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I donno who to love?
Heyy, my name is Kathleen and i am 14 and im from Canada. i have a botfriend and i love him a lot but, my EX boyfriend Spencer wants me back, in september he had cheted on me and i dumped hima nd moved on but now he has changed, he keeps telling me that he wants me and taht he has his mind set on who he wants to be with. he says that his life ain't the same without me in it. I love my bf alot more then anything but the feeling for my EX are still there loud and clear and wont go away.ill just me in my bed and all the memories will playback into my head, and how happy i was abck then. and i am happy now but i dont know who i shopuld be with, can you please help me
Thankz ; Kathleen Marie,Canada
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Woah, my dear you're only 14..you don't love either of them. It may be a huge crush or liking of them but not love
Anyways, your ex...forget about it. There's not point in lingering on and on about someone who stole your trust and threw it away. Anyone--guys and girls--who cheat will cheat again and they're not gonna change that. They could but most likely not. If you want to go through that heartache and anger again, be my guest to go back to Spencer but you really shouldnt. He will lie and cheat on you AGAIN. He's just saying all those overdramatic stuff just to get you back. He may just be really jealous that you're having a happy relationship with some other guy. Bottom line: DITCH spencer. Stay friends with him. Enjoy the time you have RIGHT NOW with your CURRENT boyfriend. If you linger on someone who decieved you while you have a great boyfriend ... that is just so wrong on different levels.
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Stick with your boyfriend, of course!
Don't mention any of this to your boyfriend. Spencer had a chance, but he messed up and now he's missing out on something good. =)
Tell Spencer that you really liked (make it past tense, even if you do have feelings for him still) him, but he ruined it. Ask Spencer why he cheated on someone he wants so bad. Tell him that you two can be friends, but nothing more.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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This question is something Im familair with, so Im gonna say my advice straight my heart, you dont have to take it, but heres what I think:
Heres the thing you need to keep in mind: Few guys actually change, but all guys SAY they change. If your boyfriend has never done anything like that to you then why should you break uo with him to go out with some guy who might be lying to you?
Also, if you feel the same way about your ex as I did about my ex, you REALLY like him. But now I wished I would have never gone out with him because he was a jerk (like yours use to be) and if I just would have said no then I would have saved myself alot of hearache, which is what I think you should do. Say no to your ex so he doesnt get you into this deeper.
Think of how you would feel if you were in your boyfriends position. What would you think if he dumped you, who has never done anything wrong to him, for his ex that cheated on him?
Hope I helped, And good luck!!
-Linsay.
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