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Do you believe going into High School will give you a fresh start? I mean during elementary I was still popular but I was made fun of still quite a bit and alot of rumors were present. Do you think they will still be going around when i start grade 9? Alot of my friends say this is the summer where everyone changes. At my school alot of the guys said i was ok looking but none were ever interested in me and now I find a few high school guys think im hot but I dont understand how I can go from kinda ugly to hot in about a month. Does this all mean I get a fresh start? Or will grade 9 just be like grade 8 with just a few more people? Im sorry this is kind of confussing but all answers welcome. Thank You (link)
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Yes,highschool is a fresh start when you first go there but,my experience in highschool at freshman year was great,no rumors were being spread that could ruin my reputation,there are guys who have different tastes,think another way,a lot who are looking for a partner.So you get to make a lot of friends,crushes,plenty of respect if you know how to show them you're a nice and decent person.
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f/16. I got myself into a bit of trouble..
Theres this guy at school who is completely head over heels in love with me, I don't feel the same way about him. He asked me out a few weeks back and I told him to wait until i know what I want, He put a lot of pressure on me and he made me feel really sorry for him and he tells me beautiful things but I just don't feel anything for him apart from lust. Anyway, 2 days ago he asked me to please be his girlfriend and I don't know what the hell I was thinking but I said yes. He's so unbelieveably happy and he said I'm the best and most beautiful thing that has ever happened to him. When people at school found out today I got a really hard time and I got teased by a few people (I knew I was in for that) and I really don't know what to do. One of my friends said I have to dump him. And that I can';t let it go on any further if I don't love him. I have told him that I loved him back but I just wish I didn't ... What am I going to do?! I feel horrible, I just don't know if I should dump him... he feels so much for me. And if I do I think he would cut himself or worse. Possibly suicide. I don't know how I have gotten myself into this situation. I wish more than anything I didn't say yes. And if I should dump him how do I do it? Please someone help me. (link)
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You have to break up the relationship with him because you'll just be hurting him more by letting him keep thinking more illusions,apologize to him, that you never meant to hurt him like this,that you just wish to be friends only,you ask for his forgiveness,so you can not have your conscience bothering you until you get his forgiveness.Tell him that there will be another girl who will be able to correspond to him,his life his very valuable,you don't want him to do anything crazy but, to try to understand that you made a mistake,you never intended for this mistake to go further.Hopefully he understands.
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what are some ways to play hard to get? or some ways to slyly flirt with a guy? i need some clever ideas!! thankss (link)
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Playing hard to t get is easy like don't talk too much to the guy,don't let them touch you,telling the guy that it takes a lot for you to like a guy,when he askes your phone number you say you can't yet until you get to know him more,then when you decide to,he calls to hang out you say you can't because you're busy,all.To shyly flirt with a guy you just smile or stare for a few seconds then turn away fast,say hi then sit somewhere alone so he see's that you're available,it will be much easier to walk up to you,and have a conversation with you.
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any tips on bad breath? you wake up one morning and you have bad breath [yeah yeah i know, BRUSH YOU TEETH] but what if someone talks to you when you barely woke up.... omg what are you suppose to do you dont want them semmeliing your stink breath... so yeah
oh any when you webcam yourself is it only gonna show you the picture or its gonna be able to hear you like talk and picture or just picture and need to buy a mic? thanks
srry about thee 2q's im an a hurry (link)
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You just cover your mouth,have always a pack with gum next to you or under your pillow so you can stick it in your mouth,they won't smell your breath as for your webcam it will show you the picture,the person will also be able to hear your voice as well.
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okay so this might be a bit long, but ill try to make it as short as possible. i met the most amazing boy ever back in june and we were kinda dating or w/e for a month or so and we hung out last friday. i was talking to him on the phone sunday and he said he meant to ask me out but he got nervous even though he knows what im going to say. im 16 and hes 18 but school-wise hes only a grade ahead of me. anyways, he got in a fight with his dad and his dad took his cellphone from him and turned it off and like basically banned him from the computer. i havent talked to him since monday and i havent gotten a text from him in 2 days. im not worried that he doesnt like me anymore or anything silly like that but i dont know how long this is going to last. i dont have any means of communication with him at all and its driving me completely looney. he means the world to me, im completely and totally in love with him. I just need idea's on how to stay strong through this. Hes the most amazing boy ever and i dont want to lose him. i dont want him to move back to cali with his mom and leave texas. that would absolutely kill me. i really need some guidance. thankyou so much! (link)
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Just try to be patient which of course can be very hard but you really also need to calm down first,think positive,pray that everything will go out fine in the end,that you too get to be with each other,that he doesn't move.Love is strong,it's such a beautiful feeling to have for someone,overcomes everything even the most painful things,have faith which is what you need right now don't let this make you think that there is no way that you won't be able to see him again,you have to be strong,that soon when you get in contact with him again you will do everything possible so you can be happy at last with the guy you love.
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ok well a new school year is starting on monday and i really want to get the boys attention this year soon would be good!! like i want a b.f but not now.!! Soo what can i do to get their attention in a good way and get them to like fall for me..!!!!! plz help..!! (link)
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Don't play easy okay like show that you have principles,you know like if a guy asks your name,you tell him,then you wants to know more about you then just say hi then walk away,just so he would like you more to see that other girls would easily talk a lot to him but you're different than other girls,that will make you standout,take things slowly,let him get to know you little be little,tell him good things about you,funny things to make him laugh,enjoy your company,and most important of all be yourself.
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I have around 15, yes THAT many, small warts on my right arm and one on my left. I tried freezing them off and all it did was leave circular scars on my arms. What else could I do, besides go to the doctor? and how could I get rid of my scars? They're hideous. (link)
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Use Palmer's cocoa butter to help them fade away, or buy the lotion or cream for it at a beauty supply department,apply it daily and it will eventually disappear.
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I am very outgoing and can usually carry conversations very well if there are 3 or more people, however if it is just me and one other person, I can't seem to keep a conversation going. Any tips on how to keep conversations going and not make it awkward? (link)
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Act normal when you're talking,don't make it seem like you're trying too hard,like when it's 3 or more people you need to make sure you talk to all three so no one gets left out,they also will be paying attention to what you're saying,talk about things that connect to what they are talking even things that are unbelievable news,or what trips you've been on,fun ideas to do with your friends,anything else that comes into your head so you could keep the conversation from going.
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Does anyone know a good sad book for a boy and girl, im not a reader, so please tell me a good one, and not hard. a book that a middle schooler could read!
THANKS!
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Yes a book which is my favorite it's called "Lucas" by Kevin Brooks which is about a teenage girl who meets up with a guy named Lucas who has similar troubled things they have gone through,she has a boy harasssing her,a friend who is in a lot of danger,for this girl she,Lucas suffer greatly throughout the story it's very touching.
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My natural hair colour is black and I was wondering, that if I dyed my hair to any lighter colour like blond or even brown, can I look younger or less older?
I'm thinking that maybe my black hair makes me look older, and not in a good way? (link)
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Changing your hair color to a lighter color does make someone look younger,they are colors that a lot of youngsters like even in other things as well besides hair color.Black hair is nice also because it matches with any color,don't think that it makes you look older in a bad way I mean I have black hair,I love my natural hair color,I did get the idea of changing it for a new look but I thought of it,I decided when I'm much older.So if you want a change I say do it then whatever is good for you.
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Hair,makeup, and clothing..
WHAT'S IN STYLE!?
15/f. (link)
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For the tops striped blouses,plaid buttons,Border print thermal fusion,metal mesh halter,for the bottoms cover button pants,pint stripe pants,high waist pants,wide leg,2 pocket pants,etc..For hair Paisley Satin headscarf,Floral satin headscarf,with nice layers coming out.As for makeup they have new shades like bold reds,passionate plums,gold,black,burgundy,lush lips,smokey eyes.
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This is kind of gross but im wondering.
Everytime I eat alot,or maybe even a regular amount I tend to poop alot ,like it doesn't all happen at once,it happens several times and it's just little by little.
And i've been having alot of gas,i drink alot of diet coke and I think I eat alot of things that cause gas but im not sure.
What could this mean?
Or does that mean I have a fast metabolism if its going out so quickly?
Help meplease,im lost :] (link)
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It's most likely your metabolism that's causing this so it's not your fault,but in order for someone's metabloism to change is to get it used to eating a different way for about a few months it will then change.The gas issue you should try not to drink too much stuff that causes a lot of gas,it get's a pain in your stomach which will go away after the gases come out,I'm pretty sure you are aware of that.
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When my boyfriend fingers me, I like love it and believe me, he enjoys doing it. But sometimes he goes really like... "far up"... and it hurts. So I like want him to stop, but then I don't.
Is there a way to prevent that, or do I have to just tell him to slow down?
Plus, if he's fingering me and that hurts I can't imagine what sex must feel like, which we are planning on doing.
I'm of age, I'm in love, and we've been together for a long time, so there's no advice needed about those issues.
Thanks. (link)
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Tell him to slow down so he won't get offended or think wrong to think that you don't want him to,that you like things to not go too fast,you can discuss the things you prefer ,that you think are better to avoid the pain that you said.
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this guy rekons ive been making stuff up about him and he is going to get me smashed/bashed.
my parents and friends say dont worry about it and that nobody will touch me.
do people just say stuff to scare you? (link)
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Some do they want you to worry all the time, others mean it,just watch your back just in case,carry a cellphone everwhere you go especially if you go out by yourself so that if you were to be in trouble you can call for help,also you let yourself know that if he touches you he will pay the consequences.That's not the way to solve stuff by threatening people it just gets things worse than it already is just take my advice.
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me and my boyfriend first strated going out about a 1year and 7months ago then we broke up and now we have been going back out for about 3months but his dad hates me i mean everyone in his family knows we go out besides his dad and it isnt even his reall dad but he tells him if you go back out with her ill ground you for the rest of your life and he wont even let us be friends ijust dont know if its worth keeping this releationship if his dad hates me i mean were in love with each other and he means everything to me i just dont know what to do please help (link)
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Since you too love each other so much don't let anyone not even his dad get in the way of your happiness,you need to keep trying to earn the dad's trust,for him to like you,don't give up,don't be scared his dad will have to accept it,see that no matter what he does he won't separate you too,that you must really love him that you are still with him,and that you were brave enough to surpass every obstacle that got in the way just hang in there.
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I need your opinions. I will be a freshman this monday, and I only know like 2 people in my highschool becuase I moved to a diff side of town. My problem is, I'm scared to like stand at the bus stop becuase the people standing there will all know each other, and I'll just be standing there all awkard, but I'm not sure if my mom should drive me becuause im not sure if thats like "cool", and I'm not sure if it's a bad idea not to ride the bus the 1st day and get used to it. I need your opinions on which would be best. thanks!
P.S. (my mom could only drive me the 1st and 2nd day cuz after that her job starts) (link)
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I've seen a lot of parents drive,let their kids get out of the car by themselves,I don't see it as embrassing but, you can let your mom drive you for those couple of days because you're probably not ready to go on your own yet,then you could take the bus.If you feel that you are then wait for the bus on the first day of school so you can get the hang of it,you won't be afraid anymore,bring along the friends you know so it will be easier,and you'll feel comfortable,and have people to talk to.
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im really smart but since like 4th grade i hadnt really been showing it.but last year i decided to step it up and show everyone and myself that i am smart.well i got highest average in english/math/science and overall A average.most of my friends are really smart so because i wasnt doin so good in the prveies years i didnt have the smartest kids in my class.it wasnt like the slow class it was just filled with peeps that didnt care enough to try and i did and thats why i succeeded!well because i did so good last year i convinced my dad(the principle)to put me in the classes with all my smart friends! i could handle most all of the stuff but im in highschool now and for some reason they decided that honors students were gonna be doing a lot of stuff!example--1stperiod i have honors english 2cnd period regular math 3rd period regular science 4th period p.e. 5th period german 6th period honors civics and economics and now they are making just the 9th grade honor class take a seventh period which is a honors world history!thats 3 e-fn honors classes and i also play varsity volleyball(which i cant give up because i worked to hard to convince my dad that i can do good in school and play sports and i also looove volleyball)!!!!i really want to be in the class with al my friends and i really like having honors english cus im very good at it but im not sure if i can handle everything else!i know im capable cus im a pretty smart student but ive never been in so many advanced classes before! accually ive never been in advanced classes before at all.i was suppose to be in honors english last year but they couldnt do it cus of the other classes i had!i want to be ahead and be able to do everything in my reach to get into a good colledge and hopefully a free schalarship but im afraid that i wont be able to do it!im sooo scared that ill fail the advanced classes and it will screw me up royally for my first year in highschool!any advice on this would help-maby some tips to keep up my grades or a word from the wise!THANZ! (link)
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Remember your health is first,so if this is affecting your sleep a lot,making you extremely tired,you are being weakened by it,stressed,you can take stressed pills to deal with the stress,drink coffee daily but if it still keeps on then you're going to have to give up something for your own good,you need to have time to have fun,enjoy your highschool years,live a normal teenage life,and try to handle it if you can.To keep up your grades you need to study regularly,focus well,pay attention in class,don't let others disturb you,even take some notes while the teacher is speaking on things you feel are very important even if the teacher doesn't write it on the board,because another reminder they don't write every single thing they say or sometimes they may even forget it's important to write down.
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i THINK i started my 1st period, but I'm not sure. Like for about 2 or 3 days i kept finding brown marks on my underwear (and no they werent skid marks) and by the end of the 3rd, beigining of the 4th about it started turnigng a little red, but then it stopped. The weird thing is, the stuff would be on my underwear, but i never actually saw anything like come out if you know what i mean. So, I'm not sure?? (link)
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Every period is different so you should always be prepare for what may come,the best way to find out what may be exactly what's happening consult the doctor of what's happening,he'll explain why this is happening.Things like this happened to other girls I know but they said they know that nothing is wrong with them it's just their period tends to act differently but just so you stop worrying go to the doctor or you can even ask your mom's experience's dealing with her period,that if something like this ever happened to her.
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So i had a crush on this guy for like a whole year and he has a crush on me . he asked me out and i said "no" . well because i knooww im not ready for a relationship. Now its summer, and i just figured out... well , i dont like him. He was a big flirt and, now that i think about it, i am so better than him and hes not the type i want. A complete jerk, thats what he was. But now that i dont like him ; i see that. So im going back to school on monday and he sent a message to me saying tht ' he can wait to see me and he missed me' pshh ahah yeah right. he missed my body , thats how perverted he is. now, how am i supposed to tell him without hurting his felings or telling him straight up that he is a; perve,jerk,not my type, douche bag, wanna-be, ''in my pants'' , guy!? .
now that would be harsh. But true. I dont want to say it like that though. Any advice on a nicer way to tell him hes not my type and to stop flirting with me? (link)
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Say to the guy that you know why he missed you but definitely not for what is important,that you want him to be a respectful guy,not see you as an object,that he shouldn't be trying to be someonelse but just to be himself,that you too don't have chemistry no offense,that he should not be disrespecting the ladies,act as a gentleman because that's the way a man should act.
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so all of the boys at my school are so preverted. is that normal for boys or are they just like taht around me? (link)
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Believe it or not there are a few guys that are nice,perhaps those guys act like that around you to be show offs,act like their pimps,impress their buddies so don't lose hope that there isn't one that's worth it at all.
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