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my boyfriend and i have talked about sex. and he is much more experienced then i am and he says that he will wait as long as i need until im ready. i think im ready. i just am afraid out of my mind about the pain. he is pretty big and im not. im really scared. ha. so from your experiences. how bad is it?
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I'm not going to lie to you. It does hurt. So don't cause yourself that kind of pain until you are 10000000% sure that you are ready for sex. The key is to just relax and get it over with basically. The first few times you'll be a little sore, but overtime you will get used to it and it won't hurt as much. I find that after not having sexual activity for weeks at a time and then having sex can cause a little pain too. Just pace yourself and allow your body to get used to it.
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The first time and up to the 4th time I had sex it hurt. You need a sex lubricrant and I don't mean that sticky non lasting ky jelly and your boyfriend needs to go slow and exercise patience. The sex will hurt you, not him.
You can get these personal lubricants in the drug store next to the condoms. Astroglide and ID glide is available at most drug stores.
You must use a condom that is lubricated too. Shower after sex. Only have sex if you are 100% sure and don't let your boyfriend preassure you into it. Boyfriends come and go but after you've lost your virginity it's gone forever.
Vaseline and baby oil are not a sexual lubricants.
If your boyfriends penis is larger than 6 inches and you are a virgin I'd advise against it.
Sex is more than a physical act it should be about commitment, love and especially responsibility. Do not have sex without a condom.
The only difference between herpes and true love is that herpes is forever. You say your boyfriend is "experienced." You need to protect yourself from STD's. You need to think about more than the physical pain. You need to prevent pregnancy and protect your health.
Before you give him your virginity you need to ask yourself does this man love me? Because your boyfriend is " much more experienced" you should ask him to get a blood test for HIV. If he wants to put him penis in your virgin vagina the least he could do is allow a doctor to put a needle in his vein and draw blood. If he refuses to take a blood test you should refuse to have sex with him.
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i imagine it hurt a lot.
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I'm a guy, and it's not bad at all.
It's great!
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hey..well im not expirenced at all..but my bestfriend she already had sex with her boyfriend and she said that it hurt alot and that she started to bleed alot. but then my cousin told me that it didnt hurt only alittle bit. it really just depends on ur type of body. hoped i helped. and remember this is a really important step. please be positive that you are ready. we have to many people in this world that regret their first time. and you dont want to be one of them..think this through.
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Use lubricant and go slowly. Stop if you feel uncomfortable. Good Luck!
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