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Ok well me and my friend Nick have been going out for ever and i realllyyy like him, and well hes broken up with me twice for other girls, and about 3 weeks ago he broke up with me for this girl named brook, and so me and my friend derick started talking alot and we started to realllyy like eachother and i went to one of his wrestling meets and we kissed and stuff and that night nick wrote me a 2 page note about how he feels and how he broke up with brooke for me, and i didn't know what to do because i knew nick was gonna ask me out and derick really wanted to ask me out but his best friend likes me, so he didn't know if he should, but i realllyy like derick and then nick asked me out and i felt really pressured so i just said yes and now im missing every thing me and derick used to do and i tihnk a made the wrong decision, but i dont know what to do because nick is like IN LOVE with me but i kno he will probably break my heart again like hes done in the past but i would feel bad for breaking up with him sense its only been like 3 or 4 days....HELP!

Maybe you should write down all the right reasons to get with Derick and all of the wrong resons, then do that for Nick read them and compare them that might help you make your decision and if you feel that they don't really make since then you should stay single for a while and see how it feels.

Hope this helps =D
~Briana~

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Ok well i had just been dumped by my boyfriend of about 5 1/2 months.. and well i think i already like someone... is that bad... cause at the ending of our relationship... things weren't really ne thing... and this kid is really nice to me.. and he seems like he is flirting with me.. but he is a year older than me.. but is it bad that i like someone already?? ahh i'm so confused! what should i do??

NOOOOOO do not feel bad at all. It isn't your fault that your feelings are in a different place. You should be happy you like someone else. Most of my friends that broke up from a long relationship went into a little depression but the ones that liked someone else and went out with the other person felt way better than they did in the previous relationship. You shouldn't care what anyone else thinks because they are probally just jealous that you get the good guys and you feel good enough about yourself to go and get a new boyfriends after the long relationship you had just came out of.

I hope I helped =D
~Briana~

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how do you put songs from your ipod onto your computer and have them still be in your itunes after you unattached your ipod from your computer?

Okay this happened to me. On iTunes it say you are not allowed to take song from your iPod and put them on the computer or a different computer, because they think you are stealing songs but there are programs that you can get your songs off. I used this one but it is only a trial but you can get all your songs off here is the link: http://www.download.com/iPod-Access/3000-2169_4-10505012.html?tag=lst-0-1
but you have to do 5 songs at a time.
I hope this help =D
~Briana~

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Hey everyone! Well, I need boy advice!!! Ok, I'm in 8th grade this year, and about 4 months ago I started to like this guy A LOT. And he talkes to me and I talk to him and whatever, but I don't feel close enough to him. I want to get to know him better and I want him to get to know me better. How can I do this? You guys probably don't even understand how much I like this guy. Like, this weekend (this may sound really weird, but its true) I spent my whole weekend thinking about him. And I get really sad because I don't think that he likes me, which he probably doesn't but you know. And another question I have is- what does a boy do when he flirts? What are the signs of flirting, how can I tell, and how do I flirt back???? This may seem like a lot to ask, but I need a lot of advice. Like, we play around with each other, such as kicking each other (not to hard though, lol!) and sometimes when he walks by my desk he will knock my pencil out of my hand or kick my foot or something, is this flirting? Its not like hurting kinda kicking, but like, just playing around. Its hard to explain, but I need help! Please help me guys! I'm soooo confused!!!!!! Luv ya guys!!!

Yes he is flirting with you. I know how you feel there was once a guy I liked like that. But don't play around to much cause guys get annoyed. Just get to know him and if he is always talking to you like everyday then he probally kinda likes you.

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I really love singing.. but I know I'm no good. I can't get lessons, so is there any tips for me?

I don't think my voice is feminine enough to sing good :[

Okay! I love to sing too. I thought I was like the greatest singer ever but guess what? I sucked! I know you can't get voice lessons, so use these tips:
1. Try to go to the highest note you can reach even if you are squeaking it, then keep working to get the note beautiful
2. Don't not say not! Try Try and Try again.
3. Maybe try to sing with your friends and maybe yall could be a group with harmony.
4. Also visit this site http://a2z-singing-tips.com/ they have really good tips!

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well i realy love this boy at school and i dont know if he loves me aswell so should i move in or be coye

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Squid

Well at first are you sure you are in love with him? Or doing you really really really like him? If you want to get his attention do not change yourself at all! Just talk to him. Ask him about school stuff like who is his Math teacher or something, that might spark a conversation, and then take it from there. If you are to scared then write him a note. But don't come right out and ask him if he likes you if you aren't a name to name basis you know what I mean? Get to know him and he needs to get to know you and then yalls relationship might just take off!

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