
|
|
Okay, so you answered my question about James 15/m and me Allison 13/f. But James has recently moved again and I got asked out by someone. Well, there is two problems. 1 is I don't know if me and James are still dating. And we have NO way of talking. 2 is, the guy who asked me out is Jaylen 14/m. But, the problem is he is like a brother. I told him yes but, it is awkward to me. What do you suggest I do? Also what do you look like? Thanks a lot :) (link)
| |
you have no way of communication?maybe try friending this guy on fb and asking him about it.or ask some of his close friends for contact info because he probbalbly gave them some. by like a brother do you mean to you or james? ya i understand, one of my bffs who is a guy asks me out, but i dont want to ruin our friend ship, if you guys really like each other,i dont know why it would be very akward.just act like you normally do around him,and hell like you for the girl you are and he asked out:) be you.you must be great if you have this many guys wanting to date you at age13.Ill post a pic of what i look like eventually, i have very long dark purple hair with a bright orange streak am kinda fat really tall for a girl am 13dark blue eyes heavy eyeliner and heavy meatal band tees and bracelets.now you know the freak answering your questions
|
|
Okay, so my name is Allison and I am 13/f. Well there is this new guy named James 15/m that just moved to my town. Well me and James have been dating for abot 3 weeks now. And i think he is wanting to have sex. When its just the 2 of us he always makes remarks about how sexy and stuff he thinks I am. But he seems to kinda force me to do things with him like let him finger me, blow jobs, etc. I want to know if I should go through with sex and stuff. Oh, by the way he does drugs and steals and does other things I am not proud of. So, thanks:) (link)
| |
if ur not proud of him dont give him sex ur 13(so am i)itll screw stuff up
|
I hate myself...
Like I look in the mirror and cry sometimes.
Damn it, I'm even crying right now.
I don't even know what I'm asking.
Maybe I just needed to post this...
(link)
| |
your beuatiful dont hate yourself dont hurt yourself just cry till ur done
|
|
I get these really bad headaches on the back right of my head and i always feel like shit, like nothing i do is ever good enough like a pressure to be perfect. And Ill get these random moments of sadness where all I want to do is lay in the dark and cry. Please help me, please. (link)
| |
i get theese too......but heres not what to do.dont cut bruise or burn yourself take pills blah blah blah. they go away, twell a doctor or adult, i get thesse and i didnt tell anyone for years and cut my wrists and really hurt myself dont be like me......try journaling??it helps i swear mine turned into depression and anxiety and an attempt at suicide fix it before it gets worse
|
HI
Sooo im interested alot in hair styles ...i usually do my hair straightened and then part it to my right my hair is to my hips and its in layers many people say ohh i love your hair but im getting tired of tht same style i feel like since i always part my hair that way it gets flat ? any tips or new hair syles to try ? thank youu (: (link)
|
try parting it to the left a tiny change but it might puff it up.you could dye it, and scince your hair is so long you can do wayy more than other people can. curl it or tussel it, cuz thats a;awys cool.teasing is fun,or you could tye it up.u could twist a couple peices and pin it by your face. i cut my own bangs,dye my own hair,all this stuffs.right now its purple and orange, and i change it often.try using hair clips to spice stuff up :D hope i helped
|
This is rlly random but the site requested you, but im 14 and female and ive been masturbating for two years and fingering myself dosent wotk out for me and i like masturbating multipul times a day, i like the shower head but its weird if i take multipul showers a day and i cant but vibrators or
Anything because i live with my parents and that would
Be weird. Please help or give ideas. Thank You (link)
| |
i am so soory im not sure why they requested me cuz i honestly dont know much about mastribation im only 13
|
|
okay so i know this is stupid of me to ask but i feel like when i ask people i know i don't get an honest answer. im 5'2 i have light blonde hair that ends right at my boobs its usually curled or in beach waves im a 34DD in a bra i have light blue eyes i usually half to get like a size 8 in dresses since my boobs are so big and have the dress made smaller in the waist i definitely have curves and a butt my waist is smaller and i have big thighs i get really nervous and awkward when i half to get in a bathing suit because i have 2 scars on my stomach. i get told im pretty all the time but i just can't bring myself to believe it i also hate going places because i feel like everywhere i go im being judged (link)
|
you sound stunning,and dont worry about your scars,no matter whatyre from
|
Hi.. I'm 12 years old, female.
So yesterday, I got done eating and I asked my OWN dad for some gum. Then, he said "It's all 'candy candy candy gum gum gum' with you. " That's when I just wanted to cry.
And that's not all. Kids at school call me names too. I told them and all they did was tell them to stop - they didn't!! I told them again and they said "Well they should express their facts and opinions". I told my mom and she didn't care. They can't move me to another school.
I've been counting my calories for over a year now. On the app I had, I set it for 1200 calories I eat.. I may drop it down to just 1000.
My calves are fat, my chin is fat, my butt is fat, my stomach is fat (I seriously have to suck it in), my cheeks are fat.. Pretty much it. I hate my body and I want to go anorexic. Yeah, yeah anorexia is bad for your body but it will be better for me! I'm thinking about starving myself.. (link)
| |
wait wait wait.YOU WANT AN EATING DISORDER???????that is soo incerdably dangerous and self distructive.i have binge and then make myself barf,yea and im not proud.this will not fix a thing and do not do this even if ur bullied and your dad is just a butt for saying that dont let him bug you.
|
Hi,
So I'm 17/f and I already have my ear lobes pierced.
I was wanting to have another one done tommorrow on the ear lobes, but now I've gone all nervous!
Please can anyone tell me exactly how it feels as I was too young to remember my first!
Thanks v.much :) (link)
| |
a pinch than it over.sligt burning will come later just be careful for infections
|
|
My name is amber. I am 16 years old. I live im a trailer with both my mom and dad, my 10 year old bother, my nana stays with us because she is sick, and my uncle walter lives with us, and my uncle alex is just staying with us although he has his own apartment. Alex doesnt even need to be here. Alex is always butting his nose is answering for my parents every time i ask my parents a question. I have absolutly no privacy with either of my parents. Not only that but my dad has became Extremely Verbaly Abbusive to me. He calls me a bitch and a whore all the time. He also calls me a reject. and says " no wonder why nobody likes you". He also has stop saying "i love you" to me. I feel like i have no one. No one wants me and im just a random person that doesnt belong. what should i do? (link)
|
no one ever to exist is in any way worthless, and you certainly are not in anyway any of those things.Even if you think you are, hes just exagerating.your dad loves you and is probably frustrated withall those people hes living with.privacys hard to find espicially with the internet and shcool.your not alone, my dad is like this too. he calls me cutter emo ugly zombie goth freak outcast athiest friendless, and i try top let it bounce off, but no matter who says it, its gonna hurt.bounce bach show them that yous are th smart girl you are by not letting this bug you.find your comfort be it an activity or someone to talk to,any thing helps, but not drugs thats a cusion that will only make this worse.
Well i hope this helped :P
|
|
Im 11 how do I get a girl to have sex with me (link)
|
u wait untill ready and not a baby
wait 7 years or so
|
|
Pagan and wicca penpals, they must be 13-30, may send e-mail then snail mail. Must be from the USA (link)
|
ima aitheist, close to pagen and my best friend is wicca im bored you could be my pen pal :D
|
|
i love my hair with alot of volume , i tease it like once a week and some days its cute and really teased but other days it doesnt stay for long .....any tips ?? (link)
|
sit upside down on a chair.comb backwards upside down spray super extra strenght hairspray and spray at the roots to the eends AND USE LOTS OF HAIRSPRAY
|
|
A want a cute name for my boyfriend what would be a cute one his name is dany? (link)
| |
Isnt Dany cute enough?thats adorable :3
|
|
My highlights didn't come out the way I wanted them too so want to get rid of them. I heard that if you strip the color or bleach it, it will turn out a mess. I just want to get rid of the red hightlights. How do I do it? (link)
| |
dye it black again,bleach the red peices and dye it a neew color a re some chices.
|
|
I am a female and have been watching lesbian porn since I was 11 I am now 12 and want to stop. I masterbate and grab my boobs u even think I'm lesbian. I also have a crush on my best friend who is a female. What do I do I need advice (link)
| |
hey,theres nothing wrong with you if your gay,bisexulal,transexual-whatever.Im bisexual and a girl am 13 and kinda like one of my friends who is also a female and I wont change that,becouse its not an issue..Hey mayby cut out some of the porn,I get that your curius,but it will give you a twisted veiw of how love and sex works.
|
19/f
I've been really stressed out and am staring to get depressed for really no reason particularly. i started cutting almost five years ago and occasionally relapse just from the urge to do it. i started doing it because i was very depressed and was at a horrible point in my life then. things have changed alot since 5 years ago but i still continue to resort back to cutting. i feel like i'm starting to lose control and will end up reverting back to the way i delt with anxiety and stress, which was cutting... ALOT. although i'm much better at managing the need to do it, when i get depressed it just takes over me and i cant stop and i dont want to stop. its a very sick way to deal with emotions or lack there of. I only cut on my hips not om my arms because i live in south where its hot and wearing long sleeves its just impossible and having a job with cuts on your arms raises some awareness so i try to avoid cutting my arms even though when i feel the urge to do so it is on my wrist. i guess i'm asking how do i stop an old addiction from taking over my life again?
-thanks (link)
|
im 13 and have cut a lot on my ams legs belly hips wrists scince I was 11 and yes it dies HARD.Im in therapy now,and mayby you should too.theres rehabilitation places for people with this problem with group therapy and its a good idea.every time you get the urge to gut,snap a rubber band on your wrist and it releases the same chemicals and replace that with cutting.eventually youll lose the urge.
|
|
i am 14 years old,female. my parents have been separted for 3 years, divorced for exactly 2. i didnt really realize that my dad was abusive towards me until a few months ago. he is a narcissist to the maxxxxxxxxx like no joke. he is very smart with numbers and facts and so he tries to twist EVRYTHING around and make it seem something differnt to benefit HIM. i went out to dinner with him to tell him how I feel not him, and all he kept talking was himself, me, me, me. and im sick of it. he uses self pity, manipulation, denial, lying, everything. i have 4 other syblings, my older sister doesnt even see my dad becasue she knows what a psycho he is. my little brother doesnt even "care" or so he says about havign a father right now becasue my dad hasnt seen or talked to him since fathers days. and that is what gets me most mad, i am a very protective sibling and im a straight shooter and have no problem with confronting people and so i was like wtf is going on? you dont feel like you should talk to him..like at all? but listen to this..he goes no im very hurt that HE (my little brother) hasnt texted me its very upsetting..im like are you fucking out of your mind? your the father like get ur shit together and be a father. and i told him the other day basically a fuck you that he doesnt care about anyone but himself and all he said was sorry you feel that way..like really? and i cant go back to seing him its such a toxicccccc relationship and i feel so much better not seeing him.BUT i was sooo stressed out because my dad being the narc that he is ALWAYS put me in the middle between me and my mom wanted me to pick sides and to go back and forth and its just such bullshit im so over him really. but over the 3 years i've lost frends, grades went down oyu name it, and this year of freshman year means a lot to me, and i want to do good, and i knew the first step was letting him go. i guess the hardest part was admitting that how i feel when i see him and when i dont, my feeling dont change, i still feel like i dint have a father. but i have to deal with that on my own and learn to accept it. so it's just affected me in (link)
|
my dad is like this as wwell.im the oldest 13 and expected to do everything in the house.i have deppression and anxietty and struggle with self mutalatin,and he will fucking make sure i know im worthless.ive tried suicide twice,its not the answer,and staerted therapy.i barley see him now,and its helpful,mayby you should viset less becouse he is rude to you.DO NOT GET ON ANTIDEPPRESSANTS.side affects arent worth it.try journaling,becouse thats something you can rely on to always be there.
|
|