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total mess up


Question Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 7:41 pm

okay so, here is my story...
i am a 14 year old boy and a couple weeks ago i was with my friends and they had pot and i had some. things had been going really bad that week so i thought i deserved it. my gf broke up with me and i lost my cell phone and i failed 2 tests. it was bad. so i was really high and so were all of my friends so i just camped out in the woods that night. when i woke up it was like 10 and i remembered all of the bad stuff and i got mad because i new i was in trouble and i smelled so badly of smoke. so i went home and luckily found that no one was there. so i felt like crap and i was deperessed so i got like bleech and clorox and windex and a whole bunch more chemicals and drank it in my room with the door sealed shut. i was trying to kill myself. when i woke up i was in the hospital. i finally got to go home and i cant go anywhere (because my parents dont trust me). so ive been locked up in hell for ever! i need help how to get my life back together.


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danecookissexi answered Thursday January 25 2007, 9:37 pm:
ohkay.. this could be totally wrong.. but its just me. coucelers never worked for me, idk who they are or how much experience they have, they havent been threw what you have most of the time so they don't really know how it feels. *never ever* smoke pot again [you probably already know] but my dad has done it and his life is fucked. he lost his kids, wife, and house and car. he's a complete loser now.
tell your parents what happend

make new friends, you probably wont like this suggustion but seriously these are no ppl to hang around w.

let go of your gf, like someone else.. i know its hard but it'll work after time

study really hard and try to improve your grades

you might not think i know anything but i do. i'm a 15 yr old girl whose gone what you've been threw. my life is completely turned around now and i'm a freakin cheerleader. the exact opposite as what i use to be

if you need anything else you can add me on msn.
you'd have to ask for the addy tho haa
hope i helped!

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illdomybest answered Thursday January 25 2007, 1:34 am:
hey its never to late to change you are the creator of your own universe.if you feel you need help seek counseling or rehab and separate your self from these people who are holding you down and bring you negativity. embrace the things that make you feel positive i dont mean the temporary highness thats not real. i also sugest a new crowd of people who dont do drugs. talk to your parents about it im sure theyll be supportive. i grew up in a really bag drug infested areas its no life to live or grow up to be. it was crazy people were shooting people,abusing people,dieing,and runing over babies.its a horrible thing. please dont make that who you are.

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ASAPcamille answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 9:17 pm:
i am so sorry. this must be terrible. 14 years old is NO age to flush your life down the drain. you have to start looking on the bright side of life. maybe get some new friends, get a new hobby. also consider being home schooled privatly, so then your parents will let you go back to school after. hurting and harming your self is not the answer. your mom carried you around for about 8 months, which is dreadful, because she cant do anything, not even tie her shoes when she was carrying you. they house you, feed you, care for you, and love you. do you really think your parents deserve to go through this? it is basically like throwing your life away, and your parents efforts to raise you as well as they could. best of luck to you, i honestly hope i helped in some way or another<33

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runawayxlove answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 9:14 pm:
hey, well at least you know that you did was wrong and unacceptable. you need to have a talk with your parents. ask them for a therapist. that way they will know your trying to improve your mistakes and be responsible. you will slowly get your life back to normal. dont worry.

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