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okay so, here is my story...
i am a 14 year old boy and a couple weeks ago i was with my friends and they had pot and i had some. things had been going really bad that week so i thought i deserved it. my gf broke up with me and i lost my cell phone and i failed 2 tests. it was bad. so i was really high and so were all of my friends so i just camped out in the woods that night. when i woke up it was like 10 and i remembered all of the bad stuff and i got mad because i new i was in trouble and i smelled so badly of smoke. so i went home and luckily found that no one was there. so i felt like crap and i was deperessed so i got like bleech and clorox and windex and a whole bunch more chemicals and drank it in my room with the door sealed shut. i was trying to kill myself. when i woke up i was in the hospital. i finally got to go home and i cant go anywhere (because my parents dont trust me). so ive been locked up in hell for ever! i need help how to get my life back together. (link)
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hey its never to late to change you are the creator of your own universe.if you feel you need help seek counseling or rehab and separate your self from these people who are holding you down and bring you negativity. embrace the things that make you feel positive i dont mean the temporary highness thats not real. i also sugest a new crowd of people who dont do drugs. talk to your parents about it im sure theyll be supportive. i grew up in a really bag drug infested areas its no life to live or grow up to be. it was crazy people were shooting people,abusing people,dieing,and runing over babies.its a horrible thing. please dont make that who you are.
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hey i was wondering
do guys like girls who are loud, or quiet?
Girls who are girly, or tomboyish?
Who wear clothes from abercrombie, or sporty stuff?
Girls who have blue, green or brown eyes?
and girls that have red, blond or brown hair?
oh and do guys think that freckles are cute? or ugly????
thanks in advance!!!!!! (link)
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Every guys is diffrent and attracted to diffrent things its no diffrent then you being attracted to diffrent guys. Ive known guys who like tomboys and think freckles are cute and ive also known guys who dont. its really just a matter preference. just stay true to yourself and youll find the right person.
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I was like really into it, now only simi. How can I find an alternative? Jogging lasted for a couple weeks but after that I wanted to get high more. I'm all out, now, and i REALLY want to quit. Thanks to advicenators I was off for a week or two, now I want to get off for good. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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ever considered rehab theres no shame in it.if you really want to quit then you need to be willing to take that step. thats a very serious thing and if you value your life then i think you should get professional help.
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right im 15/m/uk my gf may be pregnant if she is what should i do:| i cant tel my parents or im going to get disowned and she cant tel hers what should we do how can we get an abortion like behind our parents back i know that sounds wrong but please advice is strongely needed. (link)
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you need to take responsibility...its not the babies fault and your going to have to tell your parents because your minors.i know your scared but theyll have to get over it and accept it. im not condoning what happened but you guys arent the first ones to be in this situation. if you were man enough to have sex then you should be man enough to take the responsibility of the consequences. but you dont even know if she pregnant so find that out and if shes not consider yourself lucky and be safer or dont do it at all.
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my only child is 2.5years old.i am from india and a housewife.she has recently begun to exhibit her temper tantrums by shrieking if she is told to do smthing against her wish and not listen even if we make her lovingly understand.she does not like to talk to any outsider and even with her dad.her only attachment is with me and always clings to me on every outing.she makes a lot of fuss in everyhing from brushing to sleeping at night.if scolded she hides herself.otherwise she is quite sensitive and curious.she has no good child of her age to play with and the neighbour's son of 3 yrs bullies her. what is the problem here? (link)
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shes only 2.5 yrs old.little kids are like that.as for the little kid who bullies her id just keep that child away from her. she might cling to you because your her mother and a female or it might even be because shes around you the most.she could also be a little on the shyside but shes only 2.5 years old just because shes fussy now doesnt mean shell always be. maybe shes having nightmares or scared of something during the night time. if shes throwing a fit during brushing maybe shes tender headed. most kids her age are curious because there still new to the world. keep in mind that its not like shes 6 or 7 years old shes only 2.5.you dont think anybodys did anything to harm her when your not around do you?sometimes kids act funny when that happens to but if your positive no one has then i think its just because of how young she is and shell grow out of it.
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ok i have an ex-best friend who im just ok friends with now (we got in a huge fite, she basicly dumped me as a friend, diff. story). since shes told me shes missed me like once or twice but the whole best friend thing just never got started again. i dont know if i want to be best friends again...but if i did (considering we've tried it kind of before) how would i tell her? (link)
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i always think its best to just confront someone in a positive way and get it off your chest.if you wanted to i would just ask her how would you feel about being bestfriends again if she gets nasty then forget about her you shouldnt waste time with negative people who make you feel bad.some things just arent meant to be. keep in mind that there will be plenty of other people to be friends with along the line you should go with whatever gives you the most positive feeling.
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my friend's dad is really abusive + she only trusted a few people to know. one of those people spilled the beans and told the school. she said she's being called down to the office alot to be quesioned. 5 times in two days. she said their guhna ask anyone whos been to her house how her dad acts i dont wanna be the reason she gets removed from her house, even though i know shes in a bad sitch + she already told them about how he's abusive. what should i say? (link)
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the truth. hey if this guys abusive she needs to be removed or this guy needs to be locked up. would you rather her be removed or her ending up dead.its good that some spilled the beans. its not ok that this is going on and it needs to be put to a stop shes probably just scared. you need to tell them everything you know.that friend who told did the right thing. put astop to the abuse before its to late hes a monster.
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Do you think high school students should have to do community service to graduate and why? (link)
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no,inever had to anyways. but some people cant work it in to there schedule for diffrent reasons...and really pressure about grades is enough to worry about.it should be the students choice.
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I've been friends with this girl[emma] ever since we were 5. We have always been super close & we told eachother everything. She has been ignoring me lately & shes been rude. Like for example: Her 13th birthday was the 21st of Jan. and she didn't invite me. We had even talked about what she was doing for her birthday. So when her mom called earlier to talk to my mom she said that she didn't invite me because i would've felt left out with emma's school friends. Her school friends are really good friends with me though.
Ugh it makes me mad & even sad. I cried about it once or twice & i cant get over it. How can she just turn on me like that? (link)
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people do it all the time. but if she really cared shed treat you better. if your good friends with her friends then what her mom said was just some made up excuse and if shes your best friend there would be no reason for you to be left out. i think you need to have less to do with her because negative people only bring you down and its really not worth the happiness. some friends come and go and youll have plenty of chances to make new ones. there is an abundance of diffrent people out there to meet.somethings arent meant to be and things change constantly. if you want you can confront her about it but if this persists id say move on.
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OK well i got this girl i care the world for. I have wrote her a poem and am thinking bout printing the poem on microsoft word then putting a picture of a rose below the poem after i type it. Then i am going to roll the poem up and wrap it with some kind of ribbon. Then i am thinking bout getting her some real roses and being like i got you these real roses cause my love for you is real. And then getting her a fake rose and being like i got you this fake one to let you know my love for you will never die it will always be there. I have had people telling me to stay there and watch her read the poem and see her flowers then i have had some saying i ought o take it to her then leave my question is which should i do stay there while she reads the poem or give it to her and leave and wait for her to call? (link)
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i think you should stay and that anygirl would be extremely flattered by it.i doubt youll get a bad reaction. alot of females dream about guys doing that kind of thing...its really sweet.
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15/f
When a guy asks you to see a movie, does that necessarily mean it is a date? What if he is bringing one of his friends but doesn't care if you bring someone?
I suppose I am going to get different answers, but I'm sure there must be a way to figure it out.
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there is ask him? but if hes a friend then id assume he just wants to hang out.if you dont really know him then i would think maybe he kind of likes you.it depends on who is friend is. i had a boyfriend who brought his friend on a date because he was nervous but we were going out so its kindof diffrent.
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here is the picture in my column
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=kellyy (link)
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i think you have a lot of natural beauty and wouldnt say it if it wasnt true. blue eyes look good with brown,blues,dark green,black eye liner,eyeshadow,
mascara-black or brownish black
i also think you have nice cheek bones and that blush would look nice. i myself just stick to eye liner,mascara and foundation...that could also work for you if you dont like alot of make up but every ones diffrent.me and you have basically the same style of hair. you could get a flat iron or hair crimper or you could put it in a pony tail and do spiral curls or put about four braids in your hair before you go to sleep and it will give it some nice waves. you could do twisties in you hair with the choice of leaving it straight,curling it,or crimping it. you could add pretty clips to it-bosshair.com has some nice examples of hair clips. its really a matter of what you like. jewlery looks nice. if you need any good stores or catalogs i can tell you some.or if you have anyother questions or want me to be more specific you can just ask.as for those guys and what other people think i have the firm belief that if some one doesnt like what they see they can turn their heads in the other direction.
i listed some websites that could help you if you need some more i can find some for you
styles that are best for flat chested and more
http://makeovers.ivillage.com/new-look/0,,9kkqh9fl,00.html
beauty tips
http://www.beautyriot.com/
http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/beautifulblush.html
example of someone whos flatchested and looks very nice she would be a good style icon for you.
http://www.style.com/peopleparties/search/thumb/person710
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Would you happen to know what types of shirts and things that would be more 'flattering' and im not exactly sure how to make myself more pretty.. haha im new to all of this stuff, im trying to be more of a chick haha, because i just got through my tomboy phase. (link)
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hold on im going to look for some websites for you ill get back to you in a few minutes...i dont want to be rude but do you have a picture of your self that way i can tell you some ways to play up features or what would look good if not maybe you can give me a better description dont feel bad i was tomboy until 9th gr
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Alright, so i have been wondering this for a while.. i think i have small boobs compared to everyone else i know... I am 15 years old and i am 5'4ish. i know i am probably a late bloomer, but i hate it. I was thinking of trying this High-Calorie diet thing to gain more weight so..ya know haha. Anyways, its really embarrassing because my boyfriends friends make fun of me because of it and all my friends have bigger boobs than i do and its intimidating....i know i should try a push-up bra, but i find them uncomfortable, if i had a choice i wouldnt wear them at all, but..i guess its a 'requirement' and i would be even more flat.. so im in a bit of a crisis, anyone help? (link)
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yeah a 36 a is small but its not a big deal but your not fully developed either and obviously nither are those guys who make fun of you's brains. your more then a body part and even if your chest stays the same way there are guys who find it attractive and will actually respect you. there are also clothes that are more flattering with smaller chests and you can also trying playing up your features that you consider nice such as eyes,face,etc.he doesnt seem like much of a boyfriend if he doesnt defend you or make you feel better.there immature and dont sound all that great theirselves.you need to give your self more credit and love yourself a little more.
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a lot of people here talk about phone sex/ telling a guy sexual stuff on the phone/ telling him you are masturbating or we to get him turned on. is that slutty? what if you really like him but have only known him for a little while? and do you think guys tell each other about stuff like that? or what if he stopped liking the girl..would he tell people she did it (link)
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it realy depends on your standards and morals and the guy. some guys do some dont.just remember you need to be prepared for consequence if you do something.honestly you should do what you want and not care about what anyone thinks.just remember not everyone one has your best intention in mind.
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13/f.
Ok; My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, and he used to be really nice and sweet. But, now all he talks about is sex. He usually says, "Just kidding, I love you." After all his perverted comments, but I can't tell when he is kidding or not. I really like him, possibly even love. I am just wondering, how can I tell when he is kidding or not?
Also, I have had thoughts about having sex with him alot lately. I feel so bad, but whenever I see or talk to him, I get these visions in my head of us making love. Is this bad? I've always said to myself, I am going to stay a virgin until I get married but he makes me feel as if I want to give that up.
P.s. I'd like a guys view, but girls are more than welcome to answer as well. (link)
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i never said he was just hitting puberty i said you were 15 isnt that much diffrent from 13 he still needs to mature alittle
its normal..you just hit puberty its ok if you love him but if he loved you he would respect you and not be constantly talking about sex sounds like hes a potential user. just dont let him pull you in its one thing think about something its another thing to act on it.dont do anything your not 100 percent sure of your still young and if you do be prepared for consequences such as pregnacy,him using you,him leaving you,him spreading the word about you,you being disatisfied or disapointed.he needs to grow into his hormones.and it sounds like hes using im kidding as kind of a coverup. if he used to be nice then that should tip you off that hes a little on the fake side and might be trying to get one thing just because someone says i love you doesnt mean he means it especially that young.just be careful because people can decieve you and dont think im coming from a religious point of view because im not religious. if you do which im not recommending it but if you do decide to do it and it turns out bad you can stop at anythime you are the creator of your own universe and nobody is your boss.
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Can you really be skinny or burn off fat other than surgery? Because I'm just wondering..wouldn't you be skinney but then you'd have skin sagging out after your workout because your skin was stretched when you're fat? if not, then how? (link)
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no thats not always the case as long as you diet right and tone your body you should be safe it also depends on you age to it easier for younger people then it is for older people but as long as you do what your suppose to do then you shouldnt have that problem.
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Which is more dangerous belimic or anorexia?
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neither of them are really good for you and both can resort in death. both deprives your body from nutrients.
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I really need a hobby.What hobbies could I take up? (link)
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well i think you should go on what interests you if you included that i think i could help you alot better...everyones diffrent.
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my whole family doesn't have any weight problems at all really. i want to lose weight so badly because i've just started eating so unhealthy and i feel like i shouldn't change what i eat but instead try to exercise more. what can i do to get rid of my tummy? i weigh 140 and i'm 5'7/f and i feel like i'm obese. :( i keep gaining weight and i feel like i really need to buckle down and lose it. thank you! (link)
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you have to diet before you excersize because the muscle will make it harder to lose. the snacks might do it..youll need to eat healthier food,or cut down on your proportions,or see a doctor and have them work out a diet for you and stick to it.
i have no idea what you look like but 5'7 is kind of tall so that might be part of why you way 140 which really isnt obese but if your really wanting to lose weight your going to have buckle down to a diet.
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