So i had a crush on this guy for like a whole year and he has a crush on me . he asked me out and i said "no" . well because i knooww im not ready for a relationship. Now its summer, and i just figured out... well , i dont like him. He was a big flirt and, now that i think about it, i am so better than him and hes not the type i want. A complete jerk, thats what he was. But now that i dont like him ; i see that. So im going back to school on monday and he sent a message to me saying tht ' he can wait to see me and he missed me' pshh ahah yeah right. he missed my body , thats how perverted he is. now, how am i supposed to tell him without hurting his felings or telling him straight up that he is a; perve,jerk,not my type, douche bag, wanna-be, ''in my pants'' , guy!? .
now that would be harsh. But true. I dont want to say it like that though. Any advice on a nicer way to tell him hes not my type and to stop flirting with me?
sunnyville answered Friday August 24 2007, 12:15 pm: Say to the guy that you know why he missed you but definitely not for what is important,that you want him to be a respectful guy,not see you as an object,that he shouldn't be trying to be someonelse but just to be himself,that you too don't have chemistry no offense,that he should not be disrespecting the ladies,act as a gentleman because that's the way a man should act. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
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