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Getting bashed


Question Posted Thursday August 23 2007, 11:05 pm

this guy rekons ive been making stuff up about him and he is going to get me smashed/bashed.

my parents and friends say dont worry about it and that nobody will touch me.

do people just say stuff to scare you?


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sunnyville answered Friday August 24 2007, 12:57 pm:
Some do they want you to worry all the time, others mean it,just watch your back just in case,carry a cellphone everwhere you go especially if you go out by yourself so that if you were to be in trouble you can call for help,also you let yourself know that if he touches you he will pay the consequences.That's not the way to solve stuff by threatening people it just gets things worse than it already is just take my advice.

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wisewoman98 answered Friday August 24 2007, 12:55 pm:
go up to him and say, listen...i dont know who was making things up about you but it was NOT me. tell him that you could try and find out who it was but it wasnt you. make it seem like you are on his side about the whole thing. be confident, dont let him think that you are weak. most likely he just messing around but there is always a chance he is really angry. if he keeps threatening you talk to your counseler at school and get switched out of his classes. avoid him and his friends as much as possible. im sure he will forget about the whole thing in a few days.

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Michele answered Friday August 24 2007, 12:43 pm:
No I don't think so. I think your parents should ask you more questions to try to determine if this person could actually hurt you. YOu never can tell today. People are so much more violent. Has he ever hurt anyone else? Can you avoid him? Stay out of his way? Find the person who was really making stuff up about him, and let him know who it was?

I would be very careful if I were you, to avoid this guy and try and get a message to him through someone else that it wasn't you saying all that stuff.

Michele

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