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Cheating?
Okay. Well there is this story. A "guy" and a "girl" started out flirting this one night but b4 they realized it they were making out. The problem is that the guy already has a g/f and his g/f is the "girl's" bestfriend's sister and also her bestfriend too. That "guy" and the "girl" who made out r bestfriends to begin with and emotions got caught. So the "girl" doesn't know wat to do since she feels this guilt in her each day and it won't go away. Also, the "guy" and the "girl" are keeping the whole make out thing a secret. What do u have 2 say about that story? (p.s i'm the "girl" and i'm 14)
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Man, that is a tough situation. Well, at your age, emotions will most definately "run high". Hormones do make you do crazy things. I think that it is normal that you two kissed. I'm not saying that it is okay that you two made-out, but it is normal for boys and girls to get curious or caught up in "a moment". It is not okay, though, if you and this boy make-out on a regular basis. So, clear things up between you two (if there is anything to clear up). Make sure you both understand that if you two were to kiss again, that you would both be single. If you really like him, and he really likes you, then he should be gentleman enough to break off relationships with his current girlfriend. But if the guilt is killing you, tell the boy that you kissed that you two should tell what you both did, and that you really didn't mean to.
P.S. It's really not that big of a deal, because he's not married, and both of you regret it a lot. Just never do it again haha. :)
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Well, if you knew they were going out..that prolly wasn't the smartest thing to do. But since it happend, you can't go back on that. But that guilt is going to stay with you whether you like it or not. I'm sure the guy has it as well! All I have to say is..goodluck trying to keep that hidden from his g/f..although that's a wrong thing to do..sorry:[
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well okay first that was wrong to do bt then again u cant control how u feel and what is done is done i think u both need to tell her the truth and tell her how u both feel it sounds hard bt it may be the best thing other than dat u can just keep it to urself bt its gonna b boiled up inside u until u do let it all loose hope i helped - niina
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