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ok so i have this friend who is completely in love with her boyfriend but friday he had a party adn she kissed two other guys. yeah it was jsut on the cheek but if i were her boyfriend i would be pissed and i think it really bothers him thta this crap happens. i want to be able to get it through to her that she doesnt always need to be the center of attention and that she needs to treat her guy better but i dont know how to do that! kno of any ways to get that through to her?
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Well i guess there is 2 ways to approach this situation:
1.) Leave it alone and let the couple deal with it
2.)Explain to your friend {alone} that since she is your friend you dont want to see her or her boyfriend get hurt. Tell her that by doing things like that she is running the risk of gettin called names {whore and other things} and you kno that she is not that at all and dont want to see her become labled as that. Tell her that she is really hurting her boyfriend and that it isent fair to him for her to be doing those things! good luck :D
*catherine21*
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i know you want to help, but if i were you i would leave the situation alone. I know people who have done this and when i get involved, one of them usually ends up getting hurt and doesnt want to talk to you. Hopefully everything will work out for the best=]
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i think that the most direct way is best, and that is talking to her. say something like, "i'm telling you this because your my friend. how would you feel if your boyfriend did that to you? if you don't want to commit, then maybe you guys should take a break." if she's a good friend, she should value your advice and won't get mad.
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go like this:
be like "if i loved some one i shouldnt really flirt with this guy who likes me right? i mean like if my guy was busy and i was bored i shouldnt goof of with some one else even if i no it doesnt Mean anything right wat if they take it the wrong way either one of them
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Not to be rude But you may not want to get involved with your friend and her boyfriend. If her boyfriend knows about her kissing the other two guys then he needs to approach her and talk to her about the situation.
If she was completely inlove with her boyfriend she wouldnt want to kiss anything other guys (anywhere). its a wonderful thing you want to help out but you probly dont want to start a big deal between the three of you.
kimm-
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