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I've been depressed as long as I can remember. Sure, there are some times when I'm not as horribly upset with life as others, infact sometimes I'm happy. But I always fall back into my slump. I've struggled with cutting, and yes I do feel that cutting has made me even more depressed in the long run. I'm working on that, and I haven't cut since I think September.
Part of my depression comes from the fact that I cannot be social unless I'm under the influence of something, anything. Alcohol, Marijuana, and one time Oxycotton have allowed me to be more social in environments where I don't feel comfortable. When I go places I don't know a lot of people, I drink ONLY because it's social.. I don't really do it cause I enjoy being drunk. I smoke because I like to, I drink because I can loosen up. Both however allow me to be a less awkward person. I do not blame my depression for my drug use, although maybe it is the reason? I just wanted to know how I can allow myself to ease off of drinking, smoking or taking pills to get more out there.
My mom knows I smoke. My mom knows I drink. My mom knows I'm depressed. My mom knows I'm bipolar. I've gone to counseling, I've been on medicine. Nothing works. Is my drug use linked to my depression? Probably, I'm not proud looking back on the fact I do drugs. I'm not proud of the fact that I lie to get money, or that I am literally playing with life until it breaks.
I need help out of my depression, anything goes. Don't feel the need to censor what you're saying, I really want to know what you think. (link)
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do you have any friends that you are comfortable with?anyone that you feel free to talking to?it might be good to do the things that make you happy and talk to the people that you trust.it doesnt have to be about your problems but talking and laughing is good.sound sliek your close with your mum so manybe itd be good to go out for coffee with her and hang out with her.do soem shopping.i know its hard but it could work and it could help whatr you going to loose?another thing is that when your feeling really down try not to lock yourself up in your room.try writing how you feel down on a piece of paper and ripping that paper up when your done youll feel alot better.just try it and see how you feel.i hope you find something that works.just remember your life isnt cheap,so dont treat it like it is.cherish it.i know soemone that was alot like you.into drugs etc and in the end he joined a religon and hes been clean ever since.it may help to go see a priest or soemthing or go to church?im not a church person myself but it could help you...dont give up.im inspired that youv spoken out and looking for help.just dont give up
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I think I want to be a teacher?
Can any one give me information about what I need to know, like how do I become a teacher? What Colleges are good choices to go to? (in VA)
Any information is helpful, thank you! =] (link)
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heeeyyyy!!yay another teacher well done!i for to the university of auckland doing a bach in primary education on my third and last year.ok well you need to search all the univerities around your area and check if they have the degree your looking for.like do you wnat to be an early childhood teacher teaching under 5years?or primary teaching grades 1-8 like me?or a high school teacher?i high school teacher is abit different..for example if you wnat to be an english teacher then you need to do a bachelors in Arts specilising in english and do a year of teaching at uni.youd have to ask your university but thats how my university does it..if you wnat to do bachlero of primary education then go to the website fo your university and search "bachelor of education(primary) and it should tell you all the requirements you need to get into that course.for me i needed to get university entrance aswell as pass a math and english test as well as pass an interview.
if you have any other specific questions please do ask.make sure that you wnat to be a teacher and not doing it because you think itll be easy to get a job.if you dont want to be a teacher and go into the teaching career youll hate it
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yea i guess he is ;( but am going to try and forget about him..
--hey do you know chemistry? just in case you do ..do you know this ..
-if you were fluorine a valence electron and you come in contact with rubidium what will happened?
fluorine is a nonmetal and rubidium is an alkaline metal. (link)
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assuming that the valence electron came from rubidium you would be rubidium flouride
rubidium gives flourine an electron to make
rubidium flouride.
are you sure its flourine thats a valence electron?
k well i think this is the answer
Flourine doesnt give its valence electrons to robidium because it has 7 valence electrons, it would be easier for robidium to give its 1 valence electron to flourine making them both stable atoms and making rubidium floride
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it is .. :( i didnt even go i feel happy about that. now he doesnt even talk to me anymore.
and thanks i will add you to my contact :) (link)
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if he stops talking to you then thats another hint that hes just a user..what and ass!!!soo proud of you
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i have severe general anemia and latley iron deficiency anemia too. its effecting me pretty bad in everyday life but i cant get on medication, what can i do to help it?
i cant handle the pain i even went in and out of conciousness in school and found myself at home on the couch, now i knoww anemia shouldnt be that bad so whats going on.. i look like crap im pale as can be my friend even tried to fix it with makeup and im also like bleh i dont wana do anything or even cant physically iv been missing alot of my defense classes because i cant do the simple things anymore and i just float by in school not having a clue whats going on my grade are dropping. what can i do? :( 15/f (link)
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poor thing.the only advice i can think of is changing your diet..you need to eat foods that are rich in iron like borccoli.
http://www.healthcastle.com/iron-anemia-diet.shtml
make sure that your not drinking any tea or coffee or anything that has cafine in it as it will absorb all the nutrients from the food you eat
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i have this friend and as u might have read'ed in my last question she makes me talk and text this guy she likes i don't like him very much but hes okay he made up some lie about haven a girl friend so that i would stop asking if he liked her so now she says shes over him but now i got a bigger problem she thinks he likes me and that i like him i don't like him and im sure he likes her not me but one day when i was standing in the hall it was just me him and her she walked away cause she got a phone call and i was just standing there looking at her then out of nowhere i feel some one hold waist and go up to my ear and say excuse me i turn around and he smiled i just looked at him like wtf then he just walked away she saw that and now thinks i like him and that he likes me cause he only talks to her when i there and when there alone hes always like look at her and i just don't know what to do or say im sure he doesn't like and i dont like him i think (link)
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ok thats weird.i think he either does like you or hes trying to make her jealous.its a big possibility he likes you maybe thats why hes been tyring to avoid her and why he only talks to her when your there.it makes sense.he txts you more than he txts her and he talks to you more...it could also mean that he was just being friendly and getting your attention like friends do.the more your friend says that you like him you oventually will start to like him.she needs to stop and forget about him and stop worrying anout him because oventually its going to cause you to like him.if you tell your brain over and over again about soemthing it will actually start to get brainwashed.the brain is very easily tricked.
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How to get rid of bikini spots (link)
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exfoliate exfoliate exfoliate..if theyr spot marks then use rose hip oil that should get rid of the marks.make sure you exfoliate.use a scrub or a scrubber
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Hi im a fourteen year old girl and i need help. I have really flat hair and i reallllllllllly want something to put in my hair that just makes it fuller. Iv'e tried almost every shampoo out there and mousse and everything just makes my hair flat and oily. ive been thinking about like an exxtension to make my hair thicker and longer.....but i dont want to do a whole lot of damage to it because i already color it. ive heard of weaves but i dont want to have to cut my hair to get it out or whatever, and ive tried jessica simpson ones and they were kind of cheap but idk if i used it right so if anyone can help i would really appreciate it1!!! thx everyone!! (link)
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there are extensions that you just clip into your hair.theyr nice and do make your hair fuller.the annoying thing is that youd have to put them in every morning and that can kinda get annoying.
i have them and they last a life time.you can even get the hair dresser to cut them to suit your hair and hair colour.
i brought mine from rodney wayn im not sure if you have that where you are but ask any famous hair saloon or check on ebay.
id recommend you buy the real hair not the senthetic one
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i have this best friend we have been friends seen's last year we all have boy problems but hers some how seem to be worse i cant get a guy as u read in my last question but she cant get the right guy she has a lot of guys over her but theres one guy named jake she liked him for what seems to be forever he says he does't but i can tell he does i can see it every one can see it one day he text'ed us telling her he loved her it turned out to be hes brother just playing a joke on her i asked him why did he let that happen he said he does't know anything and he does't care so i asked him do you like her cause i think you do a lot then out of nowhere he tells me he has a girlfriend its not true i know that for a fact so i told her what happen'd and shes been crying for two days she wants me to tell her what to do when she goes back to school and see's him but i truly don't know what to do what should i do to help my best friend (link)
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ohhh poor thing!she must be devestated.firstly she needds to stop chasing after him.the reason why he said he has a gf is so that you guys can leave him alone.the boy feels pressured so now hes made up soem excuse to get you guys off his back.you need to tell her this and let her know that maybe he does like her but right now hes saying he doesnt and she need sto respect it.tell her that once shes at school she should pay no attention to him and to avoid him.if she sees him tell her to look the other way.he doesnt have to like her she needs to know that theres plenty of guys out there.she should just move on and accept what hes telling her.sorry but theres actually no easier way to say soemthing like that.sure shes going to cry and be hurt and be angry but in the long run its going to help her adn your going to be a better friend for being honestw ith her.tell her not to get angry then be honest with her and tlel her that your only saying this because you care for her and because you dont want her hurting over him anymore...i mean hes made her sad more than hes made her happy its time to let go
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haha guess what? my ex boyfriend told me to go to his house..and i kept sying no and no and he kept on insiting for me to go..and i just told him no..then he stoped asking me.and i just signed out..i feel kinda better now. (link)
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awwwww!!!i am sooo sooo proud of you!do you know how hard it is to say no?oh thats just really good.good on you!!if you ever need to talk add me on
sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
im here for you :)
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I dont have much space so I'll try to make this brief... I've been knowing this guy for 5 years. The first year I knew him he tried his hardest to try and get me to be his girlfriend. I always rejected until he gave up and started going out with someone that was actually paying attention to him. They ended up going out for a year and in that year I had also gotten a boyfriend. The guy was upset when he found out since I always told him I didnt want a bf. During that year that we were both in relationships we still kept in touch. when he broke up with her, my bf and i had also broken up. so we started talking again; about 3 months later he tells me his ex had called him and hes confused doesnt know how he feel for her... whatever. I told him he can go figure it out but I wasn't gonna be there... so he would break up with her to come to me and stop talking to me to be with her he was always indecisive so I just stopped talking to him, about a month later he calls apologizing for everything hes put me through,etc. Things were perfect for a couple of months. then i call him to put things on a break because I was busy with school and work, unfortunately i let him speak first and he says he's going to take my advice and just have fun, he was going through something sort of like a depression and i told him to just have fun. I didnt mind we still kept each other posted on what we did through out the day etc. then about a month later he goes away to see his friend for his bday, little did i know that one of our mutual friends that i met through him was going to be there. she had made out with him in the past but they both assured me it was nothing, after i see she had posted the pics on facebook i ask her and after a couple of hours of speaking she admits they made out. i keep seeing she puts pics of them up and idk if its to get me mad or what. a couple of months later we happen to be in the same place at the same time and we go for a walk, he tells me the real reason why him and i stopped talking was because he was getting attached almost falling in love and it had scared him,after that my friends told me i shouldnt see that girl as a threat because maybe hes just using her. we already had 4 years knowing each other/ talking/ being a couple though it was on and off. It just got me upset that it seemed as if he gave her so much attention, even invited her to his school upstate. i shouldve know she always like him because she had applied to the school he was previously in, thank god he had already transferred out. he always calls. texts me randomly and i guess its just to keep me in his radar, but why. I had never had sex with him until a couple of weeks ago and he was actually my first. He's still keeping me at a distance and just bothers me randomly. I had deleted him on facebook but sometimes he writes things about me to his friends or to me through a post on one of our mutual friends pages. he's also been saying unnecessary things about one of my friends that is doing a video blog with one of his friends. I mean I try not pay any mind, to anything and then he would start mentioning my name... very immature acts. idk if he does these things to get my attention or what so i act like if it doesnt bother me and just ignore it. I just wish he would come to his senses and just commit. and whats the point of these immature comments? and whats the point of that stupid girl that he did something with? (link)
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that girl is a cow.how mean!she hooked up with him eventhough she knew about you being with him etc.
to be honest i thinnk hes playing around with both of you.he likes both of you and wants both of you.he hates the idea of you ignoring him so hes trying to grab your attention.
if you want him then you should tell him to stop playing games.you should tell him that your here right now in at this moment asking him if he wnats to be with you and if he doesnt want you and wont commit then to tell you so that you can get on with your life and be with soemone that actually isnt scared to fall inlove and be with you.
he cant decide and the reason hes with that other girl is because shes easy.shes using him as much as hes using her.i just dont understand why he spent soo long trying to get you and once he got you he runs away?doesnt make sense to me.hes hiding soemthing.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4+ months now...it doesn't seem like that long, but it is for me. We have had sex, but I don't regret it. I don't feel like sex makes 2 people closer together, it just seems like a fun thing to do with someone you love for me, so I don't really know if our problems are related to sex or not. The main problem is that he's changed. He used to be so sweet to me...once he told me I was like God to him. The first time we had sex was a couple days after Christmas break began. I was about to leave on a 2 week trip and I really just wanted to have sex and have fun before I left...now don't get me wrong, this wasn't a spur-of-the-moment decision. I had thought about it before and we had talked about it a lot. We talked about our concerns with sex changing us and I knew I was ready. I don't regret having sex with him at all. Well after we had sex, and I was gone for about 2 weeks, he would be texting me all the time and saying how much he missed me and loved me. Then I got back, and he was just SO happy to see me and I loved it and everything seemed perfect. Fast forward to now, a couple weeks later. He is hardly ever sweet to me any more...our conversations seem to have no substance whatsoever...he randomly gets mad at me for the smallest things...we never go on actual dates anymore, he only cares about sneaking out with me so we can have sex. I brought that up to him and he said it's just easier to sneak out because he doesn't have to think of a place to take me, he doesn't have to ask his parents for permission, and he doesn't have to get money...I just don't think he really cares about me any more, or he just doesn't appreciate me? Is there anything I can do to save our relationship? Please help me out, I put off posting this for the longest time, thinking I could handle it on my own, but now I'm not so sure. Give me an honest answer, what do you think I should do? (link)
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i agree,give him time to miss you so that he can appreciate you.he needs to realise that your special to him and its not all about sex.the thing with guys is that once you start them up on sex they always want it.he probibly thinks that you enjoy the sex too,better than going out on dates etc.you need to communicate with him more.if you bottle this up inside (like me) your going to explode and make it soo much bigger than it is.just let him know that you dont want it to be about sex all the time.you want to go on dates,you want him to woo you and seduce you and make you feel really loved.just tell him whats oj your mind.or even say heyy lets hang out or lets go to the park or lets go out for lunch etc somewhere public so he gets that you actually want to hang out with him.
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I have a really bad self-image, i think im fat, im tall, i am rubbish at sports, hate my body and i started middle school with a really bad reputation, i really want a boyfriend, but ive been told that i wont get one if i dont like myself, what sould i do? PS: 14/f i sing, act (really cant dance), size 12-lost 3 stone in 2 months after bullying and im 180cm (link)
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a size 12 is NOT fat.i was your size and your hieght when i was your age.i was bullied to seriously this girl use to come upto me in the changing rooms infront of my whole class and pinch my stomach and tell me i need to loose weight.the whole class would laugh at me.yeapp i still remember!guess what happened??a few years later everything evened out.i grew boobs and got curvy now im hotter than shed ever be.you just have to trust me your going to even out.i use to hate being tall because i felt like a giant and now im older,all guys like tall girls because they stand out.theyr the ones guys look at first when your walking past them.give yourself a break.its not the end of the world.just eat healthy and exercise.if you starve yourself your going to loose weight but youll gain it back on faster than the time it took you to loose the weight.just cut back on the burgers.eat healthy fruits and veges and as you grow youll even out.just because your a size 12 doesnt mean that your fat.it could mean that your body frame is bigger or that your bones are bigger than others.thats how i was.P.S guys like things they can grab onto.they like girls to be curvy.:)
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thats true :] whoahh i really like your advice your really awesome... (link)
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awww thank you :) its what i enjoy doing..im here if you need me :)
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ahhhh ...my heart hurts soo much..i just cant deal with this...sometimes i wished to end my life :'( (link)
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no boy is ever worth taking your life away.dont say that,your going to get through it.ofcourse its going to hurt and hes going to tell you to stay with him and not leave him but your a strong girl.you dont need him to make you happy.dont ever say you wish to end your life,especially over a boy because that shows you how cheap youll end your life for.hes nothing.hes not worth it bub!
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true...on aim he always writes to me saying hi..i reply back and say hi..then he just asks at what time am i going to go to his house..grr it gets me mad tho.. (link)
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hes difinitly using you!thats the trick,iv been through this trust me.just tell him you dont like him any more and just let him go.your going to get hurt!
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i was just wondering,
what is the best and easiest way of hair removal?
for underarms.
i have really sensitive skin. i got some scars from using an epilator. and it just sucks because it hurts..
thanks a bunch. (link)
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i have sensitive skin too and the best way is to wax..dont use an epilator unless its for your legs or arms etc because your underarms isnt muscle its full of glands.use wax thats the best just make sure the lady does try to use a twiser to pluck out your stubbles or anything like that. or use hair removal cream for sensitive skin.its not as good as wax but its still good.
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A dentist came into my healthcare class and told us that a during a hygiene appointment, the dentist can tell if you've had oral sex recently. She said they can tell even if you have brushed your teeth. I asked my personal dentist who laughed and confirmed it. Neither of them will tell me how they can detect this. Google didn't help me, and since they don't put a black light to your mouth, I can't figure out how they would be able to tell. Any ideas? (link)
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OMG they can!!!hahaha thats just wrong...thats personal they cant do that lol...hmmm maybe youd still have residue between your teeth?hmmmm thats nasty!if you ever find out please let me know lol
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i masturbate some but my fingers are just not getting it...i don't have any sex toys and don't have any way of getting any so what could i use to achieve a orgasm...i've never had one so i don't know what it would feel like...can someone tell me what i could use and what an orgasm would feel like. (link)
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an orgasim is a tingly sensation down there,it makes your toes curl and makes you want to moan.it feels alittle like you wnat to go toilet but you dont.
dont finger,rub your clit hard and quickly that should do the trick,your clit is like just above your pee whole
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Umm this is a really weird question
im 15/f
I saw a picture of a penis...no questions please.
Um I think that they are really gross looking... uhh it makes me feel really awkward that all my guy friends have them...ughh
And yes, I'm 15, not 11.
I'm not like, a lesbian or something am i..?
:S (link)
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lol no your not a lesbian unless you have feeling for another girl as more than friends.dont worry i thought it was gross to when i was younger.you think that because your not use to it and havent seen it before,unlike our girly bits where we see them everyday in the shower and see it as normal.
dont worry youll get use to it and youll oventually understand that its natural...even i get alittle nervous when seeing IT and im 20 lol its only because your nnot use to it and dont see it all the time
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