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confused helper
i have this best friend we have been friends seen's last year we all have boy problems but hers some how seem to be worse i cant get a guy as u read in my last question but she cant get the right guy she has a lot of guys over her but theres one guy named jake she liked him for what seems to be forever he says he does't but i can tell he does i can see it every one can see it one day he text'ed us telling her he loved her it turned out to be hes brother just playing a joke on her i asked him why did he let that happen he said he does't know anything and he does't care so i asked him do you like her cause i think you do a lot then out of nowhere he tells me he has a girlfriend its not true i know that for a fact so i told her what happen'd and shes been crying for two days she wants me to tell her what to do when she goes back to school and see's him but i truly don't know what to do what should i do to help my best friend
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ohhh poor thing!she must be devestated.firstly she needds to stop chasing after him.the reason why he said he has a gf is so that you guys can leave him alone.the boy feels pressured so now hes made up soem excuse to get you guys off his back.you need to tell her this and let her know that maybe he does like her but right now hes saying he doesnt and she need sto respect it.tell her that once shes at school she should pay no attention to him and to avoid him.if she sees him tell her to look the other way.he doesnt have to like her she needs to know that theres plenty of guys out there.she should just move on and accept what hes telling her.sorry but theres actually no easier way to say soemthing like that.sure shes going to cry and be hurt and be angry but in the long run its going to help her adn your going to be a better friend for being honestw ith her.tell her not to get angry then be honest with her and tlel her that your only saying this because you care for her and because you dont want her hurting over him anymore...i mean hes made her sad more than hes made her happy its time to let go
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Ok if you keep asking him and each time he says he doesnt like her, maybe he just doesnt want a relationship but if you leave him alone he might realise he does like her.
All you need is your girls when you have guy problems, hang out with her, have sleepovers, watch movies and just have fun with her. Make her forget about him and move on, there are plenty of other guys out there that will treat her well
Hope this helps
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