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Stop and think
Did you ever stop and think why your are in love with the person you are crushing on. All of the sudden i just stop myself and thougt about, "why am i in love with her? why do i like her?" i am not love blind i know how annyoing and self fish and rude she can be to me but i still like the person, even thou i told her how i felt and she loves me as a friend. why am i still in love with this person. i think its just so hard to find out the true answer of love in this world and why it is important to all of us. it make us happy but then it can be hard to keep that love stronge. life is just odd...
FYI:i am a bi-sexual women.
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There's a myth that people tell themselves - that we are unable to control our emotions, but that is untrue. Emotions, if you don't control them, will inevitably control you. Essentially, emotions are nothing more than thoughts that need to be fed and nurtured. If you don't feed and nurture your emotions, they will die. Since their fate lies in your hands, you have the power to control them.
It's wise that you learn self discipline in order to spare yourself the pain and agony of a broken heart that's fed and kept alive by negative thinking. Instead, choose power and positivity.
I mention this because of your original question. For you, I pose a different question: have you ever stopped to think about why human beings place more importance and value on the love from another than on the love they have for themselves? I ask this because I truly believe that if you loved and respected yourself, you might not allow yourself to be with someone you deem as "annoying," "rude," or "selfish."
Self love and self respect is far more important and valuable than the love and respect of another person. I think if you could learn to love you (more), you would find the answer to your question.
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Hey, well i know that this is not what you want to hear, but im going to tell you my advice anyways. I personally think that you need to move on. Yeah, its going to be hard. Trust me, i know. I broke up with my boyfriend who i STILL LOVED. It took me a few months to start to get over him. Even right now till this day, i still have feelings for him. But since i know that its unhealthy for us to be together (we argued, he was involved in drugs, he got kicked out of school, familys dont get along etc.), i try to forget about him. It might take to you what seems like forever to get over her, but once you find someone that loves you and treats you like gold, you wont regret it.
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Sometimes our emotions just can't be controlled. I've felt the same way about someone I like, and then it took me quite a few months to move on. For me, it depends on the person. It's taken me about two years to discover that if someone's treating me like complete crap, they're not worth it.
Sometimes if you honestly think that you have a chance with the person, then keep on trying. Other times it's just better to keep a friendship.
I hope this helped a little bit.
♥Kitty
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ok...u can't just make love go away,try and turn that love you have for her into friendly love.Eventually love does fade, take your mind off her and go looking for others
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