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Who do i trust?
Ok, so there is this guy i like and i think that he might like me back but im not sure. we wil call him bill. But overall i wanted to keep my crush on bill a secret but i did tell a few friends. lately the word that i liked him spread all over school and i asked one of the girls who asked me if i like bob who she heard it from. She said she heard it from "Roy" bills best friend and "lila" the girl Bill supposedly likes as well. I confronted Lila and she said she wouldnt do that and she never even heard that rumor and she thinks that it was one of my good friends "paula".But she never heard her say it. I cant sort of see paula doin this but not really...heck i dont know. Im friends with lila too but not as good as friends with her as i am with paula. who started it? and do i even trust the case of he says she says? Should i confront Roy?
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I think you should confront Roy. And the way I see it, Lila seems to be distrustful. She is supposedly the girl Bill likes right? Maybe she likes Bill too? So she tried to get you away from him by spreading a rumor. That's what I guess. I don't believe Paula really has anything to do with the situation.
But don't trust anyone with a secret for a while until you're sure... Peopl have big mouths these days...
-Jenny C
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Don't bother making a big deal out of this, or you could end up losing friends and driving yourself crazy. If you want to keep a secret, then don't tell anyone. If you want to find who the gossip is, then here is the plan. Tell three friends three different "secrets" at different times. Now we don't want to make you into a fibber, but if you can tell them silly little things and call them secrets, you will soon find out who can't keep her mouth shut. The point is not to call her on it and start a fight, but just to know who you will refrain from telling the next time. Some people gossip not to be mean, but because they are not mature enough to handle the temptation. We have all done, so don't be too harsh on her.
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