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in the new commercial with the M&Ms like as people.. whats the name of the song in it?
Hey, i think your talking about the Adams Family theme song.
ok well my dance recital is tonight and i have an appointment in 3 hours to get my hair done. i really want to show the lady a picture of what i want because i'm not good at explaining things, but i can't find any. i still have to decide about the bun, but for the front [like from my hairline towards my bun] i want it divided into 3 sections. and then each section, i want twisted [not braided]. i remember one of my friends did that last year, but i never asked her where she got it done. somebody please help, i've tried searching on google and photobucket, but i can't find anything. if anyone knows what i'm talking about, please help!
erin
p.s. any suggestions for the bun too would be helpful. i don't want anything too fancy, but i don't want just a plain bun either. i could settle for that though. just something fast and easy. thanks in advance! :]
Hey, well you can always ask your friend where she got it done and if she has a picture of herself. Im not sure what your talking about with the three sections thing, but i have an idea for the bun. Why not do a single regular braid down your back then twist it into a bun. A lot of people at my dance place used to do that.
Okay i just found out last week that i found a lump under my foot inside. i was rubbing my foot after my work, i just walk around the store helping costumers for 7 hours. my feet hurt really bad after i work, i wear gel pads in my shoes. i went to the doctor and he doesnt know what it is.so i have to go see a foot doctor soon. does any body know what it is? it shows up after i walk too much it swells up and when i not walk it doesnt swell up but i can still feel it. it hurts when i walk on it too much. its my right foot.
Hey, no one is going to be able to tell you what is wrong. You have to just wait it out and see what the foot doctor says.
This is more of a question than asking for advice but I want a new dog but I don't know what kind to get. I want a small dog (not small just as a puppy but for it's life). I want it to be cute, smart, easy to train, and friendly with strangers. Can anyone give me names of dogs/pictures?
BTW: I know all of these qualities are based on opinion but try to answer them the best you can.
Hey, well thats pretty hard to find. You basically just described the perfect dog. Theres no way that you could get all of those qualities. Your going to have to go without something or maybe more than one thing, because all dogs are different. I would suggest getting a toy/teacup dog. Even those, if not watched closely, could get obest and not be small anymore. I would enroll your dog in doggy training classes at an early age, that way he will learn faster. Good luck.
ever since i was 9 yrs old ive masturbated now
im almost 16 and i still masturbate, but instead
of doin it 2 or 3xs o day i now do it over
50xs A DAY!!!! is there somethin wrong with me?
.....
am i the only one?
Hey, well everybody is different. If your masturbation gets to the point where it effects your life, thats unhealthy. As long as you still have a good social life and go out often, masturbate as much as you want.
i would like to hear from girls who have had a friends with benefits relationship with a guy. like how it started, and how it ended up. did you have feelings for the guy beyond friendship? did you end up becoming boyfriend & girlfriend? or did you end up getting hurt or feeling used? do you regret it, or are you glad you did it? basically, do you think its a good idea or not?
Hey, well i have many different thoughts on the whole friends with benefits thing. It depends on how you guys both feel about the situation. Its not going to work if you just want to be friends with benefits, but the guy is head over heels for you (vice versa). Also you have to be careful on who your friends with benefits with. You dont want to get into that with someone who will tgo around telling everyone what you guys do, if your good or not, how your vagina looks etc. Also friends with benefits is iffy because if one of you starts developing real feelings for each other in the future, you guys will remember that you were friends with benefits and probably write off each other as "NOT girlfriend/boyfriend material". So you need to be careful with what you do now with your actions, because it can easily effect the future.
okay so, i dated this boy for about a year, after all that time, he started taking everything we had for granted and bragging about things that had happened, i had liked this other boy for a while and i found out he liked me and it pushed me to break up with my boyfriend, we dated for two weeks, he got drunk, and broke up with me through voicemail, after a week of crying and not knowing he was drunk when he had done this, he now tells my bestfriend that he regrets everything and started talking to me again, in the week or so we weren't talking, i started hanging out with my ex, and i still really like the other boy, but i don't know if i should trust him enough not to do the same thing again over the summer. help?
Hey, well i personally think that you should date neither of the guys. Now, my way of thinking is very different from most girls that i know. The way i see it, once someone does something to me to screw me over, there on the bad side of me FOR GOOD. Whether there freinds, bestfriends, or boyfriends, thats my way of seeing things. Also i believe once a cheater, always a cheater. You usually cant change the way that someone is, especially at this age (im assuming that your a teenager). The reason why you cant is due to the maturity level that all guys have and there way of thinking of girls. Also the lack of respect that they have for girls. Most relationships at this age dont usually last. I would just look for new guys and maybe guys that are a little older. I mean a year or two older, nothing drastic or illegal.
Did you ever stop and think why your are in love with the person you are crushing on. All of the sudden i just stop myself and thougt about, "why am i in love with her? why do i like her?" i am not love blind i know how annyoing and self fish and rude she can be to me but i still like the person, even thou i told her how i felt and she loves me as a friend. why am i still in love with this person. i think its just so hard to find out the true answer of love in this world and why it is important to all of us. it make us happy but then it can be hard to keep that love stronge. life is just odd...
FYI:i am a bi-sexual women.
Hey, well i know that this is not what you want to hear, but im going to tell you my advice anyways. I personally think that you need to move on. Yeah, its going to be hard. Trust me, i know. I broke up with my boyfriend who i STILL LOVED. It took me a few months to start to get over him. Even right now till this day, i still have feelings for him. But since i know that its unhealthy for us to be together (we argued, he was involved in drugs, he got kicked out of school, familys dont get along etc.), i try to forget about him. It might take to you what seems like forever to get over her, but once you find someone that loves you and treats you like gold, you wont regret it.
I stayed with a woman I met while she was on holiday. Into the second week, I had a visit from two of my male friends, and after dinner we all retired to have a drink. I went to bed early but the woman stayed back chatting to the guys. Later I found out that under the influence of liquor she had oral sex with the guys. She was drunk enough to be free of her inhibitions but not too drunk to know what was going on.
She did not say what happened but I got to know through reliable source and when confronted, admitted. What was significant was up to that time she was even happy to get pregnant with me and have a baby. However, I do not think she is an ideal mother.
She does have her own share of her family problems, both parents being divorced and re-married but her relationship to her father and step mother is at a very low ebb.
She feels that her father has let her down by not supporting her at any point of her life.
Her behaviour is inconsistent and unstable for a good relationship, and she constantly remind of the 20 year age gap we have although first she said it is unimportant as she finds me attractive intelligent and charming. She is also aware that I have numerous affairs.
However, I also get the feeling that she is looking to find more men although she feels she has a lesser success than me.
Sex between us is fabulous, first rate but we do have frequent arguments. She expects me to agree to her version of mild explanation on morality and on what took place and at best is very inconsistent when it comes to such a issues.
My question is can I trust her not to behave like that or consume heavy alcohol which may impair her judgement.
Hey, well i totally disagree with you on the judging her from her past and her family. My parents divorced when i was younger as well. My biological mother got remarried and i currently live with my biological mother and my new stepdad. My biological father never got remarried and hes not in the picture anymore due to the abuse that i suffered from him. Anyways, bascially what im saying is, give her a chance. Just because of her past problems and bad relationships DOES NOT make her a bad person as well. Just because my dad used to abuse me -- does that mean that im going to abuse my childen? No, definately not. As for her parenting skills, that seems iffy for me. She doesnt seem mature enough to handle a child right now. But wait a minute, she could prove me wrong and treat that child like gold. What i would do is give her a chance to prove to you that she can be a decent parent, because what has she done to you to make you KNOW that she couldnt handle having a kid? Nothing. She may have some bad behaviors, but maybe reality will shock her into changing her ways for her child.
My bf generally rubs my clit to turn me on...But it takes a lot of time...And I never had an orgasm...What is going wrong here...Is he rubbing the wrong place? If so where exactly is the clit...Also, are there any other ways to get an orgasm???
Hey, he needs to finger you.
does anyone know of a free online spanish program that helps you learn? I am on level 2 or 3 if that helps... I googled it but I need advice to know that they dont have virus or anything. Preferrably one that is fun and easy to use, but anything really.
Hey, well once you go to google, look on the right corner. Therses google language tool. Thats not a program for learning, but its a great translater thats easy to get to. I just thought that you should know about it.
okay so i'm like 5'5 i'd say but i'm not 100% sure, i could be shorter, but i'm 120. and i wanna be down to at least 110. it seems like impossible! i think i have love handles & i wanna get rid of them. umm if i run almost everyday & drink water & watch what i eat do you think i can do it in like a month? what else can i do, like excercises. and please don't answer unless you've done something like this before and it worked. no offense but i need answers not suggestions. thank you
Hey, well it would be unhealthy for you to loose weight. My doctor told me that at 5"0 your suppose to weigh 100 pounds. Everytime you go up in height, you add 5 pounds.
-5"0=100
-5"1-105
-5"2=110
-5"3=115
-5"4=120
-5"5=125
Catch my drift? So if your 5"5 your actually 5 pounds under weight. But, you said you could be shorter, so maybe your 5"4 at the perfect weight that your suppose to be at, 120. Either way, getting to weigh 110 pounds isnt healthy. Thats the proper weight of someone that is 5"2.
I'll admit this straight up, I get jealous; I'm human. It was never a huge problem because I'm happy with who I am, until I got my recent boyfriend whose known as a flirt. We've been dating for about 9 months now, and we're doing great. But I still get jealous because he'll go to movies alone with one other girl, and right now he's in Italy on a group trip with a girl who is totally in love with him. I trust him for the most part, but some nights when I sit and think about him I worry about what he might be doing. He won't be home from his trip for a few more weeks. So what can I do to stop myself from dying in jealousy, also for the future? Thank you.
Hey, well one of the biggest parts of a relationship is trust. You need to have it there and lots of it, for the relationship to work. Theres always doubts in every girls mind about there boyfriends when there around girls that are obessed with them. Thats normal. I myself am i VERY jealous person when it comes to my boyfriends even talking to other girls. I admit it. Thats why i try to stay out of relationships until i find the right guy that i have hardly any doubts in and can pretty much trust him 99.9%. You should do the same, or talk about the issues of trust with your current boyfriend.
ok. so i've never "made out" before or "french kissed" so how am i suppose to know what to do, when comes to doing that?
Hey, there is no right or wrong way to kiss. As long as your not all slobery, your fine. Experiment with "little extras" while kissing. What i mean by that is doing cute things like playing with his hair. Also your hand placement. Alternate where you put it each time you makeout. Theres on his shoulder, on his back, on his head etc. Kissing comes naturally, so just have fun!
14/f (sorry if its long)
Ok well I shadowed one of my friends a couple of weeks ago because i would be transferring to her school soon. anyway, we got to homeroom and she was introducing me to everyone. her boyfriend was in her homeroom, and was sitting in front of me. so he turns around and smiles and asks me if i remember him, and im like yeah. so he keeps looking at me and i turn away. then when i get home he ims me and was like hey. and we used to talk on aim like everyday, so we were sort of close. and we start talking, you know, having a normal conversation, and hes like i love you. i know he didnt really mean it cause he has a gf who is my friend. so im just like yea whatever. but he kept saying it and it got really annoying. and hes always like i love you why dont you ever say it back. and i would say it to get him off my case, but he might use it against me, you know? so i dont know why he keeps doing it so i asked and he says he tells all his friends that. but idk. why does he keep doing it and how can i get him to stop?
Hey, well maybe when you guys were really close, e developed feelings for you. Since you guys stopped talking, he kinda put the feelings for you in the back of his head. When he saw you again, they all came rushing back. Even if that is the case, its not right. One of your friends is his girlfriend and he cant be doing that to her. You need to have a talk with him. Ask him why he tossing around the words "i love you" like its nothing. He should be saying that to his girlfriend and not you. Ive noticed that you havent mentioned that it bothered you because you dont like him back, that it only bothers you because his girlfriend is one of your friends. Do you have feelings for him? Explain to him that you wouldnt mind if he said it when he didnt have a girlfriend, but since he does, you dont want him saying it. Let him know that he needs to stay faithful to his girlfriend or end the relationship.
how old were you when you lost your virginity? and how far along were you into a relationship if you were into one? also when do you think is okay to lose it? thanks!
Hey, well i was 13 when i lost my virginity. It was to someone that i have been dating on and off for two years, but havent broken up in 7 months with him at the time. Its okay to loose your virginity if your okay with it. If your not ready and not comfortable with doing it, then dont.
Ok well I signed up for thsi high shcool but i signed up for this other one just in case i didn't get into the one that i wanted.
=D well i did get in. How do i cancel the other one?
Hey, have your mother call the school. It has to be done by adults.
im 13 and i gotta get my wisdom teeth pulled and i am TERRIFYED you have no idea..
im not gettin put to sleep but i am gettin some gas but in me and im so scared i wanna get over it but idk how
Hey, well i was born with too many teeth in my mouth. Therefore, i had to get 12 pulled. Not all at once though, I got about 4 done at a time. I got novicane(sp?) and laughing gas. It wasnt all that bad. Its just a little pinching feeling for the novicane and your laughing so its not that bad. You just have to accept that fact that its going to happen and try to make the best of it no matter how hard it is. Good luck.
i am
13/f
5"1
and 104 pounds am i over weight?
Hey, no your not. At 5"0 your suppose to weigh 100 pounds according to my doctor. Every time that you go up in height, your suppose to add 5 pounds. Therefore, your suppose to be 105 pounds. Your 1 pound under weight ;]
Whenever I go out in public.. I kiss my boyfriend, like a few pecks and hug him. People always tell us to get a room..
but it's only a kiss!
Why are they saying that? It's making us look bad around everyone else. It's not like we are having sex right in front of them or anything sexual like that.
Has this happened to anyone else?
Hey, yes it happens to everyone. They are probably just joking around with you guys. Dont take it seriously. If you know that they arent joking, there jealous and therefore dont want to see it.