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i like this guy but i alwayse make excuses not to see him. I broke up with my last boyfriend, and it was really bad. I think i'm just scared this new guy will hurt my feelings again. What should i do?
It could be difficult getting over a bad break up but if you are ready to start going out with that other guy you should go for it because this guy might be different and if you don't give him a chance you will never know.Just remember one thing not all guys are like your ex boyfriend.
Hey,its me again with another problem so here goes. Well Ive been seeing this great guy named Luis. I've know him for a long and I really like him but the problem is that he lives about an hour away from me but he has been visiting me at least once a week and everything is great. But the problem is that theres another guy named Jessie who I've known for a long time also but all of a sudden I feel happy and sometimes when its really cold in the mornings he gives me his sweater or hugs me when I'm cold wich is now giving me second thoughts about Luis. Because I know that I really like Luis but i don't know what to do about Jessie. Please help A.S.A.P.
You should diffinitely give Jessie a chance because he seems like a nice guy and who knows you guys might just make a good couple. As for Luis if he likes you then why doesn't he try to visit you more often.
im embarassed, all of my friends have had sex, and i don't wanna have sex yet, but when im older i think its gunna sound stupid. and their gunna ask me if im still a virgin and ill say yes. its jus weird.
You shouldn't feel embarrased because not everyone has had sex yet. Some people like to wait until they are good and ready. Just because your friends have already done it doesn't mean that you should fell presured. If they are really your friends then they should respect the fact that you want to wait.
how can i ask my boyfriend if he wants me to go to his football game?? i only see him like 1-2 every month maybe 3-4 if im lucky but i rly miss him and wanna see him so whats a good way to be ask him if he wants to see me at his game... *i dont thnk he does.. :(* i kno he misses and loves me but i really wanna see him !!..i dont kno if its bcz he embrassed of me seein his friends..(dont think soo) but i dunno.. if any1 has a screen name (aol..aim) plz leave it for me so you can maybe help!!
Why should you have to ask him if he misses you and you miss him. I think that instead of asking him if he wants you to go to the game you should surprise him since you don't get to see each other often.
I have no lessons at all with my boyfriend and only one lesson with my two best friends. The only times I can see them all is at breaktime (20 minutes) and lunch (1 hour) My boyfriend and his friends (who are my friends too) don't hang out with my best friends, how can I divide up my time during school so that I can spend time with all of them?
You should introduce your friends to your boyfriends and see if they get along. If they don't I think that you should spend some time with your boyfriend and his friends and then spend some time with your friends too so that way everyone is happy.
Ok, well theres this guy that likes me...he sits behind me in math and he is the play that i'm doing for Drama Class. He always looks at me and smiles and he's kinda weird and I dont like him at all. I mean as a friend, ya, but not as anything more. How can i get him off my back?!
Instead of wondering how you can get him off your back just continue to be friends with him and try to forget the fact that he wants to be more then friends. If you tell him that you don't like him like that you could possibly risk your friendship with him and you don't want to do that you do.
So all of my life I have been living with my parents, the people I consider to be my parents and I love to death, but not the people who conceived me. I was put up for adoption at birth; but then luckily never had to live in foster care, cos I was adopted just over two weeks after. But I just have so many questions for them. Why would be the most prominant coming to my mind. I do not regret for one second the life that I ended up with, I would just really appreciate some answers. I don't even know much about them at all. I don't know what I should do. I mean, should I try to find my parents? What if they don't want to be found? Why would my "parents" I live with wait until I turned 17 to tell me all this. I'm so mad, they should have told me long ago. I don't know what I should do. Does anyone have any ideas?
Your parents just wanted to wait until you were old enough so that way you could understand. As for looking for your birth parents I think that you should talk to your parents about them to see if they know anything about them. If not ask them if they could help you look for them because they would understand that you would like to know who your parents were and why they had to put you up for adoption. Besides your birth parents are probably wondering how you're doing and how you turned out. I hope that I help you.
I liked this guy named Rick and he hurt me alot like a few months ago And I got over it once school started Now im in school and Its been going great I have alot of friends and alot of fun being there and I met a guy Named Ben and hes really sweet and gives me the attention I want! Now Rick Imed me and said he still likes me and stuff And I told him about how he hurt me and stuff the thing is Old feelings came back But he goes to a different school and I made him Pissed by saying I had a b/f but I dont want to make him mad so I said I was lieing how do I tell him I do? with out him getting mad
I think that you should tell him that you do have a boyfriend even if it makes him made because he has a problem if he did or does care about you then he wouldn't have hurted you in the first place and he wouldn't have lost you to another guy. Besides if he tries to hurt you again your boyfriend will protect you from him if it comes to that but hopefully it won't.
hey...ok im gona be a freshmen in hs. and ive played soccer ALL of my life. and im having a hard time deciding wherther or not i wanna play for my hs team. i mean soccers ok. im good at it and everything but its just getting old...and lyk i went to tryouts this past week and lyk all the freshmen kno eachother and i dont kno ANYONE and i feel soo stupid...and lyk the other thing ive been wanting to cheerlead all of my life. and i have all the abilities to do cheerleading cept im not flexible. and im short and i weigh 85 pounds so i think if by a chance i did make the cheerleading team i think i would def. be a flyer. and if i would have to choose between cheerleading and soccer i would definitly choose cheerleading. but im so much better at soccer. so my ? is...if i did try out for cheerleading do u think i would make the jv squad? and do you thnik i should still play soccer.? help!!
I think that you should continue doing soccer at least during your freshmen year and if you still want to be a cheerleader you could ask some cheerleaders to see if your weight would be a problem. If it is then you can work on it and be able to try out your sophomore year but also if your weight is not a problem I still think that you should try cheerleading your sophomore year that way you can see how the cheerleaders are in high school and you can get an idea of what you would have to do to become one if that is still what you want to do. Hope that I helped you.
ok... Me and my Ex-boyfriend Drew Broke up a while ago and he said he still liked me kinda and now he is going out with one of my old friends. I really want to still be friends with him and he is going to my school and I have lunch and homerome i think with him. But his girlfriend is going to another school! There is no way I can deal with that pressure... So I guess I am kinda askin 2 ?'s. How do I get my feeling out of the way? and how do I get him to be able to be my friend? Thanks! :( :)
.:*Erika*:.
You can't really get your feeling out of the way because you were once a couple and it is hard to forget about how you feel. You should talk to him whenever you get a chance and tell him how you feel and that you would like to continue being friends.
im 16/f and i really like this boy but hes in a younger grade then me. hes still older than me because he got held back. he really likes me and wants us to hook up, but i dn, for some reason, the grade thing really bothers me...and i dont even know if im ready for a relationship. i like him most of the time, and other times he is a bit too immature...what the hell do i do?
You shuldn't let the grade thing bother you because the only thing that should matter is that you two like each other and should let a little thing like what grade you are in to stop you.
a few days ago i posted this:i Met this guy at a festival about 3 weeks ago called Shane.We got each others numbers and talked like alot but then last monday he said that we should wait a while till he calls agian cuz theres not really that much to talk about hes said ill call you in a few days and ill make shure sumpthing happens and if nuthing happens then ill make suttin up but ill ttyl.Its been 7 days since he last called do you think hell ever call agian???i know this is a really stupid post but im worried i really liked him---------but i didnt say that im known to not sound interested in guys on the phone,the day b4 the last day he called he had asked me to call him but i didnt so he called and asked why i didnt call and i said that i guess i didnt really feel like it(wich is rude)and i also wasnt listening to him very well becuz i kept interupting him and when he was talking i was like um wat so i think its my fault he didnt call back becuase maybe he thinks i didnt want to talk to him do you think im right?and do you think i should call him this time??
He probably thinks that you don't want to talk to him since you didn't call him. But I think that you should wait a couple more days to see if he will call you back because he might have been busy all this time. If he doesn't call you then you should call him to tell that you are sorry for not calling sooner.
i dont have a boyfriend for my prom and i dont have any friends that are guys (or girls) to go with either ... I know its early but Im not gonna get a b/f cause i dont really want one but i want ot go to prom but nor alone!! help
If you want to go to the prom why don't you ask some of your girlfriends to go with you they might want to go too but not by themselves.
Hey everyone...I need some advice....
Well I met this guy almost 8 months ago. We started talkin and we went out for about a week but things were not workin out because he lived like 30 mins away and neither one of us could drive. So we broke up and didnt talk for a while then we started talkin again and we got really close. He told me he didnt want to go out right then cause we wouldnt ever see each other. He wanted to wait until he could drive. Well he will be able to drive on tuesday. We have had a really hard time the past month or so. He told me he loved me and the whole nine yards. But now he is sayin that he doesnt really want a relationship. And some ppl told me that he said he hated me and never liked me and i asked him and he said he didnt say that. I cant stop thinkin bout him and i really love him a lot. How do I get him to realize that. I have already talked to him and tried to explain. All i want is just to be with him....Please help
Sorry it was so long
Tell him to stop sending you mixed messages and also tell him how you feel about him.
I use to hate this girl at my school, i never said anything to her hurtful its just that she acts stuck-up but the problem is that my friend is friends with her and i cant stand being around her, I dont wanna tell my friend because i am scared she will stand up for the girl and stop talking to me.
If your friend is any kind of a friend to you she wouldn't stop talking you just because you told her how you felt about that girl. She should just be happy knowing that you felt like you could tell her how you feel knowing the risk that you are taking by telling her.
my friend is going out with the guy i like i dont want to tell her that i like him cause then she will think oh u just like him cause i do ( she is like that ) what should i do?
You could tell her that you like him too and she could be understanging about that cause he is really good looking or she could be a bitch and say what you said that is a tough one. You could also just be friends with both of them and see what will happen.
to start off with, i'm sorry this is so long
Alright, i fell in love with this guy who it would never work out with (like really really never work out no matter how hard we tried if we wanted to). He never said he loved me or anything, and he never came onto me, and i'm not angry about it or anything like that. i miss him infact. I told my few very trusted friends about my feelings (they got kinda creeped out) and my mom said i would just move on and i'd feel this way about some one else some day (but i know i won't). I don't want to move on. How do i tell my friends and family that? I understand that they're just worried about me and stuff like that. i know that they just want me to feel better again, but i know that with out him in my life, i'm never going to feel like this again. i don't want to get over him. he makes me so happy even when i'm not near him. i love him too much, but i'm afraid of what my friends and family would say to that. i need mental help, but advice would by nice too.
It just takes times but eventually you will get over him and find someone like him again and who knows he might even be better boyfriend.
Alright, I just went to a friend's b-day party and there was ONE guy there.. To me, he's soo hott, and one of the girls there dated him.. And she agrees with me.. But, he says he's gay.. I don't want to believe it, cuz I really think I'm starting to like him.. Wat should I do? He knows I like him, but I can't stop him from being gay, atleast, I don't think so... If u have any advice, I'd appreciate it :-)
First you should find out if he is gay or not. Because if he is there really isn't anything that you can do.
ok, well i like this guy, and he says he likes me...but im not so sure. and i want to ask him whats going on and everything, but i dont want it to sound like im bitching at him. i just want to figure this out. so whats a good way of asking something like that without it sound like im being mean and bitching at him?
You could write him a note telling him what you wanted to tell him in person and that you were afraid that it would come out wrong. So that way you tell him how you feel and it doesn't come out wrong.
hey i really need help on this one..ive been with my b/f for 2 years and whenever i tell him to call at a certain time..he doesnt!!!! it gets me all worried that hes cheating on me since he has b4 .. and if say lyk call at 11 ..hell call at around 2 or even later and say he forgot to call or w/e or wasnt thinking bout it..but it also worryz me too cuz i wana kno hez ok and wen he dont call it makez me worry!! i mean, i kno all of his friendz and everything too.. i talked to him about this about a million timez and said everything i can possibly imagine to him about this and he keepz promising me he'll call wen hez supposed to but he doesnt!!
Tell him how it makes you feel when he doesn't call.