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Hi, I am a 14 year old female and I am in love with my best guyfriend. We have known eachother for 5 years and we go to the same school and we always sit together at lunch. But, I dont know if he likes me back! He is always sending mixed messeges to me and I can never figure it out! It is really frustrating me and I need to know if he likes me. We always mess around by like tripping eachother in the hallway or hitting eachother with books and stuff. I dont know if its just fun or flirting!I really want to know! Also, the other day, we were talking about who we liked, and i made up some guy and he was wondering who it was, so if that helps and the only reason that he sits with me at lunch is probably cuz im his only friend that goes to Sprayberry! thanks so much! i rate high!
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ask him...
or! when he asks you who you like, make him guess... when he asks for a clue, tell him essentially something nice about himself, for example, "well, it's a constant struggle not to fall for him... he keeps trying to trip me," etc... (comment on his hair/eyes/whatever)
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He might like you, but he's probally always acted that way around you and you're just now noticing because you like him. Also, from reading just what you wrote there might be a change that he is gay. Now I don't know him and I'm not saying he is but a lot of gay guys flirt with girls to be friendly. I've had to deal with the same problem but i had known the guy since I was 3. He wasn't gay though but if you have any more questions ask.
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Guess what: I have now had a relationship with my best guy friend from high school for 5 1/2 years and we have an 11 mo. old son together now too. It is so great to fall in love with your best guy friend. It is a great foundation for love to begin with friendship. This is what you should do: Spend more time with him. Don't try to think TOO hard about those mixed signals he's sending. Just enjoy your time with him and keep feeling the feelings you're feeling, it's not a bad thing to do. As you spend more and more time with him, his true feelings will surface. Just one thing: Try not to tell him little white lies like you did about liking someone. Now you're sending HIM mixed signals that could erase what would be. Just be his friend but with more time spent together, plot out special times not just anything, but something special once in a while. Make him know you care a lot about him and enjoy being with him, which should make him enjoy time spent with you. I hope it all works out for you!
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It seems to me that he likes you! Ask him how he feels about you..ask him if he tihnks of you as more than a best friend.. Some guys have a tendency to send SO many different vibes to girls, but just drop him some clues that you're into him..Goodluck!
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It sounds like he's just having fun with you. I wouldn't say anything because you could risk the friendship and make things awkward. Don't go getting all frustrated, just relax and accept him as a friend.
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Hey, I think that maybe he likes you but Im not quite sure because they info you gave isnt enough to tell if he likes you..if i were you i would get tha guts to be like.."would if be weird if i liked you more than a friend?" and take it from there..
love kristin
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