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I only had one boyfriend in my life who i went out with for 3 days. because i wasnt ready for a relatioship..i didnt like when he put his arm around me when i was sitting next to him. i broke up with him after that. that was 7 years ago. i dont feel likings to them, i'm not ready for a relationship right now. so am not looking at them that way. why is that? is it because i never went far with a guy or do i like the same sex? (link)
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i know exactly how you feel. when i had my 1st boyfriedn which i really liekd so much, when he hugged me i would feel uncomfterable, and i began to wonder why, but you jusat have to let go of those feelings and try tyo ignore them for a while. try o get close with a guy. when i let go of my feelings i was with my boyfriedn and i didnt feel like that for a while but it took me 3 months! to finally let my boyfriend touch me and hugg me.
if you think you like the same sex then get a girlfriend and see how it turns out theres nothing wrong with being lesbian. just see what happens
also, when you get a boyfriedn try to get close to him. what you need is to feel cnfident with someone you love
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I am SUCH a huge fan of Plain White T's. They're my favorite band ever! Does anyone know of any bands like them?
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fallout boy
all american rejects
good charlotte
simple plan
nickelback
panic! at the disco
a.F.I
if u need more let me know hope i helped
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What are some songs that talk about like, not fitting in, not belonging, being alone, not having anyone, or just kind of depressing songs?
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jordan pruitt, outside looking in
aly and aj, never far behind
you can also google it. hope i helped if you need more ill e happy to help you.
sorry if i wasnt much help i couldnt think of any right now
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does anyone have any song ideas for a high school talent show? i want something to showcase my voice and either be something i can play piano with or dance to...
any ideas are appreciated
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hey well you can play on the piano vanessa carlton white houses or a thougsand miles. i love those songs and it would be really cool if you could. another good song that shows youre voice is because of you or behind these hazel eyes by kelly clarkson.
hope you like the songs!
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Lately all I want to do is cry. But I can't cry, it's a sign of weakness, right? But I'm not sad, I'm just.....I don't know. Have I held in my tears to long? I never cry when needed, because I don't have a shoulder to cry on(friend). If I cry at school, they will ask me what's wrong, but after I'm done crying they are just going to treat me like crap again, and if I cry at home, well I can't because I have to be a good rolemodle for my autistic brother, I can't just break down and cry! So i have no where to go to cry. What should I do? I don't know if I'll break down at home or school, all I know is that I'm going to have to cry sooner or later. (link)
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dont worry we all need to cry sometimes. i cry alot, and i feel like i have no place to cry either, i understand what youre going threw. but just think about it, and take a deep breath,. you can also write poems or songs they can help out alot.
now, the best place to cry is the bathroom!!1 especially when you're taking a shower. no one can tell and you have your privacy!, thats where i always cry or in your room locked. but dont worry eevrythings going to be okay. its just a phase.
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okay well i talked to my b/f today. and he did the normal hey i gotta go. and i told him to wait. i asked him what was wrong. and i wanted the truth. at the same time i heard his dad ask if is was well lest call her lily. my b/f said no it was megs. and i asked who "lily" was. and he said listen we need to talk. and all of a sudden my heart sunk. he goes megs ive been cheating on you with "lily" and i started crying and i asked him for how long. and he said a month ago. i asked him how. and i asked him if he still was. he said he broke up with her. and that it would never happen again! so my question is....should i break up with him?!
cause i kno im only 14 but i feel like i love him. and he told me he loved me.
so should i? (link)
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aww omg thats so sad im so sorry. the same thing happeend to me but i didnt brake up with. i just told him i would give him another chance and i did and hes being really nice. he might do it again but if he loves you he wont. nobodys perfect we all make mistakes dont worry!, he told you so that's good that he didnt hide it. he wanted to be honest maybe he felt bad for what he did. i say you give him another chance you honestly love him and you dont want to brake up with him, but if he does it again,the he isnt worht it, but he told you the truth so just forget about it and start off fresh. let him know that it really hurt you and that you will forgive him this time but not if it happens again
hope eevrything works well, goodluck!
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okay so i went out with thys guy last summer. we went out for about 3 monthes. we were pretty close and everything but the small things that bugged me about him made me break up with him. then when school started up about 3rd qouater he asked me back out and i was hesitent at first but then i said yes. i started liking him more. but now about 1 month 2 weeks im really doubtin things. anyways my point is that he really likes me. but i hate tht i can say i love you to him but i question myself that if i really mean it. so i dont know what to do..i dont wanna break his heart again.. ughh help? (link)
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if you dont want to hurt his heart again then that means that you do care, so thats good. to me it sounds like you really like him. if that helps. well, i was in the same situation i used to say i love you so fast to my boyfriend and i always wondered if i did mean it. so what i did was i told him i wanted a small break. and there i really realized how much i loved him, just by not being with him or talking on the phone i realized that i really missed him. so maybe you can do the same and see if it works out.
so maybe if you really miss him then you really do love/like him, but if you dont then whats the whole point in being with him?
hope i helped and i hope that everything works for you
xoxo johanny
good luck
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Hi, you can choose not to respond to this if you'd like, I'd just like to clear something up.
I am the person who answered the question about 99 cent jewelry in a rude way. There's a reason for that.
This woman has been asking the same or similar questions on the site for almost a year now. She started sending questions to my inbox and every time I answered she'd ask me even more questions, then she started sending me emails. While I was sick for 3 days and couldn't answer my email, she sent me 7 emails, all increasingly nasty. When I responded (politely, I may add) she called me a bitch, stupid, and many other things I don't care to repeat. I ignored it and answered her question through email, then I find her posting it on the site (although she changed several things about the situation). That's why I went off.
She has been banned several times. There's something really wrong with this woman, and reassuring her doesn't solve a thing. You have no idea how many times I have tried to convince her to care less about little things people say. I know that she's 50, lives with her mom, has obsessive compulsive disorder, and can be very vicious. If she sends you an inbox question, I highly recommend not answering it. She has done this to several other columnists.
I have tried to help her over and over again. I have talked to other columnists and they have tried too. Answering her kindly doesn't work.
Yes, the first two things I said were very rude. I'm sorry for that, I'd had a hell of a bad day. But I did technically answer her question after that, I just didn't sugarcoat it.
Sometimes giving people the right answer doesn't mean giving them the answer they said. She wanted us to say that her sister's stupid, that the jewelry looks real. I doubt it does.
Thanks for reading this, I'm sorry it's so long, just wanted to clear things up. I didn't want you to think I'm one of those rude columnists, I just went off.
And in the future, it's probably best to just ignore rude answers, no matter how bad they are. It can turn the site into a huge catfight. (link)
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I'm so sorry. I really didn't know that. If I did know I wouldn't have said all those things. But maybe the girl isn't that same women that wrote those things to you. How are you sure about this?. Also again I'm really sorry I did think that you were one of those rude colomnist but I'm happy that you proved me wrong.
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i got caught with a drug and now all i want to do is put it all behind me. i never want to do it again but its hard because some of my friends still do it. i need distractions or something. how do i keep myself away from drugs? (link)
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you can alsways carry candy around with you so whenever you get the urge you eat your favorite candy, aslo whenever they are with the drugs you can just step away. if you want you can join afterschool activities and keep yourself entertained!
hope i helped!
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Basically I just need some conversation ideas. What kind of things do girls like to talk about with boys. Also any tips for flirting with a girl. Thanks a lot. (link)
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tell her that you think shes really pretty and that u stopped whatever you were doing to talk to her. also talk about her past relationships and also, you can tell herabout ur past relationships also ask her about her family.
hope i helped!
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A little background. I buy jewelry at the 99 cent store and the jewelry I buy looks like I could have brought them at Lord & Taylors, Bloomingdales, Nordstrums - I get a lot of compliments on my jewelry. However, my sister is such a snob so she will not buy anything UNLESS you pay a lot. STORY: Tonight I was wearing a fun ring and she commented on the ring and asked if I brought it at the 99 cent store. I told her no that this was just a fun ring. However, the jewelry I buy at the 99 cent store does not look 99 cent, but she laughed, but my Mom told her that last night when Anna was here for the first night of Passover, Anna loved the necklace that I (meaning me) wore. I called my sister a snob, and she got mad, and said; dont ever call me that I still wont buy anything at a ninety cent store;. My brother-in-law told my sister that she should not say things like that to me. Any way later on I showed her a necklace and she said it was pretty. MY QUESTION: WHY IS MY SISTER SUCH A SNOB AND REFUSES TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT ONE CAN BUY BEAUTIFUL JEWELRY AT THE 99 CENT STORE. I MEAN I DISCOVERED THIS MARCH 2006 BUT THEY HAVE BEEN SELLING THE JEWELRY FOR MANY YEARS. AS I SAID IF YOU SAW THE JEWELRY AND I TOLD YOU I BROUGHT THE JEWELRY AT BLOOMINGDALES, NORDSTRUMS, ETC YOU WOULD BELIEVE ME. (link)
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Hey
Well let me start off by saying that this person below me, is so rude. Don't pay any attention to her or him or whatever. This is a site for help. If you need help we'll be gladly to help. If she wants to say stuff that sounds so ignorant then she shouldn't be writing to you at all. So let me try to help you. Well your sister sorry to say sounds very ignorant. Maybe she's jelous because you have pretty jewlery. Me personaly I love buying my fake jewlery, and I don't care if it lasts a little bit its still pretty. Just ignore her. She sems very kidish. Whenever she tells you that just tell her ok and I care what you think because....it'll make her look stupid and if she was smart enough she would stop bothering you. Hope I helped!
Also, keep in mind this is a site for any kind of help. Don't let ride people keep you down.
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when people sometimes end their question with "thanks in advance" what does that mean? (link)
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well it just means thansk for atleast reading it and trying to answer it.
like if i ask ou a question and im going to say thanks anyway i say thanks in advance becase i know you're going to help me.
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I'm 13 and female my boyfriend is 14 or so he says. My boyfriend says he L O V E S me, but I don't! i might L U V him but i don't know. He has a tongue peircing and is going to get a tatoo! He's only 13! I severely disapprove of this. Should I break up with him? I think he lies to me too....I asked the advice of my best friend and she is very modest, so she doesn't know. But I really think I should, he is incredibly sweet but he makes incredibly stupid choices! Should I wait until he moves and just endure it or break up now? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!
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oh god i hope he isnt an online boyfriend.
well if you dont love you're boyfriend then why be with him makes no sense rite? you should be with someone you love not luv. that's not fair for you and him. also, you need to talk to him about the lies and tell him to stop and after that if he keeps lieing to you than brake up with him becase you wouldn't like to be with a lier now would you? there's plenty of fishes in the sea!
hope i helped xoxo johanny
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Get ready for this one, it might be a bit long.
Okay well my boyfriend and I had plans for today to get together so he could meet my cousin. Instead he gets drunk, calls me telling me that he can't come over but he wants me at his friends house to hang out at a party with him, then proceeds to tell me that I cannot bring my cousin who I never see. When I tell him no I can't just leave my cousin here he goes on saying oh well there are plenty of hott girls here who want to take their clothes off. Then I just tell him I was hanging up and he didn't even say just kidding or try to stop me he simply says k bye. That really got to me and I messaged him on myspace saying how he treated me was really wrong. He just replied back by saying soooo many b**ches so little time then he says where is the ky (as in the lubricant) G** Da** it.
So what I want to know is how do I let him know what he is doing to me is making me have suicidal thoughts. He really is a great boyfriend when he isn't drunk so I don't plan on breaking up with him. But how do I just let him know what he does hurts me. (link)
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Wow. I'm sorry but he's a jerk. He can't just treat you like that. Are you satisfied with that?. Does he really make you happy?. Because right now I know you're not. If you were really smart you would brake up with him. He's supposed 2 be you're boyfriend not someone who treats you like that. While you're at home crying he's probably at a party with some hore. Do you deserve that? Try to fix you're problem if you still love him. Tell him he hurts you. Or else say the same thing he tells you. Tell him you are going to a party and if some guys want to strip for you then o well...
Lets see how he reacts to that!
I really think you should just talk to him and tell him. Be alone with him. Just tell him that it hurts you. And if he knew how badly he wouldn't hurt you anymore.
I hope everything works out for the best. Remember God puts you on water but he doesn't drown you. Is that how it goes? Haha
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What do you guys think the best cell phone provider is? I'm on verizon right now & it has good service, but I've had nothing but problems with my phone. It needs a new battery a lot. And not only that, my dad has had problems with verizon. They said I ran up 900 text messages in a month, and I rarely use it. Anyways, I've had my phone for two years and next week I'm supposed to get a new one. My dad said he was going to take us off there and go somewhere else. So I was wondering what everyone thought the best one was. The ones I'm looking into are t-mobile, boost, and amp'd, but any other providers would be good. Oh & if it helps, I'd like to keep my phone number. Thanks! (link)
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hey well if it helps i have tmobile and its great!. they arent abusive lol. so dont worry. i think that tmobile is the best company.
hope i helped
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im 17 and at my work there is this 24 yr old guy who has a crush on me. it was fine at first becasue he's really shy and i would just catch him looking at me once in a while. but now he writes me little notes saying he loves me and keeps asking me out on dates. then last nite as i was leaving he came outside and said taht he wanted to kiss me! if anyone found out he would be fired cuz my dad is his boss! wut should i do? (link)
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well do you like this guy??
if your answer is no then you should tell him straight up that you dont have feelings for him. if hes a shy person like you said say it in a gentle way. dont hurt him. but if you do like him then tell ur dad and if you cant for some reason maybe because youre dad is those tuff guys then sneak around with him. but be careful you might get caught. you have to be really sneaky.
hope i helped!
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Okay so my boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time now and out of nowhere he starting bringing up the fact that we havn't had sex. I mean, it's not like i havn't thought about it because a 15 year old girl with a boyfriend two years older than her is obviously going to think about the possibilities, but I never actually brought it up or anything. Yes, I am a virgin but I have done other things with him. I just don't know if I'm actually ready to have sex with him. Like, I want to but I don't know if it's because he keeps bringing it up and I'll feel guilty if I don't or if it's because I really want to. And I know that if I'm even questioning it that I shouldn't but there is part of me that wants to. I Don't know what to do. Please help. (link)
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im 15. and im still a virgin. the same thing happened to me i really loved my boyfriend but he asked me to have sex with him and i said no and he got mad. so i dumped him. i dont think you are ready your just being pressured. a 15 year old girl is never ready to lose her virginity, trust me. tell your boyfriend to wait if he really loves you. when you have sex you loose your innocence and its like youre a women. would you like to be a women?. think about it you only had 15 years to be a kid and the rest until like what maybe 100 to be an adult?. why pressure yourself into it. youre obviously not ready or you wouldnt be asking his question.
think about it you wouldnt want to be a girl who ends up pregnant and regrets her first time.
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Hey im 16/f. Well my parents just recently found out about me dating my brothers friend who is my age. He was spending the night "for my brother" and we were like sneaking around my parents back cuz they didnt know and they made us break up. (his mom doesn't like me) So i've been a reck lately and we still really love each other and what-not but he goes to a different school but he'll be here next year so we're gonna date next year. But i try to write notes but he doesn't want to get caught cuz his dad like beats him. (not bad) So are there any songs/quotes that describe sort of this situation it doesnt have to be exact! Just how i want him back and its just hard.. Thanks a bunch!!!!! (link)
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well i got some quotes and they describe your situation
1. aly and aj "out of the blue"
"out of the blue they said we couldnt be together i dont wanna get over you, but we've been given no choice we have no voice. i just wanna hear what you've gotta say are you feeling the same cuz im not okay thought when we meet there was something more but the others said no...they shut the door."
2.akon "dont matter"
"nobody wanna see us together but it dont matter no..cuz i got you."
hope i helped i think that these quotes from the songs are good enough.
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my boyfriend and i have talked about sex. and he is much more experienced then i am and he says that he will wait as long as i need until im ready. i think im ready. i just am afraid out of my mind about the pain. he is pretty big and im not. im really scared. ha. so from your experiences. how bad is it? (link)
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hey..well im not expirenced at all..but my bestfriend she already had sex with her boyfriend and she said that it hurt alot and that she started to bleed alot. but then my cousin told me that it didnt hurt only alittle bit. it really just depends on ur type of body. hoped i helped. and remember this is a really important step. please be positive that you are ready. we have to many people in this world that regret their first time. and you dont want to be one of them..think this through.
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could never quite comprehend that...
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Cant you tell when someone doesnt love you,
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Dont you feel when the love isnt authentic...
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Isnt the lovemaking so distanced and cold,icy cold...
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When you look in their eyes dont you see love dont
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live there,at least not love for you...
Why do most of you torture yourselves in that manner...
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why do you you spend x amount of money to hold on to
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a person that just does not love you the way you would
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want them to...
Why put yourself through such agony..where is your integrity...
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where is YOUR LOVE FOR SELF...
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where is it...
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What is so WRONG with many of us...
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Where is the RIGHT within that is standing for
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our defense....
YOU always know,deep down inside when someone just
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does NOT LOVE YOU...
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Well I don't really understand what your question is. But I'm goignt o try to help. Are you asking why if you know someone doesn't love you, you still try to make them love us or insist?
If that is ur question I think its because when you're in love you don't really care about anything else. You don't think right. All you think about is that you love that person and you want them to love you and you would give anything to prove to them that you love them and for them to prove to you that they love you. You just care about them. And the love that you feel towards them
Hope I helped.
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