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Hi, I am JenniferI am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥
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Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not?
I think 14 is a little too young to be having sex., especially if it's just your first time. You've just only had two years as a teenager and everything, plus it's a big commitment. If your boyfriend leaves you or moves away, you'll feel a big part of yourself missing.
It's really up to you though. If you decide to do it, remember: use a condom!!
Hope all goes sexy (if... you plan to do it)
-Jenny C
I’m sitting here
Watching everyone
Everyone walk hand and hand
Walking with their girlfriends
Walking with their boyfriends
Thinking and wondering why don’t I have that?
Missing being in a relationship
Thinking it’s a bad thing
Thinking its bad that I want a boyfriend
So I don’t try to find one
When something happens good
I don’t except it
I say to myself
This isn’t right
Boys don’t go out with boys
Why do I want this?
Why do I need this?
It’s killing me not having someone
Someone to walk hand and hand
Then I wont be the kid sitting there
Saying why don’t I have this
Being bisexual is nothing to worry about..
I'm not really on myself, but I have a best friend who is. It's nothing wrong. My friend is really sweet and fun to hang around with.
You should be proud of who you are. There's a lot of descriptions for people: gay, black, Asian, Christian, Jew... but nobody sees we're all human. Don't be ashamed of yourself for who you are! =)
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
Heyy, my name is Kathleen and i am 14 and im from Canada. i have a botfriend and i love him a lot but, my EX boyfriend Spencer wants me back, in september he had cheted on me and i dumped hima nd moved on but now he has changed, he keeps telling me that he wants me and taht he has his mind set on who he wants to be with. he says that his life ain't the same without me in it. I love my bf alot more then anything but the feeling for my EX are still there loud and clear and wont go away.ill just me in my bed and all the memories will playback into my head, and how happy i was abck then. and i am happy now but i dont know who i shopuld be with, can you please help me
Thankz ; Kathleen Marie,Canada
Stick with your boyfriend, of course!
Don't mention any of this to your boyfriend. Spencer had a chance, but he messed up and now he's missing out on something good. =)
Tell Spencer that you really liked (make it past tense, even if you do have feelings for him still) him, but he ruined it. Ask Spencer why he cheated on someone he wants so bad. Tell him that you two can be friends, but nothing more.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
see heres the deal. my ex boyfriend and i are amazing together i love him but of course there are things about him that bother the shit outa me. but me and him are gettin bak together. i've been thinkin about the future alot lately and i dont like the way i've been thinking. see.... and him and his dad all hang out alot of the time! his dad is THE shit! well i've been thinkin about the perfect man for me, and the perfect man is.... his dad! his dad is 34 yrs old! hes the greatest. im sooo comfortable around his dad! i take showers at his house and chill around the house in practically nothing while he sleeps! hes walked in on me naked and just went about his business talking to me normally not even glancing twice or nothin like nothin was wrong or even wierd! now dont think his dad is a petafile and dont think im into the older men, cuz normaly im not. i mean i dont wanna b with his dad but his dad is everything i've ever wanted to b with...... is that normal? cuz it makes me feel uncomfortable. and im not sure if i sould b worried or not
Okay...
I really just think that your emotions are nothing really centered on anything. I just think you have emotions for this man, as like an uncle or something. You respect him as your boyfriend's father and he respects you as his son's girlfriend. I think it's just the bubbly feeling you get around family, but you're just confused about it because he's not related to you or anything.
...Just try not be naked at his house, okay? ;)
-Jenny C
I liked this guy for about 2 years and it was very dramaful and very hearbreaking at times because he didnt have any intrest in me he used the dreaded mixed signals. I am starting to get over him and i am in what i call the "bitter" stage, where im just kind of bitter at him. But i can not act like im mad because this would be sensless and stupid. The problem is that he just started dating one of my really good friends. They have liked eachother for about 2 years and she knew that i liked him but ive assured her and everyone else i dont anymore so we dont talk about it at all anymore. even though there realationship shouldnt bother me it does. alot i guess and im just more bitter to him, but rather then being hostile toward im i just dont talk to him that much anymore. but he can def tell that i am and he is stating to do that terrible thing he does were when he sees im paying no attention he flirts and flirts, but i am holding back and doing fine. wat should i do about my bitterness? how do i let it go cause i feel like ive been here
I am SO sorry... but your friend is a HORRIBLE friend for going out with that guy when she knew you liked him. She's a total... wow... I can't believe her! I know you told her that you got over him, but still...!
Anyways, though, to the point:
Ignore the idiot when he flirts with you. He shouldn't be flirting with you when he's going out with somebody. Avoid him to silently show him that you really dislike him. Roll your eyes at anything annoying he does. He's not worth your time.
Tell me everything!!
-Jenny C
I do not know what to do about mixed signals. all i want to know is how the guy feels because he likes this other girl but throughout this year it feels like we have something but its like you dont talk about it. But he still likes that girl. One week he flirts with me alot we make eyecontact and he just comes up to me,eats lunch with me, calls me,etc. But then the next week he will just drag me along.lets just say its very dramay! How do i know wat do because i feel like i just want to know without just staright up asking him. If he has no intentions of anything then i will try to move on but i just want to know!and do u think that what he is doing is deliberate because of the drama and the "history" or is it in my head?
This is how you find out:
Ask him about the other girl he supposedly likes. Maybe he doesn't really like that girl, but only saying so to see if you like him. Maybe...
Tell him, "So I heard you like _____."
He'll answer, "Yeah."
And you'll say, without revealing a lot of emotion, "I don't think you'd look good with her..."
If he asks, "Why??" in a kind of mad, insulted way, it means he really likes this girl and you're just a really good friend of his. Don't worry. This world has more than a million more single boys.
If he asks, "Why??" in this sneaky way... In a way that sounds like he really wants to say, "Why, you jealous??" Then it might be because he likes you. Take a chance!!
Hope it works out!
-Jenny C
Ok, so there is this guy i like and i think that he might like me back but im not sure. we wil call him bill. But overall i wanted to keep my crush on bill a secret but i did tell a few friends. lately the word that i liked him spread all over school and i asked one of the girls who asked me if i like bob who she heard it from. She said she heard it from "Roy" bills best friend and "lila" the girl Bill supposedly likes as well. I confronted Lila and she said she wouldnt do that and she never even heard that rumor and she thinks that it was one of my good friends "paula".But she never heard her say it. I cant sort of see paula doin this but not really...heck i dont know. Im friends with lila too but not as good as friends with her as i am with paula. who started it? and do i even trust the case of he says she says? Should i confront Roy?
I think you should confront Roy. And the way I see it, Lila seems to be distrustful. She is supposedly the girl Bill likes right? Maybe she likes Bill too? So she tried to get you away from him by spreading a rumor. That's what I guess. I don't believe Paula really has anything to do with the situation.
But don't trust anyone with a secret for a while until you're sure... Peopl have big mouths these days...
-Jenny C
Alright well me and this girl were in a relashionship for about a year and a half.we were great together,well a few months ago she left me for this guy i hated to begin with and omg he treated her like shit.well lately ive bearaly been able to get over her and try to move on well i found this girl i absolutely adore.well guess what i find out,the girl he broke up with to be with my ex is this girl and shes not over him and to tell you the truth i dunno if im fully over my ex.shes sooo great though and sweet to me,and we have soo much in common.she knows the way i feel about her,im soo confused though,what should i do,i really want to be with her.and let me restate...i hate him lol.
I think you should stick to this new girl that you've gotten. If your ex left you for another guy, she's not loyal, and you don't deserve her. But this new girl seems worthwhile, so you should hang out with her alot to get your head out of your ex. Be affectionate to her and everything so she'll get her head out of her ex as well . =)
Hope all goes well
-Jenny C
Someone threatened me that he'd beat up my boyfriend if I don't make out with him. My boyfriend is tough and could've put up a good fight, but I didn't want any trouble... so I just did it. It is NOT OUT OF ANY SEXUAL DESIRE!!
So I did... but my boyfriend caught me. At the time I didn't know, but then I saw him kissing his ex girlfriend. I asked him what he was doing and he asked me what I wass doing when I was snogging that other guy. i told him what happened, and he pushed his ex away and started apologizing to me. He's like, "I'm sorry, Hannah, I didn't know..."
I started crying and running away. He tried to call me and everything, but I''m really sensitive and I just didn't know what to do. I really don't feel like forgiving him, but should I? The guy that forced me to kiss him asked me out, should I go with him? Should I go with neither?? This is getting really crazy... I can't handle it!
That is SOOO totally bad!!
I feel sorry for you. =( That's a crappy thing to happen to ANYBODY. So here's what to do:
Don't deal with any of them. Forgive the poor boyfriend, but it might not be safe to go out with him. It'll be awkward, but it seems you guys could stay friends... He overreacted.
Definitely DO NOT go out with that stupid idiot that caused the problem in the first place. He's just a loser. He shouldn't be mesing with anyone's lives like that!!
Meanwhile, look for other nice guys.
Remember:Live.Laugh.Flirt!! ;)
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
well a few days ago me and my bf broke up after that he wont talk to me i broke up with him cause he used me and his a big ass lier so he so mad i hate it after we broke up he told one of my friends that he broke up with thats not true anyways he said he loves me and all that shit i dont belive him oh ya do you think i'm ready to start dating
If by dating, you mean going out with this asshole, no, you should definitely not go back out with him. You' deserve so much better. And you should know it.
If by dating, you mean going out with another guy, take it slow. Get over the hatred you have for the asshole you thoughtfully dumped and start flirting with other guys. Start this whenever you feel your ready. None of us can tell you when you're ready. You should know it yourself. Hang out with a lot of guys and get to know them. =)
Hope everything works out
-Jenny C
ok.....i like this guy in my grade. i sit near himin a couple classes. We talk every day hes there, and are friendly.
Well.....hes really cute. in 5th grade i also liked him (im in 8th now, and i started liking him again) and i wrote him a note telling him and everyoen found out, and im afraid ill be humiliated again if i try and do something similar. i have seen hints that just maybe he considers me more than a friend....but im not sure
please help me
p.s. i also don't think i could have a friend ask him for me, im just too shy and since i see him constantly. his locker is also three down from mine!! hes really nice...:(
First: Don't start conversations with him. Wait for him to start one with you. If he doesn't... well, he just doesn't like you and you're going to have to accept that. But if he does, that's a tiny sign that he considers you as something (like a friend, maybe)
Then: Smile at him everytime he looks at you. If he's a basketball player or something, cheer for him at every game he has at school. If he notices you and waves at you or something, be happy!! If he doesn't, don't really take it as a bad thing because he'sprobably concentrated in the game... If he's not a sports player, just hang out with him after school or something.
See what sparks between you guys. Tell me everything!
-Jenny C
15/f.
i've never been in a relationship before..and honestly..i'm not pretty AT ALL. and yet, this guy likes me. he asked me out before, back in like..march. but i said no to him..because i was going through a lot of issues with this other kid who i liked. well now..i hate that other kid and i really like this guy again. apparently, he still likes me too. we can talk a whole lot about pretty much everything..but we never bring up our feelings for eachother. i kind of want to say SOMETHING to him..anything really. i just..don't want to sound like an idiot when i do say something to him.. how can i prevent myself from making a complete idiot out of myself? i don't really want to bring it up out of the blue..and i don't want it to turn out this was all a game or something and end up being hurt. please help.
Start by flirting with him... just a little. Don't get carried away. Be affectionate and really sweet to him. Ask your most trustful friends to ask that guy if he likes you. If he's a basketball player or whatever, cheer him on the loudest at his games and everything. Start by being his best friend and slowly work your way up. If he doesn't return your feelings for him, don't worry! You seem like a sweet girl that a guy would want. There'll be the right guy for you some day. =)
Good luck
-Jenny C
16/f.
alright well i really like this kid "B". and i really thought he liked me too. we talked and everything and then we hooked up at a party. he always flirts with me and everything too. well last saturday he called and invited me and my friend to a party. we went. but he was being a real asshole to me. he was calling me a bitch and everything in the car. then we got to the party and he was like slapping my butt and tapping me on the shoulder and moving. then i was talking to this girl and she said that she just met him and she wanted to hook up with him. she said that he kissed her before he left to get us. that really made me mad. and THEN he started kissing me in front of her. and then they had sex. then he was kissing every girl BUT me. he even tried kissing my friend even though she has a b/f. she pushed him away of course. i was so mad i sat in the bathroom and i wanted to cry. but then i decided that i wouldnt let him ruin my night. so i went back to the party and i started talking to his best friend "E" that ive known since like 4th grade. he was really drunk but he kept hugging me and he told me that he's always thought i was cute but he doesnt know why he never talked to me. he said that he liked me. then i danced with him and after an hour of us talking he kissed me. he did tell me that he acts like a whore when he is drunk. he said he just wanted to stick with me. but i went upstairs and then came back down and the chick that had sex with "B" was flirting with "E". then she started making out with him. i got mad again and i just sat down. my friend went and called him a whore and said that he was an a-hole. i sat next to him and started talking to this guy about something and "E" was like "do you hate me" and i told him no but i thought that he was a whore. then he was like "im soo sorry i really like you" and the kid next to me was like if you really liked her you wouldnt be making out with the chick next to you. well by then the chick was making out with another guy. well "E" went upstairs and layed down and i had to go up there for a drink and me and him started talking and he said he was really sorry. but then "B" kept touching my shoulder and moving again. he kept asking if i was gonna have sex with "E" and i kept telling him no. he started being an a-hole again. well when everyone fell asleep, me and "E" went downstairs and hooked up. we didnt have sex though. well then that chick had sex with another guy. she was disgusting. but then the next morning "B" kept asking me if me and "E" had sex and i kept telling him no and he kept calling me a whore. "E" held my hand the whole way home and everything and gave me a kiss goodbye. the next day i got his number and i called him. then yesterday me, him, his sister and "B" hung out. and he was holding my hand and everything but "B" was again being mean to me. he kept calling me a bitch and we all went to mall. he was like "dont walk by me" and i was like "w/e" but then when we got into the car to go get something to eat he was like "why are you so mean to me" and i was like "are you kidding me? your mean to me" and he told me he was sorry and he kissed my hand right in front of "E". then when "E" was in his house to get something "B" was like this is my song to you and it the beginning went "i never knew how loved felt until i fell in love with you" and he kept flirting with me. we all went out to eat. and he kept staring at me even though i was sitting next to "E". idk what to do. there both a little "whorish" but i really do have feelings for them.
i get that weird feeling in my stomach when "B" touches me like i just want to be with him and when "E" touches me all i want do to is cuddle with him and be with him. their best friends and that makes this really hard. "E" has some flaws to though. he's always talken about hooking up with other girls in front of me. i try not to pay attention but it gets me mad. so does anyone know what i should do???
You seem like a really caring girl that cherishes her relationship and handles things carefully. Personally, I don't think any of the two are right for you. I really believe you deserve a much better guy than those two whores. But if you really want to chose, I'd chose "E". He seems much friendlier, even if he is kind of a player, and he's much less whorish than "B". Don't let "B" get you down, always ignore the harsh or flirty things he says, and stick with "E".
Hang out with "E" a lot. If "B" starts questioning you about it, tell him you used to like "B" a lot, when he was actually not an asshole. Tell him you don't understand WHY he suddenly changed. Tell him "E" treats you with more affection, and tell "B" that you're sorry he started being an idiot to you.
I hope things work out. Actually, don't be that harsh to "B" because he can be a second option for when "E" doesn't work out too well. ;)
Tell me everything!!
-Jenny C
I love my sister... sooooooo much..
But there is a teensy weensy problem:
She is EXTREMELY flirtatious. I have a loyal boyfriend, thank God, but my best friend, Layne, and her boyfriend, Connor, came over... and...things got a little heated up between my Connor and my sister. Layne and I were watching a movie, but Connor went into the kitchen to make popcorn or something and my sister was there so...
And when Layne and Connor were leaving my house, myy sister came and kissed him good-bye! On the lips! Right in front of Layne!
Is Connor loyal? Or did my sister do this against Connor's will?? Layne is so upset and Connor is mad at ME for some reason. They're both my friends and I don't know what to do.
I replaced my sister's skin cream with mayo... but what other solution is there??
If Connor is angry at you, he's most likely a loyal boyfriend. Think: why would he be angry? Because Layne now thinks he's a cheater, right? Why would he care about what Layne thinks when he could have your sister? He wouldn't be mad if he doesn't care about Layne. Tell her that, and give her a hug for me, will you? =)
And, gosh, your sister? She is one slutty bitch!! I'm sorry to curse out your beloved sister but seriously...! Tell your sister, calmly, in the complete opposite way of how I reacted against her, "Hey, remember when my friends were coming over? Connor and Layne? Why did you kiss Layne's boyfriend?!"
If she goes, "Cause he's hot, duh!" or something stupid like that, reply, "Well he's my BEST friend's boyfriend! And believe me, he did not like that kiss, because now he's mad at me!"
Tell her in detail how she ruined your life. Try to make her feel guilty. And replacing her skin cream with mayo was totally right.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
i have been using chewing tobacco for about 10 months and i just looked at my gums in the mirror and on one tooth the gum is alot lower then the other teeth. is this because of the chewing tobacco
Most likely yes.
There's nothing you can do except stop chewing tobacco, if you want to deal with it. I don't think brushing your teeth or anything will help...
-Jenny C
Hey everybody this might sound weird, but i think i might be bisexual. but im not sure.. like i like guys and im alwasy like ohh hes hot.. but sometimes i feel slighty attracted to girls.. help??
What exactly do you need help in? Finding out if you're bisexual... or help in trying not to be bisexual?
Well, if you have affections in girls, that most likely means your bisexual, which is nothing to be ashamed of. I have a friend who's bi, but she's cool and fun to be around.
Umm, if you want to stop being bisexual... then I think you should start hanging out with more guys and concentrate on less girls. Listen to romance songs that sing about guys and flirt a lot to get your mind off of girls.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
okay i love photography a lot.
and today we given a fortune cookie and told to take the fortune...read it and make some sort of digital photography with what it is says.
and i got "Believe in yourself and others will too."
any ideas i can do?
thanks
You could take a picture of a girl (could be your friend or sister or whatever) looking up in the sun, holding her head up and smiling. Make the background white and black and the girl colored maybe? The background could be a park if you live in a town, or a glassy city building if you live in a city.
I'm not good with these kind of stuff, so forgive me... if my advice sucked. =)
-Jenny C
My dear boyfriend and I have been starting to get into s&m recently. Last night he tells me to open my mouth and shut my eyes and then HE SPITS IN MY MOUTH! Luckily I caught it before it got in my mouth. I washed my faced while letting off a string of expletives. He apologized. We finished having sex. He apologized some more. I kept bringing it up and he kept apologizing.
Recently I have been putting unnecessary guilt trips on him and now I notice and trying to stop. Which brings me to my question, how does one politely tell their partner that now they are revolted by the idea of sex with them due to an action they apologized for and said they never would do again (and agreed that if they do said action again, castration would even be reasonable)?
That is just... wow... that is just... what kind of sick mind would think of spitting in your mouth while having sex?!
Well, stop making him feel any more guilty (and probably embarassed) about it. But if he starts showing you he wants to have sex again or if he tells you he wants to, tell him, "Sorry, I don't feel like it." Don't tell him it's because of the spitting incident though.
If he asks you why, that's when you give him the honest answer, "I don't mean to hurt your feelings or anything, and I know you said you would never do it again... but I'm still grossed out about you trying to spit in my mouth so just give me time to get over it." Try not to be harsh
hope I've helped
-Jenny C
Ok, i'm normally one to give advice, and it'e driving me insane, because i'm stuck in this situationand i feel as if i'm cornered. This guy i've liked for a good couple of months now, just started really talking to him this week and last week and a little from the week before. But we just now really started getting into deeper conversations. I really like him he's sweet, considerate, and never ditches me for his other guy friends. He talks to me and yesterday when he was driving me home, we talked and I felt like I was in heaven. But he talks to me about this one girl he wants to ask out.... yes it totally crashes my moment. And he tells me that he doesn't know if he wants to go out with her or not because he dumped his last GF a few weeks ago and his ex is best friends with the girl he wants to go out. So I feel pretty evil for wanting to do this but I want to make it so he goes out with me instead of the girl he keeps wanting to ask out. When I flirt with him he flirts back and we just have a great time talking and just talk for hours. What are things I could do to maybe catch his attention more? Anything that I can do to maybe make it so he'll be more interested in me?
I want to make a bold move but not something too bold that might scare him away but enough of a bold move to be like hey look at me i'm interested...
-Thank you so much, advice is needed now because i'm seeing him tomarrow and the only time i'm gonna be on the computer is for only andother 2 hours. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
-Very interested
Maybe... just maybe... this might sound crazy but... maybe this guy is only saying he likes a girl because he wants to see if you like him. He flirts back when you flirt with him, right? That is just so cute! Looks like you guys would make a perfect couple!
Give very little hints about you liking him.Not flirting, but next time he talks about that friend of his ex-girlfriend, go, "I don't think she'll be right for you."
If he goes, "Who do you think is right for me?" It's a hint he likes you! Go for it!
If he goes, "Why?" It could mean he likes you or that other girl... it depends how he says it. If he says it in an hurt way, it means, unfortunately, he likes the girl... but if he says it in a sly, playful way, he's probably really meaning to say, "Why? Are you jealous?" or something.
If it turns out he doesn't like you, don't be disappointed. There are more than a million boys in the world, you know? And life probably has so much more in store for you. =)
Hope it works out
-Jenny C
15/f
My ex and I went out for 11 months. I really thought I loved him but then one morning I woke up and realized I didn't even like him anymore. So I dumped him. That was way back in June. I'm pretty that he still likes me. Now I like him again and he's all I think about. Right after I dumped him I realized how annoying and how mean he was so I don't want to get involved with him again. I really need a good way to get over him and get him outta my mind.
Maybe, you don't have to get over him. If he still likes you, he regrets every bad thing he's done to you. If you really still like him, I think you should go back out with him. Ask yourself if life has been worse or better without him. If it has been worse, you should definitely go to him.
If it was better..., distract yourself from him. Hang out with your friends alot. Watch a lot of movies (avoiding romance, of course) and listen to music to get your mind off of him.
Get your affection on other guys. Be extra flirtatious and sweet. There HAS to be someone out there for you!
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C