i think that the most direct way is best, and that is talking to her. say something like, "i'm telling you this because your my friend. how would you feel if your boyfriend did that to you? if you don't want to commit, then maybe you guys should take a break." if she's a good friend, she should value your advice and won't get mad.

your mom has no right to say those things to you. you could try to show her (pretend) that it doesn't bother you, or say like, "i don't care what you think of me. people that love me will accept who i am." if you want to develop a better relationship with your mom, you could try talking to her about it, and explain how you feel. maybe she doesn't know how much the things she says hurts you. in any case, she shouldn't be saying those things at all - she's your mother! to get her to back off, just be mature with your comeback by saying something like i previously mentioned. good luck!

If you use shaving cream while you shave, it makes them smoother. I use Skintamite. Also, if you put lotion on your legs after you shave it makes them smooth and you can do that the day after and so on.

he is being way over protective and possesive. just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you can't talk to other guys and have guy friends! talk to him and tell him that he needs to TRUST you, that you would never cheat on him, and these guys are just your friends! if he argues with that, you can get a little more stern and say, i'm aloud to be friends with whoever i want. hope i helped

she probably didn't mean to get you sick, but if she asks you to sleepover or hang out when she is sick say, maybe you should rest so you feel better for ___ (upcoming event). are you sure that she is ALWAYS sick? if she is maybe she has a disease or something. another thing is that sometimes she may be sick, but sometimes she may just have allergies. also, her mom may make her stay in if she is sick. i know that when i am sick my mom tells me i should take a day or two to rest and get better. but also when you just have like a runny nose or something it doesn't mean you need to stay home, but if you really are sick, tell her she should take a few days or a day to rest until she feels better. that's what im trying to do right now because i am sick. anyway, just talk to her about it because if shes a good friend she won't get mad or anything. hope i helped.

if they're your true friends you won't loose them. you can still talk to the and call them while your there or after you get home. you can hang out after 8 oclock at someones house, or go out. have a little party from like 8-11, or watch movies or something.

well it depends on what your orthadontist says. for a couple of monthes after you get them off, you have to wear it all the time unless your eating. after a couple monthes, you go back to the orthodontist & they tell you you only have to wear it at night [supposedly for the rest of your life.] i know it can be uncomfortable, but you'll get used to it & in the end its worth it. pretty soon youll only have to wear it at nights. if you dont wear it, your teeth may move and get crooked, which messes up the whole 2+ years of braces.

some of these might not be totally "emo", but here you go ....

- Taking Back Sunday
- Motion City Soundtrack
- Dashboard Confessional
- Hellogoodbye
- Houston Calls
- The Starting Line
- The Spill Canvas
- Daphne Loves Derby
- Houston Calls
- The Scene Aesthetic
- Cute Is What We Aim For
- Sugarcult
- Something Corporate
- Panic! At The Disco [they're pretty common though.]
- Angels and Airwaves
- The Academy Is...
- Plain White T's
- Run Kid Run
- Boys Like Girls
- The Rocket Summer
- Death Cab For Cutie
theres some but there is a lot more!

just because she lies about ehr weight doesn't mean she lies about everything else. shes probably lying about that because shes embarassed && doesn't want to tell you her real weight - but if she starts lying about other stuff, too, then you should talk to her about it. but until then, just let it go.

it's a small chance, but still a little chance. you can only get pregnant if sperm enters your body so if you think it did just be extra careful and if your worried take a test.

you can only get pregnant if sperm enters the body. if sperm did enter your body, there is a cance. if not, there is no chance.

Okay, i don't think you should let a guy come between you and your best friend. if you try and take him from her and "show him what he is missing", it will cause major problems with you and your friend and could even ruin the friendship. what do you want more - a best friend that you could have for a life time, or a guy that you'll break up with in a year at the most (you're 13, relationships rarely last even that long). i would just let it go, and not let your feelings be known to anyone but you. let your friend have the guy this time. try talking to other nice, cute guys to distract you.

no i don't think guys would think it was creepy. a lot of guys are shy, and they would probably like a girl having courage to ask them so they don't have to do all the work. or, if you don't want to ask him TO the dance, you can always ask him to dance at the dance. hope i helped.

I would say invite them, and tell each of them to bring 2 friends or something. at your party, everyone can mix and the guys can make new friends or whatever; and if they don't know other guys there, they can hang out with the girls.

or, instead of just inviting your CLOSE guy friends, invite some others that you think are funny, nice, etc. that would be fun to have at your party or you'd like to get to know better.

no you would not look ridiculous if you wore a bikini to the pool. it's about WHAT you're comfortable in - chances are, nobody's gonna be like, "ew! look how pointy and flat that girls boobs are!" if YOU feel comfortable with wearing one, wear it. don't care about what other people think, and plus, there are PLENTY of girls who didn't have B or C chests that still wear bikinis. it doesn't matter what size you are, its about what YOU want to wear, what YOU think you look good in, and what YOU feel comfortable with. plus, there are plenty of other girls like you who wear bikinis. so i say, wear one!

Hollister, American Eagle, Pac Sun, Jimmyz, Aeropostale, 579, etc etc

for smaller jeans, department stores might have your sizes.

invite rosaaa!!
how come i always find your questoins geeeeerrlll?

Well, since thers such a difference between your family, it really could vary. i've heard that your boobs grow more AFTER you get your period, so your bra size could have nothing to do with it. however, do you shave your underarms? do you get discharge in your underwhere? things like that could be a sign of getting it sooner rather than later.

you can put it in anywhere i think.. but lke the others said, most people put it in their about me!

those exersizes & creams don't work. since your only 13, you still have a lot of growing left to do. if your insecure, you can wear a padded bra but many girls your age are probably the same size and i wouldn't worry about it.

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