...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
Gender: Female
Location: CA
Occupation: student
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Yahoo: SuNkiStDeLonGe
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im in total love with this boy i mean i admire him and everyhing but i just dont think he is right for me i mean im the kind of girl that likes to go camping and hiking and to the snow and travel but all he does is watch football all day i mean my parents say that he is not good enough for me buti think he is i mean he is great a sports really smart and is great with kids but im really adventuras and i dont think i can make him do anything and im worried all he will want to do is sit around al day so how can i get him to do stuff and is he right for me? (link)
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You dont know if hes right for you until you gat to know him and usually when parents say hes not right for you that means they probably wont like him.
-shay :-)
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i wanan know what love is ? i wanan feel what love is? (link)
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Its too hard to explain, but you'll know when it happens.
-shay :-)
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some of my good friends go to a different school. recently, one of them met a friend that goes to my school. i'm scared that they'll be best friends and lock me out. What should I do? (link)
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Juat because your friend met her doesnt meen they'll be best friends. Even if they did why would they lock you out? Dont worry! Be happy!
-shay :-)
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I have a big nasty zit on my nose. I want it gone, NOW! What do I do? I'm so mad... it's really noticable, and I'm 26 years old! I shouldn't be getting pimples! (link)
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ME TOO! Those are horible! Well I use this vitamin E stuff. I rub it on and I leave it there for a wile. I know it sounds funny, but it works. And I have this "Sea Breaze" stuff that works REAL good!
-shay :-)
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Yes the surface was flat when the pencil moved into my hand. It didn't roll, it zoomed. eraser pointing toward my hand. (link)
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Well I dont really believe in that type of superstision. You can believe what you want thouh, we all have our own opinions.
-shay :-)
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I really like this guy and I asked him out yesterday and he said Not Today what does that mean?
FRom PLease HElp ME (link)
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He may have been in a bad mood, but if a guy did that to me it would totally turn me off.
-shay :-)
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I'm working on a song. So far I have only the basic outline of the lyrics which need serious help. Here they are:
If I had to die right now
I'd die in your arms.
If I was crying right now,
you'd be near.
You mean so much to me,
I love you more than anything
right now.
You are my all in all,
I want you here beside me.
Your smile can dry my tears
Take away my deepest fears.
I love you more than anything right now.
I know I haven't known you long,
I hardly know a thing about you.
I know if I had to die right now,
I'd die in your arms.
I love you more than anything
right at this moment now.
Now I don't have a lot to give you,
I hope you'll understand.
And you don't have to give me jewels
I love you more without them.
I love you more than anything
dying in your arms.
It's called In Your Arms. (link)
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Well its sort of hard to tell because I dont know the tune, but its okay.
-shay :-)
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OK, yesterday, I was in my bedroom and I was getting my journal out to write in it and i couldn't find my pencil, then i saw it on the table and it was too far for me to reach it and when I was stretching my arm to get it, it moved into my hand. My window wasn't open so that rules out wind. Am I telekenisis? (link)
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Was the surface flat? The move of your hand may have caused it to move forward. So I wouldnt say your telekenisis.
-shay :-)
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When I was going out with my ex boyfriend,*Greg me and his best friend were sort of into each other.Actually really into each other. It turned out Mike was going out with someone else so I dumped him. After that Mike made sure that me and his friend didn't hook up. I was avoiding Mike, so he made sure whenever I was talking to him that he was in the situation. It got uncomfortable for us to be together. So I haven't seen or talked to the friend,*Marc for a while. But I can't get him out of my head. I really miss him, and I can't stop thinking about him.However I know it would hurt Greg if I went out with MArc,and I don't want to hurt him since he sounds sorry for what he did. But I'm still lusting after Marc...what do I do? (link)
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Follow your heart. If you really love Marc you wont care what Greg thinks. Maybe talk to them.
-shay :-)
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What would make a question disappear? I asked two questions. I got emails showing they were both answered several times. I could see the answers for one question, but the other question is gone. Was I flamed? Was it a computer glitch? Are questions erased for various reasons? What happened? (link)
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So sorry you cannot erase a question. I can delete questions, but Im not sure if spacefem would like me doing that. You may want to contact her about it.
-shay :-)
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my parents got divorced a year ago and ever since my mom has always been trying to do stuff with me. My only free days of the week are wednesday and sunday..and now she wants to have dinner both those nights. I feel like everything I do with her is scheduled. What should I tell her to make it not feel like she had to make an effort to see me? (link)
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Is that a bad thing? If she does something with you she obviousley has the time. Dont think so much, just be thankful.
-shay :-)
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I'M MOVING BUT THE GUY I LUV STILL LIVES HERE AND I AM MOVING TO CANADA BUT I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO? (link)
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If you have a choice than make the right decision. What do YOU want?
-shay :-)
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I'm not very popular at school and kids pick on me. I don't really know why they do it, it's been that way since 1st grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I'm sick of it. I don't know what I did to deserve this. They hurt me emotionally and physically, should I stand up to them?
Respond please, I'm desperate,
Hurt and confused (link)
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Some people are just like that. So inconsiderate! Okay you should be nice to them and talk to them. Maybe even go to a counsler or a CM. You dont deserve that kind of torture.
-shay :-)
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There is this boy that keeps calling me. He called me 5 times in 2 days and left a message asking me out for the whole world to hear. I told one of his friends to stop calling me..gently though. His friend was a little harsh and i don't think he likes me anymore. What should I do? (link)
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It really doesnt matter if he likes you our no. Hes annoying you! Just be glad he'll stop.
-shay :-)
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MY BF IS MOVING OUT OF STATE AND I LUV HIM SOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH! I CANT STAND NOT BEING AROUND HIM AND I WAS GOING TO ASK HIM IF HE LUVS ME! WE TELL EACH OTHER WE LUV EACH OTHER ALL THE TIME BUT I DONT KNOW IF HE MEANS IT I AM REALLY SCARED HE IS GOING TO MEET ANOTHER GIRL! I LUV HIM AND HE SAID HE COULD STAY IF HE WANTS BUT HE WOULD HAVE TO STAY WITH HIS UNCLE. BUT HE REALLY WANTS TO GO! I DONT THINK HE CARES ABOUT ME! WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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Tell him how you feel, open up to him. Also keep in touch with him. Maybe he loves you too.
-shay :-)
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MY BEST FRIEND IS MOVING TO NEW YORK AND I AM ACROSS THE U.S. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (link)
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Keep in touch with her, thats all you can do. Maybe you can visit her on her birthday. Call her and email her all the time.
-shay :-)
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HEY SHAY SHAY I WANT TO START MY OWN ADVICE COLUMN BUT I'N ONLY 10 YRS OLD PLEASE WHAT CAN I DO
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Thats what my sister said, and shes 10 too. I suggest you wait for a couple of years and obey the rules set out for you. Im sorry, but in the meen time you can ask for advice!
-shay :-)
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I'm not incredibly popular at school but I do have a best friend who I've known all my life even though she just moved to my school. Now she's making new friends and she even has a boyfriend. I was supposed to go to a pizza place with her and some of the kids in my class but my mom wanted me to come over to her house for the weekend so I didn't go with them. Now I'm worried that since she's made so many new friends, she'll just drop me. Do you think that'll happen?,
CMS (link)
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She may just drop you if you dont do anything with her. Go to the movies or the mall. Spend some time together before she decides to slip away.
-shay :-)
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in my other question, yes or no?, i felt i should add the guy's gf is friends with my friend. i feel like im pulling her to my side. i just feel bad making her choose.
What should i do?
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Go ahead and pull her to your side, but dont put to much pressure on her.
-shay :-)
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There's this guy at school i like and he likes me. the problem is he has a girlfriend. he never liked her, but shes madly in love with him. i recently heard from his friend that he's dumping his girlfriend for me. but last week his girlfriend's friend yelled at me during PE and LA. If he does ask me out what should i say? either way i'm hurting someone. i really like this guy, though. should i say yes or no? (link)
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His g/friend is just jealous of you. I could understand that if she was a friend of yours you shouldnt go out with him, but in this case you have every right to.
-shay :-)
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