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Whats his problem??!
14/f (sorry if its long)
Ok well I shadowed one of my friends a couple of weeks ago because i would be transferring to her school soon. anyway, we got to homeroom and she was introducing me to everyone. her boyfriend was in her homeroom, and was sitting in front of me. so he turns around and smiles and asks me if i remember him, and im like yeah. so he keeps looking at me and i turn away. then when i get home he ims me and was like hey. and we used to talk on aim like everyday, so we were sort of close. and we start talking, you know, having a normal conversation, and hes like i love you. i know he didnt really mean it cause he has a gf who is my friend. so im just like yea whatever. but he kept saying it and it got really annoying. and hes always like i love you why dont you ever say it back. and i would say it to get him off my case, but he might use it against me, you know? so i dont know why he keeps doing it so i asked and he says he tells all his friends that. but idk. why does he keep doing it and how can i get him to stop?
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Hey, well maybe when you guys were really close, e developed feelings for you. Since you guys stopped talking, he kinda put the feelings for you in the back of his head. When he saw you again, they all came rushing back. Even if that is the case, its not right. One of your friends is his girlfriend and he cant be doing that to her. You need to have a talk with him. Ask him why he tossing around the words "i love you" like its nothing. He should be saying that to his girlfriend and not you. Ive noticed that you havent mentioned that it bothered you because you dont like him back, that it only bothers you because his girlfriend is one of your friends. Do you have feelings for him? Explain to him that you wouldnt mind if he said it when he didnt have a girlfriend, but since he does, you dont want him saying it. Let him know that he needs to stay faithful to his girlfriend or end the relationship.
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Tell him respectfully that you 'don't' tell all your friends that, and you would be more comfortable if he didn't say it to you.
Love is a very complex word, with different meanings to different people. Tell him to respect your feelings about the word.
Assume he is harmless, maybe he is flirting with you, maybe he isn't, either way it's not cool.
If he wont quit it, stop talking to him, maybe not all togeather, but cutting down on your chatting with him will give him the message: Either he talks you the way you are both comfortable, or you don't talk.
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well it seems like he has a thing for you. but ur doing good by trying to ignore it. if it gets to be too much tell him strait out that he has a girlfriend and its making you feel uncomfortable with him always telling you he loves you so much. he'll get the message. and dont tell ur friend or anyone about it because then rumors spread and you dont want that.
SAM
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