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ok i have an ex-best friend who im just ok friends with now (we got in a huge fite, she basicly dumped me as a friend, diff. story). since shes told me shes missed me like once or twice but the whole best friend thing just never got started again. i dont know if i want to be best friends again...but if i did (considering we've tried it kind of before) how would i tell her?
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i always think its best to just confront someone in a positive way and get it off your chest.if you wanted to i would just ask her how would you feel about being bestfriends again if she gets nasty then forget about her you shouldnt waste time with negative people who make you feel bad.some things just arent meant to be. keep in mind that there will be plenty of other people to be friends with along the line you should go with whatever gives you the most positive feeling.
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Before you make a decision about weather or not you want to fully open your heart back up to this friend, make sure you feel you can fully trust her not to hurt you again. Having a best friend then dumping them for another friend is a very hurtful thing to do to some one.
If you decide to re-claim her for your best friend, just tell her that what's in the past is in the past, except for your feelings towards your lost friendship, and you would like to put the pieces back together as if the fight never occurred.
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