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I only had one boyfriend in my life who i went out with for 3 days. because i wasnt ready for a relatioship..i didnt like when he put his arm around me when i was sitting next to him. i broke up with him after that. that was 7 years ago. i dont feel likings to them, i'm not ready for a relationship right now. so am not looking at them that way. why is that? is it because i never went far with a guy or do i like the same sex?
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There is no reason to rush into relationships, dating, physical touching, or anything you are not totally wanting to pursue. This will come in time and has nothing to do with gender preference. A lot of people, even some guys, are not into physical affection and serious relationships until they are much older. It is perfectly normal. Unless you are thirty years old and unable to connect emotionally with anyone, I would not come to any rash conclusions or worry about this one bit.
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i know exactly how you feel. when i had my 1st boyfriedn which i really liekd so much, when he hugged me i would feel uncomfterable, and i began to wonder why, but you jusat have to let go of those feelings and try tyo ignore them for a while. try o get close with a guy. when i let go of my feelings i was with my boyfriedn and i didnt feel like that for a while but it took me 3 months! to finally let my boyfriend touch me and hugg me.
if you think you like the same sex then get a girlfriend and see how it turns out theres nothing wrong with being lesbian. just see what happens
also, when you get a boyfriedn try to get close to him. what you need is to feel cnfident with someone you love
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