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i have a boyfriend???
im 17 and at my work there is this 24 yr old guy who has a crush on me. it was fine at first becasue he's really shy and i would just catch him looking at me once in a while. but now he writes me little notes saying he loves me and keeps asking me out on dates. then last nite as i was leaving he came outside and said taht he wanted to kiss me! if anyone found out he would be fired cuz my dad is his boss! wut should i do?
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To be brutally honest this person is looking to be fired by even engaging in such behaviour first of all. If he got fired it would be the best thing for him and yourself. He would be removed from your experience and you would feel safe at work.
Secondly, he would learn from this and your father that he has a problem at 24 wanting to kiss the boss's underage daughter. Be 100% sure that he knew you were under 18. He may have made a mistake but I highly doubt it.
Tell your dad about what is happening with this guy coming on to you despite the fact you have told him off. If you get any notes, e-mails etc document them as proof and whatever you do don't be alone with him.
Tell your father tonight about this as it's the only course of action you have and the only choice that keeps you safe. Don't worry about the person who may be fired as believe me what he is doing is wrong and he has some severe head problems.
Like i said, this may be the kick in the pants he needs to seek help. Also, you may be saving other people your age from being a victim of his who knows what he's up to if he's an adult hitting on someone not yet 18. Then again, you have to be sure he didn't know you were not 18 as 17 is close.
If he continues this behaviour before you have a chance to tell your father tell him "Get this straight I'm 17-years-old pal, stop harassing me as you're making me uncomfortable. I'm the boss's daughter in case you didn't know and I'm reporting this." Then go do so immediately.
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I think that you should tell him that he could be fired if he kisses you. Tell him that you don't think that its such a good idea for the two of you to go out. Tell him that you dont like sneaking around and that he's a really great guy, but you don't thinkl it would be a good idea for the two of you to date. Tell him that you think theres too much of age difference even. Tell him anything, that may convince him to not go out with you, but try and stick to the truth, because if you dont then he may catch you in a lie. Even if you think that he wont, avoid lying anyway.
I hope that answered your quetion. Hope I helped. Love ya,
angie91
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Just tell him that you dont want a relationship and that hes a little to old for you. Tell him you just want to be friends :]
hope i have helped in any way!
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well do you like this guy??
if your answer is no then you should tell him straight up that you dont have feelings for him. if hes a shy person like you said say it in a gentle way. dont hurt him. but if you do like him then tell ur dad and if you cant for some reason maybe because youre dad is those tuff guys then sneak around with him. but be careful you might get caught. you have to be really sneaky.
hope i helped!
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