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my gf may be pregnant
right im 15/m/uk my gf may be pregnant if she is what should i do:| i cant tel my parents or im going to get disowned and she cant tel hers what should we do how can we get an abortion like behind our parents back i know that sounds wrong but please advice is strongely needed.
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<u>it is still a human being who still can feel why take a life away!!!
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Your girlfriend needs to find out if she is actually pregnant. In the UK, she has the right to confidential, free pregnancy testing - even if she is not yet 16.
Likewise, she is entitled to a confidential termination of her pregnancy if that is what she wants. If she is under consenting age, her doctors will be accessing whether she is mature enough to make informed decisions, whether an abortion is in her best interests, etc.
There are a number of national and local agencies specifically for young people. You can call the Brook helpline for details of a service near you, or ask in your local youth support centre for information on abortion and specialist services for young people.
I wish you both the best.
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you need to take responsibility...its not the babies fault and your going to have to tell your parents because your minors.i know your scared but theyll have to get over it and accept it. im not condoning what happened but you guys arent the first ones to be in this situation. if you were man enough to have sex then you should be man enough to take the responsibility of the consequences. but you dont even know if she pregnant so find that out and if shes not consider yourself lucky and be safer or dont do it at all.
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first things first you shouldn't worry about it at the moment, as it may be a false alarm. If it does turn out she is pregnant then dont panic just both of you sit down and discuss what you BOTH want to do if you agree abortion is the best thing then go to your local doctor and ask him to put you forward to a clinic that covers abortions( and dont worry neither of your parents will find out as its confidential between you and your doctor) all you have to say to your parents is your going out with mates or going library or even have to stay at school. However if you cant make a choice then ring 1-800-395help and they will go through all of your options. But you may find that if you did tell your parents they will be angry at first but will help you through everything as they love you and will do anything for you but you have to do the best for yourself your girlfriend and if she is pregnant then you have to do right for the baby too and think how you will cope and look after it. I hope i helped you and good luck!
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well lets say that is she pregnant...you dont really have that many options..abortion is one of them but its not free so you need money for that and find a doctor that will do it on a girl that i assume that is your age without parental consent....having the baby and setting it up for adoption your parents will find out but you wont have the kid...and then telling ur parents...honesty is always the best way in my opinion i dont know your parents but most parents will freak out but in the end their love for you will overcome and they will be helping to help you...here is a number that is to a abortion line and it will go over options with you and its totally free 1-800-395-HELP
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Before you start considering an abortion you need to find out if she actually is. I'm 17/m and I was sure my gf was pregnant but then she took a test 2 weeks later and it showed up negative. If you do find out she is pregnant and you both agree on abortion then make the appointment yourselves and just tell your parents that you need to stay afterschool for set amount of time. Tell them you'll call when you need to be picked up, just in case it takes longer than you expected. It should all go smoothly as doctors are not allowed to give out information on patients without suffering severe penalties.
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