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ok so me and my friend called my crush the other day and it was so funnybecause it was a mix between my cousins and my crush my cousins are friends with him so when she called she had know clue who it was if it was my crush or what and so she started saying that i have a really hot boyfriend which i do and she even called my boyfriend a hot tomally and every thing after she was done talking she ask who it was and i was my crush and also my cousin and my crush got so p.o. and i donno what to do and i see my crush alot at my cousins house so i need help (link)
ok i really want to help but im so confuse cn u re write this and send it to me with some names thanks.


My older brother is living with us now. Im the youngest one of the family so i still live at home. Any way. Me and my dad use to go places all the time together, like, he use to take me shopping at the mall take me golfing with him and do fun junk like that. Now all he wants to do is shove me off into a corner while he takes donnie golfing, and everything else he use to do with me and my brother treats me like crap!!!! I am getting sick of being left out!! How Should i deal with it?????
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Your dad has been hanging out with you for quite some time and now that your brother is back I guess he wants some quality male time you know a boys only type of thing. It's ok to be jealous but I suggest you tell your dad how you feel andmaybe the 3 of you could do something. Brothers are mean I should I have 2. Just treat like an adult would ignore it or set him down with a talk. But your dad could handle it if you tell him that too but don't tadlle-tale ok good luck.


hey i jus wanna say that your doin a pretty good job giving all these peeps advice and shit.

i think you'll be a pretty good mediator/ shrink lol.

keep it up (link)
Thanks. I don't know how I do it. I can't even deal with my problems yet I help others weird! Thanks for reading.


HeY uMm i really like this boy but he has a gf so should i tell him that i like him or should i not so i dont ruin our friendship? or wat should i do. you can im me on aim at StLzLiLbLoNdIe. plez help thxx (link)
Hope the AIM thing worked.


I shave down there and when it starts growing back...and I try to shave it hurts sooo bad and bleeds. Does anyone know any tricks or anything that will work? I've tried nair and it dosn't work. Thanks soo much for your help! (link)
Bikini waxes? But yeah if your bleeding you should stop if could become infected.


Me and my bf have been dating for 6 years and everytime he takes me out to a romanctic place and we come back home he always tries to have sex with me. I tell him sometimes I want to wait til im married. He says he understands and all but then he tries it again in a week. I mean I don't blame him for being horny but I gave him a handjob once but it was like a couple months ago. Now for some reason everytime I see him this month he seems to get depressed everytime. I ask him whats wrong and he says nothing. We still kiss and stuff but I feel like Im doing something wrong. So I gave him another handjob and have been but he still seems depressed.
Is there anything I can do to get him alittle more happier?
and don't think about saying hes gay or something (link)
I don't blame again wanting sex now and then especially if your going out. But if that's all he wants then he's not worth it. He's just trying to use you to get some but six years is along time usually in this case he's determined for this relationship to last. I can't really give you any ideas other than cherish him good luck.


this year I want to dress more preppy. What are some styles that look preppy? I rate very high! (link)
Preppy...try anything thats in...camis, sequence, sash belts, wedged sandals, form fitting black pants...anything in magazines.


Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again? (link)
No one is forcing you to have a boyfriend at a certain age its ok. But if you wanna get to know this boy better ask him to see a movie or do homework toether. Hit the mall see a game anything...Good Luck.


Sometimes in the day I feel like water or pee is leaking out of my vagina
Is this normal? and even sometimes I get stains in my underwear. (link)
Yeah if you haven't had your period or you've only had it for about a year-ish then that sometimes happen its ok, don't worry about it.


i'm 15 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for like a year and a half. my question is:
if your boyfriend has been ignoring you for like a month, but hasnt like hinted anything about breaking up, whut does it all mean?
- confused (link)
Dear Confused,
The only way you'll ever gewt an answer is if you ask the question. Take him somewhere and ask him. Maybe you two have grown apart, maybe its time to move on, what ever you do don't suspect that things are over util one of you has actually broken up.


well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her? (link)
Actions speaks louder then words. Show her you love her by doing something special. It can be anything...Godd Luck.


I babysit a 6 year old girl. Is there any fun activities we can do that we will both like to do? Thanks for your answers. I rate good!! (link)
Ah...6 years old. Hm...try dress up and house. Make crafts for playing dress up with her like if its castles and princesses make her a little box castle. Let her help paint and decorate. Have fun!


Just as a forewarning, this is going to be long. I write a lot. If that's a problem, stop reading right now.
I've been with my guy for nearly two years, and we're planning to get married after college.
His parents love me, his mom treats me like her daughter, I call her mom and she's fine with it. My dad likes my guy, and my guy likes my dad (they have a lot in common, actually...), I have a ring on my finger, and we hardly ever fight.
The only problem is my mother...My whole life I've always craved my mother's approval. For awhile, she was almost my idol. I admired her...but I find myself trying to ignore her now. All she does is criticize things my boyfriend does and point out all the negative things she possibly can when she knows I love him and he's proven to her several times that he loves me and truly cares for me.
A big problem is my mother's chemical sensitivity. She's allergic to quite a bit of...well, everything, really. My family can't use anything scented because scents make her sick - they give her headaches, make her nauseated, she acts drunk...
She needs to ask people who come over to our house to wash their clothes in unscented laundry detergent, to use unscented shampoo, soap, everything.
My boyfriend's not exactly...compliant. I hate having to ask people to get unscented, especially him. Call me girly, but I like the way he smells. I can't help it. It's kind of a comforting thing. So I'm not pushing the "get unscented" issue because I don't really want it to happen. However I would like him to be able to come over every so often. He doesn't seem to understand that he can't fool my mom by standing under the shower for a few minutes and that he needs to use unscented shampoo and soap to get the smell that was there off.
He thinks my mom's crazy. It offends me a little, and I've told him that. But it bothers me more that my mother seems to be trying more than anything to get me to break up with him, though she claims she's not. She told me once "get another boyfriend who'll do what we need."
How do I get her to see that I picked him, I want to marry him, and I'm not about to leave him for some prick who only loves my body?
How do I get him to be more compliant?
How do I get my mother and my fiance to get along? I've tried talking to her and I've tried talking to him. I haven't tried having them talk to each other, though. I'm not sure how much that'd help, though...they can't go out to dinner or whatever because my mother's allergic to everything. What can I do?
Please, no smartass remarks and make an effort not to use chatspeak. It confuses me, and I'll just rate you down. Thanks in advance. =) (link)
Wow sounds like you have alot of drama in your life right now. Hm... well no one can force your fiance or your mom to get along. But I thik you were on the right path having them have a talk but maybe something's bothering your mom and she takes it out on your boyfriend. Spend some time with her. This might sound a bit corny but maybe since you've been seeing your boyfriend she doesn't get to spend as much time with you. Just a thought but anything could be troubling her. Spend some time and talk but don't discuss problems with your boyfriend. Do things she enjoys. Good Luck.


hey
basically i have till september to loose about a stone. (12 lbs) i dont have much money to join a gym, ive been eating healthy stuff everyday like salad, pasta, fruit i drink mostly water for like 2 years and i have barely lost anything.
i really want to do this as im starting college soon and i want to make a new start. i walk everday for about 1/2 hour i walk my dog regulalry and where i work has loads of steps and i climb them at least 10 times a day. and nothing seem to shift the pounds. i am really determined to do this as i am only 5 foot 3 and i weigh roughly 12stone so i am not exactley slim. any one with any good advice on how to loose pounds quickly and fairly cheaply will get rated 5's lol.
please help me
emma* xoxox (link)
Dear Emma,
My parents just got an Ab Lounge for the house and it works. It's about $100...some sale at Costco but it works and garentees for a refund if it doesn't. Try dping work out takes. It's gonna take some time but you'll get there eventually.


Hey, I was wondering does anyone know any cute hairstyles? I have straight, long black hair. I was thinking about long sideswept bangs and layers, but that seems sort of blase. I'll rate high! (link)
layers! they're in and tres chic!


Hey guys, this is gonna sound really retarded, but I'll ask anyway. Well it started when my brother asked me if I'd read the harry potter books and I said no, they're really stupid. But then he convinced me to read them, and now I'm on the 5th book. I really like them, it's kind of funny, because I always thought they were stupid. But anyway, I'll get to my question. My best friend likes them too, so we wanna have a harry potter party. I know, we're so stupid! So does anyone know what we can do, other than watch the movies and stuff? We already decided on making shirts. I'm making mine say I love Snape. Haha, don't ask. Is there anything else we can do though? Thank you!! (link)
turn your the room into a scene either hogwarts or the forest a classroom or the dorm harry stays in yea im not a big fan but i watched the movie haf fun


can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100. (link)
um alot of guys i no use axe and old spice.


Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do? (link)
well u can use a pad or a tampon with a pad but in the mean time dont eat anything salty or sour that makes ur period last longer its an azn voodoo thing but trust me.


ok, so me and this guy have been dating on and off for 8 months. He's always the one who breaks up with me and I'm always heart-broken when he does. Then he says he loves me and wants me to go back out with him. I know what your thinking, why doesnt she just leave him behind? The thing is, i cant. Im pretty sure I'm in love with him, but i dont know what to do. He told me he loves me, but he isnt IN love with me. Any guys know what this means? And what do you think i should do?

Thanks Bundles,
Jessy (link)
HELLO! Bootycall! He doesn't reallly love you he just needs a benefit friend or someone to do what he wants hen he wants. Move on but it will take some time. Don't fall for it he doesn't care about you cause if he didn' he wouldn't do this.


I asked for a few dance dvd's for my birthday and my mum bought them for me, I do the warm-up routine every day and nown and again I do the dances. I been doing this every single day in the mornings since 22nd may. I also go to a dance school on Thursdays for an hour and I dance when im about places. Plus i do P.E 2 times a week and I was wondering how long will it take me to get fit and healthy and start to look good to? Im on a balanced diet too. Thanks (link)
To ssee if your fit the only person that can tell you is your doctor records will show from your height, age, and ethic backgrounds is how fit you should be good luck.




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