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Okay. Well there is this story. A "guy" and a "girl" started out flirting this one night but b4 they realized it they were making out. The problem is that the guy already has a g/f and his g/f is the "girl's" bestfriend's sister and also her bestfriend too. That "guy" and the "girl" who made out r bestfriends to begin with and emotions got caught. So the "girl" doesn't know wat to do since she feels this guilt in her each day and it won't go away. Also, the "guy" and the "girl" are keeping the whole make out thing a secret. What do u have 2 say about that story? (p.s i'm the "girl" and i'm 14)
Well, if you knew they were going out..that prolly wasn't the smartest thing to do. But since it happend, you can't go back on that. But that guilt is going to stay with you whether you like it or not. I'm sure the guy has it as well! All I have to say is..goodluck trying to keep that hidden from his g/f..although that's a wrong thing to do..sorry:[
this girl iwas going out with... broke up with me the other day. theres rumors going arounf school that i cheated on her, but i didnt. and her cousin told her, then a bunch of her friends told her, and its not true.... today at school... i tryed talking to her... and she just started crying.... i love her and she dosnt beleave me that i didnt cheat on her.... is there any thing i can do to get her to beleave me? i have no idea what to do.... plz help me!!!
All you can really do is bring her aside where there's no one else around and talk to her straight up. Tell her what's on your mind and that in all honesty, you didn't cheat on her. That's a tough one :[ Sorry about all that, goodluck hun! I hope you get her back!
hey im 14years old.and my ex bf now,asked me out sometime in june he promised me that he would never hurt me and would love me forever and all that crap ummm hes 16 well everything was fine for a few months then like 2weeks ago he started calling me less..well my friend called me and said that he was cheating on me with one of my friends i had no idea she knew..i went crazy they were talkin about having sex and here im thinking u know his parents are going through a divorce maybe he just needed time i felt like i didnt something wrong i love him still and i know i shouldnt what do u think about this whole situation reply back i will rate good..thanx
no matter what the situation is, he shouldn't cheat on you! It's just not right at all! I'd say break up with him, I know it's gunna be hard to get over him, but you don't want a guy who's going to cheat on you now do ya? Goodluck!
What do you look like?
hm..
Height--5'0 (yea I know I'm short, get over it)
Weight--about 98lbs(nope..not annorexic)
Hair--Dirty blonde w/ blonde highlights..a lil past my shoulders
Eyes--Hazelish..
I have a small ass& big boobs :[ haha!
Keep in mind this is an advice column, not a "Ask Amber what she looks like" column..thanksss:]
I have a friend who said lylas to me when im a guy.... WHat should i do
SCOTT I'M SORRY! **lylaB** You know I love you! :[ please forgive me! LOL
hey u kno how some people talk about a grl like having numbers sumthin like 36/25/34 or suntin like that?? what do those numbers mean?????
The first number is the bust size..then the middle is the girl's wasit..then the last is her hips..*36-24-36* hah only if she's 5'3
I want this little computer type thing.. Its like a computer but really small and it cost lik 100 dallors.. U can only go online on it. Thats all u can do... My mom saw it but accdently through it away...Does anyone know where that is or what its called.. pleez help -I RATE
I have something like that& it's called IMFree..it fits the desciption you mentioned and I can only get on AIM from it as well. Goodluck finding it!
this is to all the girls is it norrmal to masterbate, if i dont am i weird, i mean is it like the guys if u dont jack off ur gay
It's normal, and no if you don't do it, that doesn't by any means make you weird. Some people are against it, and that's perfectly okay *You know who you are* I never understood why if guys don't jack off then people automatically label them as being gay..it's stupid! It's just what YOU choose to do:]
I lie alot.... like alot... but most of it is small stuff.. is that bad? and if some1 asks me something i really do not want to tell them and i lie about it is that bad to?
Well uhm, yea..it is bad. You shouldn't lie just b/c you don't want to tell someone something. That's gunna come back& haunt you later on in life.
What are some good ways of curing boredom?
Reading, talking to friends online, writing, looking at magazines, drawing..I'm rarely bored..sorry I wasn't much help!
Im guessing Kazaa is illegal, is limewire illegal?
yes& yes..and as for the additional info, it's illegal to download music& burn them onto cd's unless you pay for the music..
this boy i like ..-tom- well we just broke up..and he got over me really fast..but i think he did becasue my so called frined told him that she liked him..but the thing is that me an tom were still goiN OUT...and then that night we got into a fight so i dumped him becasue he was bein gay about it ..but now he likes tha other gurl..an the thing is i wanna know how he could get oveer me soo fast..plz help..
Maybe he didn't like you as much as you thought he did. Buts ome guys can get over things faster than other..Don't worry about it though, he's obviously a jerk! Sorry hun! :[
me and this boy have been going out for almost two months..i really like him but he has cheated on me..but he was honest and told me..i also like his brother which likes me too..i dont know if me and my boyfriend should breake up and i should go with his brother or stay with him..can you help me?
It's really tough to do break up with a guy& go out with his brother. I wouldn't recommend that, but if you like his brother more, then break up with him..and maybe wait on dating his brother..he won't be too thrilled about that. But if you can forgive your current b/f for cheating on you, and you still trust him& all..stay with him. Hope that helped!
how do u get a girl to want to go out with you?
FLATTER HER! Give her cute compliments about just everyday things. Drop her hints that you want her:] Just don't flirt with her too much to the point of annoyance! Goodluck! GO GET HER! ;]
well, idk how to tell if a guy likes me and this guy talked to him for me or he was supposed to talk to him for me this weekend but im soooo nervous to find out what he says .. and if he doesnt then i think it will be awkward right? what should i do to get him off my mind?
I hate that feeling, but if he doesn't like you..just play it off! It might be a little awkward, but that's only if you make it that way. Just act normal around him afterwards. If you wanna get your mind off of him, just focus on other things& hang out with other friends for awhile& just have fun!
Hi. im a female at 13 years of age. And i need some advice. Ok so, I have a little bit of a flabby tummy. Its not a lot.. but i still feel uncomfortable with it. Most of the time in school I wear sweaters cause i dont want to show off my tummy. Christmas is sorta coming and I want some cute clothes that will look cute on me without people making fun of me for the little bit of tummy i have.
please help! i rate all 5's. thanks!
Do like 50 crunches every night and slowly increased the number you do each night whenever you stop feeling like it's helping. You can also eatless junk food(unless you already do) Hope I helped!
Hi, I am a 14 year old female and I am in love with my best guyfriend. We have known eachother for 5 years and we go to the same school and we always sit together at lunch. But, I dont know if he likes me back! He is always sending mixed messeges to me and I can never figure it out! It is really frustrating me and I need to know if he likes me. We always mess around by like tripping eachother in the hallway or hitting eachother with books and stuff. I dont know if its just fun or flirting!I really want to know! Also, the other day, we were talking about who we liked, and i made up some guy and he was wondering who it was, so if that helps and the only reason that he sits with me at lunch is probably cuz im his only friend that goes to Sprayberry! thanks so much! i rate high!
It seems to me that he likes you! Ask him how he feels about you..ask him if he tihnks of you as more than a best friend.. Some guys have a tendency to send SO many different vibes to girls, but just drop him some clues that you're into him..Goodluck!
k me and my [ex] bf broke up ALONG LONG LONG time ago..i think he even has another gf now, but neway its been like a year or something that we havent been together and we havent even talkd in almost that long..it would be our 2 yr anniversary comin up in like a month...we broke up in tha rainy season and it was SUCH heartbreak for me..i cried every night for like 3 months straight....but the thing is, not even like 2 hrs will go by that i dont think of him...and since its the rainy season im thinkin about him so much more and im really sad..this isnt normal to STILL not be over some1 by now is it?
Yes, it is possible to still not be over him. You obviously had really strong feelings for this guy! There are probably things going on around you that remind you of him, i.e-- the rainy season. If you want to get back with him, talk to him and let him know how you feel. If you WANT to be over him then try avoiding the things that remind you of him. Since you can't avoid the rain, just try focusing on other guys or do other things to keep your mind on other things besides him. Hope I helped!
hey um... lately i haven't really talked to my boyfriend... i really miss him and he lives kinda far away... but not to far.. anyways it doesnt really feel like we're going out anymore i love him alot though.. i dont want us to break up... how can i fix this?thanks bye!
Call him or have him call you! If he has a s/n on AIM or something just talk to him there. Long distance relationships usually don't work out b/c they are harder to deal with b/c of lack of communication. Goodluck with everything though :-/
What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?
IF I had a child..I'd say around 13/14..but I'd like to meet the guy/girl. At first I'd say kissing, holding hands,& hugging. But when they get older I'd be easier on them.